Gay guide to Bangkok for first timers (2025)

“OMG Stefan, we almost hit that car…I can't…I'm going to keep my eyes firmly closed! Just let me know when we've arrived safely at Stranger Bar while I pray to the gay gods for safe passage…”

Nothing beats the rush of adrenaline as we whizzed through the CRAZY traffic jams of Bangkok hanging on for dear life inside a cutesy tuk-tuk with its driver smiling at these two hysterical giggling foreigners in the back…

We both love it – the feeling of the humid, almost putrid air hitting your face as you swerve from one end of the street to the other, car horns manically beeping at each other.

We'll be frank, Bangkok is by no means a pretty city. Our initial reaction on our first visit was: what a hot mess! It's polluted, it's dirty, rats compete for space on the busy pavements, the traffic is mad, and concrete blocks line the streets as far as your eyes can see.

Yet, we love everything about Bangkok!

We've been traveling to Thailand every year since we started Nomadic Boys and its capital is a place we often talk about moving to permanently. It is exciting, unpredictable and in our opinion has one of the best gay scenes in the world. For example, on any given day, the gay streets of Silom are on fire, packed with gays from all over (Bangkok is a major transport hub) with drag queens on hand to entertain.

We hope our gay guide to Bangkok will inspire you to visit in 2024 and help you to fall in love with this city as much as we have.

Gay tour of Thailand

Discover how Thailand earned its moniker ‘The Land of Smiles' on this awesome gay tour with Out Adventures. The boys over at OA run four annual departures through the country with stops in Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Krabi, and Phuket. It's a fantastic way for first-timers to Thailand to get a thorough flavor of this incredible country with a fabulous bunch of squirrel friends to hand.

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How safe is Bangkok for gay travelers?

Oh, it is very safe!

The Thais are the most tolerant and chilled people we've ever encountered. This has helped a very international LGBTQ community thrive all across the Thai capital. Just switch on your Grindr when you arrive and you'll see what we mean…

We've been to Bangkok many times and have never had any hassle from anyone for being gay. We found the Thai people to be respectful, humble, and above all else, so welcoming. They shy away from confrontation, opting for peace and tranquility. Not once did we ever feel put out anywhere. This is one of the main reasons why we rate Thailand as one of the most gay friendly places in Asia.

This is also why we feel so safe when walking the streets in Bangkok. Not once did we feel dodgy as we would in a city like Delhi or Cape Town where valuables must be out of sight or locked away!

All travelers, straight and gay, should exercise the same level of commonsense caution as you would back home… “Stefan, pay attention when you're walking – get off your phone!” – a phrase Seby harks at me whether walking down the streets of Silom or sashaying down the boulevards of the Gaixample in Barcelona…

For the latest travel safety advice, entry requirements and any travel restrictions to Thailand, we recommend looking at the US Department of State advice for Thailand as well as the British Foreign Office Thailand page.

Where is the gay area of Bangkok?

Silom is the OFFICIAL gay area of Bangkok with a less-than-glamorous beginning, starting as part of a dyke and irrigation system in the 1850s. Fast forward to the present where it is now the pulsing heart of the bustling gay district.

Silom Soi 4 is the main gay street in Bangkok. It is packed with gay bars with large outdoor terraces like Balcony, Circus, and Stranger Bar. We love it here. There's always something happening, every day of the week!

A few blocks down from Silom Soi 4 is Silom Soi 2. This is another gay street full of small gay clubs, dominated by DJ Station. Round the back from Silom Soi 2 is another famous gay club called G Bangkok (aka GOD). This is also where you'll find some of the best gay restaurants in Bangkok.

Finally, if gay massage is your thing, you'll wanna head over to Silom Soi 6 which is where the bulk of the gay massage parlors can be found.

Discover Bangkok's gay nightlife on a personalized tour

The gay scene in Bangkok can be quite overwhelming, especially for first-timers. If you feel nervous going out by yourself, we strongly recommend this guided personalized nighttime tour!

A gay local will guide you through the best gay bars and clubs in the city, at the same time making a whole heap of awesome new friends!

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Gay hotels in Bangkok

Though we are comfortable in our relationship as a gay couple, we’d be lying if we said that we are not at least a little bit nervous when entering a new hotel for the first time – would this place make a scene? Would we be welcome, or would there be judgment?

Thankfully in all cases when traveling through the capital city, these were all just the nagging worries of divas. We couldn’t have been made to feel more welcome! We never had any problems booking a double bed in any of the hotels we stayed at. We summarise our favorite gay hotels to stay in Bangkok in 2024 below:

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W Hotel

Bang Rak

Why we love it

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• Super chic hotel where the cool gays stay!
• Stunning spa and well-stocked gym
• Short 15-minute walk to Silom Soi 4 gay bars

All those hot model-like topless profiles you'll see on your Grindr who are in town for the White Party will be staying here.

The W is as synonymous with gayness as it is with luxury. Inside, the W is glorious – like a beautiful piece of art!

Think minimalist mixed with wild and extraordinary colors. It reminded us a little of a catholic jock with a mischievous side…the best kind of guy! Mostly cool white, black, and grey, then suddenly there's an ultra-modern piece of art that was a riot of color.

Honestly, it crossed our minds when we saw our rooms that it was almost too pretty to sleep in. Emphasis on almost! Aside from their astounding beauty, the rooms are comfortable.

The facilities are also amazing. It has all the usual things that can be expected in a modern hotel…though the limousine service is a nice bonus! It also has a fantastic well-stocked gym and a magnificent spa. Oh, my lawd, this spa was something else altogether…Honestly, the W is a gay nirvana!

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Banyan Tree Bangkok

Sathorn

Why we love it

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• Peaceful and zen gay hotel
• Romantic rooftop restaurant and bar
• Short walk to the gay bars of Bangkok through the Patpong Night Market

The Banyan Tree is a fabulous little gem just a short walk from Silom Soi 4 through Patpong Market.

It's not luxury and it's not budget – somewhere in between. This is our pick for gay travelers looking for a mid-range gay hotel that is close to the gay scene and that also has a fantastic rooftop!

The first thing we felt when entering was how zen it is – and also how gay it is: the LGBTQ community makes up the bulk of their clientele! This was the favorite thing about the Banyan. We quickly developed a sisterhood with the other guys staying here, heading out to Circus, Stranger, and DJ Station together almost every night.

The rooftop Moon Bar is the other thing we love about the Banyan Tree. It's glorious! There is a bar and restaurant – romantic sunset cocktail drinks became our daily pastime before meeting up with our new-found squirrel friends to head over to Silom Soi 4.

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Silom Space Hostel

Bang Rak

Why we love it

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• Great value for money
• Chilled atmosphere
• Located in the heart of the Bangkok gay scene in Silom Soi 2

We used to stay at this gay friendly hostel all the time in our younger gay years when we wanted to save some coin whilst being right inside the gay scene of Bangkok.

That's 'cause Silom Space Hostel is located in Silom Soi 2 gay street next door to the iconic DJ Station gay club.

Inside, the rooms are simple but chic. They offer a pick of various-sized dorm rooms as well as rooms with double beds with private bathrooms – a must when traveling with a fussy Seby. Cozy but comfortable is how we felt here. Remember you're paying for simple hostel-style digs so don't come expecting Ritz-style-private-butler service for example!

The location is the main reason we recommend Space. Not only are you on the city's gayest street with the MRT on your doorstep but you also have Lumpini Park nearby, which I love going to for a sunset run and using its large outdoor gym.

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Gay Tours of Bangkok

Over all the years we've been coming to Bangkok, we've made loads of friends who have shown us the best of the city's gay scene. We'll never have the real nitty-gritty history that a local will have, which is why we always seek out tours led by locals when we want a deeper insight into the big city.

We also love gay tours because they are a great way to quickly make new friends whilst discovering the gay scene together. Below we've set out some of the best gay tours that we think you should check out:

A tailored private tour of the gay scene of Bangkok

We particularly recommend this personalized gay night-out tour to solo gay travelers visiting for their first time.

The Thai capital is overwhelming to first-timers – we experienced that feeling firsthand! Having a gay local who's got your back makes the world of a difference. This tour not only includes a 1 on 1 guide but also a drink at two different show venues.

The other thing we love about this gay tour is that it's a great way to quickly make new friends at the different bars.

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Gay club night in Bangkok

This is a more cost-effective tour of the gay scene of Bangkok with a fabulous local run by TravelMe.

They offer a great night out and are a bit cheaper than the other gay tours because you get to explore the less…classy parts of the Thai capital that other tours will shy away from!

Your gay guide will also bring you to the best drag queen shows and karaoke bars. It will be a night to remember!

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Gay tour of Thailand with Out Adventures

For a more in-depth gay tour of Thailand, we recommend this fantastic gay tour with Out Adventures. It begins in Bangkok taking in the Grand Palace, trying an array of street food, and a night out in the gay scene of Silom. The tour then heads to Chiang Mai, Krabi, and Phuket. The bonus: quote “NomadicOA” when booking and they'll include a $150 discount!

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Gay bars in Bangkok

Silom Soi 4 is where we come to strut our stuff. Walking down the alley under all the dazzling lights, and you can practically taste the good times! Each of the gay bars has a terrace that sprawls out into the street, making sure that there will be a messy street party later.

In short, Silom Soi 4 is EPIC! The only exception to the Silom Soi 4 gay bar bubble is Pangina Heal‘s resident bar, House of Heals, which we've also included in this section. For gay bars beyond Silom Soi 4, check out our bumper guide to the best gay bars in Bangkok.

Circus (formerly Telephone Bar)

Our trip to Bangkok doesn't start until we've found our front-row seat at Circus with a freshly made Pad Thai and a couple of Margaritas as we sit back and watch the show unfold in front of us.

As well as the bar's drag queens performing on the street right before our eyes, everyone who is everyone on the Thai capital's gay scene will pass along here at some stage in the evening…those cuties you were chatting to on Grindr earlier? You'll spot them all here, trust us!

• Address: Circus is located in Silom Soi 4 gay street next to Stranger Bar. To get there, take the MRT to Sala Daeng, Silom Soi 4 is next to the station.
• Opening hours: Circus is open every day until around 2 am.
• Our favorite: Their Pad Thai, Chicken Satay and Margaritas

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The Stranger Bar

This is our favorite gay bar in Silom and one of the most popular in the entire city. We always end up here at some stage during the evening. It's like a family – and it is, largely thanks to the charismatic mother of Stranger Bar called M who hosts a series of hilarious drag shows with her super-talented daughters like Cherilyn Stranger, and Gisele Rafael. Word up – fans of Drag Race Thailand will love Stranger Bar as stars from the show often hang out here! Heads up, as of February 2024, Stranger Bar has moved to a nice shiny bigger venue towards the back end of Silom Soi 4.

• Address: Stranger Bar is located at the back end of Silom Soi 4, just a few minutes walk from Sala Daeng, the closest MRT station.
• Opening hours: Stranger Pub is open every day until around 2 am.
• Our favorite: Hilarious Drag Shows (daily from 11 pm) and the charismatic owner M.

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Balcony Pub

Similar in style to Circus Bar located just opposite, Balcony is another institution on the Bangkok gay scene. It has a large terrace seating area outside that faces both the outside crowd and the ad hoc drag performers.

Shout out to the staff – they're super friendly and will make every effort to find you the best table. We love their cocktails with an impressive selection to choose from – Margaritas for me, Mai Thais for Seby!

• Address: Balcony Pub is located on the Silom Soi 4 gay street opposite Circus. The closest MRT station is Sala Daeng.
• Opening hours: Balcony Pub is open every day until around 2 am.
• Our favorite: The view across the terrace 😉

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HUGs Bar

HUGs is THE best gay bear bar in Bangkok. The karaoke is a bonus! Do you feel like singing Dancing Queen by Abba as much as Seby does? Then HUGs Bar may be for you. It's cozy, and cutesy with a mix of both locals and foreigners.

The fun here flows as easily as the drinks on tap, especially on weekends. We also love heading here for a few intimate drinks: HUGs is located at the back of Silom Soi 4 so it doesn't get as busy as Balcony or Circus.

• Address: HUGs Bar is located at 82 Silom Soi 4, the gay street. The closest MRT station is Sala Daeng.
• Opening hours: HUGs Bar is open Wednesday to Sunday until around 2 am.
• Our favorite: Quiet, intimate, and amazing cocktails

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House of Heals

You were also rooting for her on Drag Race UK versus the World right? Dubbed “Asia's most famous drag queen”, Miss Pangina has set up her own drag bar in her hometown, aptly called, “House of Heals“. Here, her daughters entertain the crowds every night of the week (except Tuesdays).

We love the Charisma, the Uniqueness, the Nerve, the Talent of these luscious queens…trust us – just head here for one of your gay nights out in Bangkok!

• Address: House of Heals is located at 518/8 Phloen Chit Rd, Pathum Wan. It is a 5-minute walk from Ratchamdamri station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: House of Heals is open daily (except Tuesdays) until around 2 am.

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Gay clubs in Bangkok

Silom Soi 2 is the place to head for the gay clubs. Located just 2 blocks from Silom Soi 4, we'd head here from around 11 pm onwards. We start at DJ Station first for the drag shows and then dance through each of the other small bars clustered together in this tight small street.

For gay boys who want to dance topless and get sweaty, we recommend heading over to G Bangkok just behind Silom Soi 2.

When we first came to Silom Soi 2 many moons ago we weren’t sure what to expect exactly. We just knew that we were in the mood to dance the night away and get a little sweaty(!). When we arrived, it looked surprisingly organized albeit heaving!

We could hear the music starting to pound through the clubs we were passing, and our heartbeats started to quicken in excitement. Having said that, come on a Saturday night and it's one huge disorganized busy mess (and we LOVE it!)

DJ Station

This gay club is sometimes considered a pilgrimage for gays in Asia! This is our usual haunt when we want to dance away the fever of the night. DJ is by far our favorite gay club in the city. There are 3 floors of different music with all types of people and it is busy throughout the week.

This means there isn’t ever really a bad time to go to DJ Station. It can get mad busy on Saturdays though! The drinks are reasonably priced. There are of course drag shows and an entire room devoted to K-Pop, both of which get going from around 11 pm onwards. Overall a great experience to have a messy gay fun night!

• Address: DJ station is located at Silom Soi 1/2 in Silom. It is a 3-minute walk from the closest MRT station Sala Daeng on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: 8 pm – 2 am every day.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): DJ Station entry fee is 300 baht ($9) Monday to Thursday and 400 baht Friday to Sunday. It includes 2 free drinks.

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G Bangkok (G.O.D)

With a name like this, how could we not go in? Once inside, we immediately saw the shirtless dancers on stage. They were imposing specimens and crazy cute! This gay club starts to get super busy from midnight.

Everyone's shirt quickly disappears as they enter and the entire venue transforms into one massive gay sweatbox! Overall this place is a good call, the guys are cute, the drinks are decent, and the music is what you need to get gyrating.

• Address: G.O.D Bangkok is located at Silom Soi 2/1 in Silom, a short walk away from the closest MRT station Sala Daeng on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: 10 pm – 3 am every day.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): G.O.D entry fee is 400 baht ($12) and includes 2 free drinks.

RUSH

RUSH is the hottest new gay club in Bangkok. Good boys go to DJ, the bad boys go to GOD…and the super bad boys go to RUSH!

RUSH began during Songkran (mid-April) in 2024 and has been thriving ever since. It's located in the same building as Club Back Door (see below) on the 4/5th floor – next door to GOD.

• Address: RUSH is located at Silom Soi 2/1 in Silom, a short walk away from the closest MRT station Sala Daeng on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: 9 pm – 3 am every day.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): RUSH entry is free.

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PULSE Club Back Door

The fantastic PULSE Clinic in Silom is so awesome that they bought a space next to GOD Club and also host gay parties in Bangkok called PULSE Club. Whereas the K-Pop kids head to DJ Station and the Circuit Boys to GOD, PULSE Club is for the ravers and techno lovers. PULSE has ad hoc parties several times a month but watch this space as they shift to become a weekly staple in Bangkok.

PULSE Club is also a multi-purpose space hosting other events like naked drawing and Opera Night on Fridays. Check their website for details of the next event.

• Address: PULSE Club Back Door is located next door to GOD Club, the full address is: 60 23 Si Lom, Khwaeng Suriya Wong, Khet Bang Rak, Bangkok 10500.
• Opening hours: vary depending on the party; check their website and socials for details of the next party.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): varies depending on the party.

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BEEF Bear Party @ Silver Sand

Located on the second floor of the iconic Silver Sand building is the hottest new gay club in Bangkok…for bears and daddies. We always have a ball here. Zero attitude with awesome pop music – both international and K-pop!

Silver Sand is the first building you see immediately on your right as you enter Silom Soi 4. Downstairs it's a restaurant. The first floor is the #Bipolar drag night, and up several more flights of stairs is BEEF!

• Address: Beef is located on the second floor of Silver Sand on Silom Soi 4. The full address is 70,72 Soi Silom 2/1, Bangkok 10500. It's a few minutes walk from the Sala Daeng MRT station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: Friday and Saturday 9 pm-3 am. Every other day from 8 pm to 1 am; closed on Tuesdays.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): Fake Club cost of entry is 350 baht ($9) and includes 2 free drinks. You can also purchase a VIP ticket for 14,000 baht ($10) which includes 2 free drinks.

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Fake Club Bangkok

Located near the famous Chatuchak (JJ) Weekend Market, Fake Club Bangkok used to be called Fake Club The Next Gen but they have since rebranded and moved into a larger space. They play all the most popular divas, from Britney to Lady Gaga.

It's super popular with the young, fashionable crowd, particularly on weekends when it gets packed. There's also the Fake Cafe next door if you want a quieter bar and restaurant experience.

• Address: Fake Club is located at 60/1 Soi, 4 Ratchadaphisek Rd, 5 min walk from Phra Ram 9 station on the MRT blue line.
• Opening hours: 9.30 pm – 2 am every day.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): Fake Club cost of entry is 300 baht ($9) and includes 2 free drinks. You can also purchase a VIP ticket for 14,000 baht ($415) which includes a bottle of Thai whiskey and mixers.

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Where to get an STI and HIV test & treatment in Bangkok?

Condom split? Need to top up your PrEP, or need a full check-up after a hardcore weekend at the White Party(!)? We recommend the PULSE Clinic. There are several dotted around Bangkok including Nana, Asoke, Phromphong, Phloenchit, and Phayathai. However, the main one is located right in the heart of the gay area in Silom, just across from GOD on the main road, by Sala Daeng BTS station.

PULSE is gay-owned and managed. When you go inside you quickly realise. It's super gay! The artwork is something else(!) but most importantly the staff is amazing…honestly, they've seen everything!

The big sell of PULSE is their impressive ‘Check Your Holes' PCR28, which tests for a whopping 28 STIs…your jaw also dropped, right? We only knew 5 of them…but 28?! Prices for the PULSE PCR28 test are 6,700 Baht (around $190).

PULSE also offers PrEP, PEP, and HIV medication, as well as invaluable advice about DoxyPEP…7 days a week!

Bangkok gay pride and events

Surprisingly for what we deem to be the gay capital of Asia, the city doesn't have a very active gay Pride event. Bangkok Pride took place in June 2022 for the first time in 16 years and the plan is for it to continue annually, but watch this space!

The other main gay event to look out for is the Songkran G Circuit, which takes place during the Thai Buddhist New Year celebrations in April. We've included a few other gay events and parties – the Pride Cruise boat party is another one you should look out for:

Pride Cruise Bangkok – dates vary

The Pride Cruises take place at various times throughout the year, usually in December, March, and April. They take place on a four-story party boat with two different stages and room for 320 people, you'll get to live out all your sailor fantasies! You won't have to worry about seasickness as the boat cruises up and down the river from sunset till late.

• Next Pride Cruise Bangkok party: occurs at various times throughout 2024. Check the Pride Cruise Bangkok Facebook page for the latest info and also reach out to locals on Grindr who will have the latest insider knowledge about it.
• Location: usually takes place on Bangkok Island on Sathorn Pier
• Price: Tickets start from around 500 baht ($15).

Songkran G Circuit and Songkran Festival – April

Songkran is the Thai New Year festival that takes place in April. While the official date is the 13th of April, the Thai government gives everyone the week off to travel and spend time with family. The Songkran G Circuit takes place during that week and is one of the biggest (and best!) gay festivals in all of Asia.

Outside of the G Circuit parties, every gay venue will have something happening during Songkran, mainly involving water. The tradition is to throw water at someone you find cute in the streets, so expect to get soaking wet! Thankfully, April is the hottest month in Bangkok.

• Next Songkran G Circuit festival: April 11-14, 2025
• Location: various parties at different locations – check the Songkran G Circuit website for the latest info
• Price: Tickets start from 2,200 baht ($65) and go up depending on which party you book and how early you book them. We recommend booking them online as soon as you can for the best offers.

Bangkok Gay Pride – June

A welcome addition to the gay scene of Bangkok! For years – almost 2 decades(!), Bangkok has been without a gay Pride event, which is bizarre given that it is THE gay hub of Asia. Despite this, in 2022 and 2023 Bangkok Pride went ahead and was a hit.

Although details of the next Bangkok Pride are not yet set in stone, it should occur on the first Sunday of June.

Bangkok Pride is a month-long celebration during Pride month and includes a drag brunch, film festival, cruise party, and a parade. Check the Bangkok Pride Facebook page for the latest details of the next event.

• Next Bangkok Gay Pride: first Sunday of June.
• Location: various – to be confirmed very soon!
• Prices: some events are tickets, and others are free and open to all.

White Party Bangkok – December/January

If you live in Bangkok, you get to celebrate New Year twice yearly! Along with the famous Songkran G Circuit for Thai New Year, the ‘regular' New Year sees Bangkok's White Party giving the gays a night to remember.

While it's officially called a party, multiple parties take place in the lead-up to the new year, from December 28 until the wee hours of January 1st. Picture thousands of hot shirtless men, dancing to the pumping beats in huge venues with world-class DJs and incredible drag performances!

• Next White Party Bangkok: the next white party in 2024 will take place daily from December 28th to January 1st.
• Location: the parties take place at various locations. Check the White Party website for the latest info.
• Price: tickets start from around 4,000 baht ($120) depending on which party and type of “package” you buy. Check the White Party website for the latest info and aim to buy the tickets ASAP to get the best offers.

Gay saunas in Bangkok

Sometimes a little steamy action is just what the doctor ordered. There are plenty of options for you to explore here. Variety is the spice of life!

The most popular gay sauna (pre-Covid days!) was the infamous Babylon… Sadly it is now officially permanently closed. However, there are still plenty more worth checking out so we've highlighted our favorite gay saunas to check out in 2024.

KRUBB Bangkok Social Club & Sauna

Since Babylon closed down, Krubb is lauded as the best gay sauna in the city. It's a bit far out – around 25 mins taxi ride west of Silom Soi 4 but this is part of its charm – it's a very local crowd. The best time to come is in the early evening when guys are at their thirstiest!

• Address: Krubb Bangkok is located at 112 112 Sukhumvit Plus 2 Alley, Phra Khanong, a 10 min walk Phra Khanong station on the Sukhumvit line.
• Opening hours: Krubb is open from 2 pm – 12 am every day.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): Krubb cost of entry is 220 Baht before 5 pm and after 10 pm. Otherwise, it is 390 Baht.

Sauna Mania

This is the best gay sauna for Bangkok if you want something within walking distance to Silom Soi 4. It's pretty large with 5 floors, with a gym on the ground floor and a rooftop terrace chillout area.

• Address: Sauna Mania is located at 35/2 Soi Phiphat 2 in Silom, close to Sala Daeng MRT station.
• Opening hours: Sauna Mania is open from 3 pm – 2 am every day.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): Sauna Mania cost of entry is 300 Baht.

Heaven Sauna

One for the bears and older men. Also located close to Silom Soi 4, Heaven is popular if you want to stay “local” and not travel far. It has a gym and a glorious open-air Jacuzzi on the rooftop garden.

• Address: Heaven Sauna is located on the 4th floor of the B.I.S Building at 119 Soi Mahesak in Silom, a 10 min walk from Saphan Taksin BTS station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: Heaven Sauna is open from 1 pm – 10 pm every day (closed on Mondays).
• Entry fee (updated 2024): The cost of entry is 180 Baht Tuesday – Thursday and 200 Baht Friday – Sunday.

Chakran Sauna

Chakran, spread over 5 floors and popular with both locals and foreigners. It's around 20 minute's cab ride north of Silom Soi 4. The best time to come is around 7:30 pm when the after-work crowd reaches its peak.

• Address: Chakran Sauna is located at 32 Chakran Building, Soi Ari 4 Soi Paholyothin 7 Phayathai Phaya Thai, a 7 min walk from Ari BTS station on the Sukhumvit line.
• Opening hours: Chakran Sauna is open from 3 pm – 12 am Monday to Thursday and 2 pm – 12 am Friday to Sunday.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): The cost of entry is 390 Baht including one free drink.

Phoenix Sauna (formerly EDOK)

Phoenix is another popular gay sauna if you're looking for a more local experience thanks to it being off the gay-beaten track. Located in the Bukkhalo neighborhood, a taxi from Silom Soi 4 will take around 30 minutes. Of special note here is their karaoke bar downstairs!

• Address: Phoenix Sauna is located at 72/5 Somdet Phra Chao Taksin Road in Thonburiopen, a 20-minute wall from Thalat Phlut MRT station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: Phoenix Sauna is open from 3 pm – 6 am daily.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): The cost of entry is 100 Baht if you join their chat groups, see more info on their Facebook page.

Ratchada Sauna

Ratchada Sauna is very popular with young Thai men in their 20s. Each night has a different theme, usually clothing optional or underwear. There's an exciting O-Party each Saturday night which gets pretty wild! A cab ride to Ratchada Sauna will take around 25-30 minutes from Silom Soi 4.

• Address: Ratchada Sauna is located at 502/373 Ratchada Soi 3, which is a suburb in north Bangkok. It is a 7-minute walk from Phra Ram 9 station on the MRT Blue line.
• Opening hours: Ratchada Sauna is open from 3 pm – 2 am every day.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): The cost of entry at Ratchada Sauna is 200 Baht.

Gay spa and massage in Bangkok

While gay saunas are a wonderful way to relax in a steam room and meet some hot fellas, sometimes what you need is a vigorous massage to soothe your sore muscles. Whether you've been stuck in an airplane for 18 hours or just have tired legs from all the shopping you've been doing, Bangkok is one of the best places to go for a massage. And yes, you can get ones with a “happy ending” if that's what you're in the mood for, but don't feel pressured if it's not your cup of tea!

The bulk of the gay massage parlors in Bangkok is in Silom Soi 6 with a few spread out in other places. Also remember, the minimum tip expected is 100 baht, regardless of how much your massage costs.

Thann Sanctuary: for a beautiful lush experience

Thann is one of the best spa experiences you'll have in Thailand. From the moment we stepped into the opulent surroundings of the Thann Sanctuary we were enveloped in an atmosphere of tranquility and luxury. The spa's elegant design, adorned with soothing colors and contemporary Thai aesthetics, provided a perfect escape from the bustling city outside. The skilled therapists delivered a personalized and rejuvenating treatment, incorporating the finest Thann products to create a sensory journey that left me feeling utterly pampered and revitalized.

• Address: There are 5 locations spread throughout Bangkok, but the one we tried was at Chatrium Grand Hotel, 5th Floor, Tower 2.
• Opening hours: all branches are open only Wednesday to Sunday from 10 am to 8 pm (on Sundays until 5 pm).
• Minimum tip: no minimum tip is expected, but we would strongly advise tipping your masseur around 10% of the cost of your treatment.

No Happy Endings here. The Prime Massage is very professional with excellent, clean facilities, and most importantly, brilliant massage. If you're not into the whole “Happy Ending” thing, then Prime Massage is your friend. You get to pick whether you want a male or female masseur/masseuse before starting and are then given a massage pajama-like outfit to wear: no skin-to-skin contact here! In terms of tips, budget for at least 200 baht.

• Address: The Prime Massage is located at 128, 23 Si Lom 6, Suriya Wong, Bang Rak. It is in the heart of the gay scene, a 5-minute walk from Sala Daeng station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: The Prime Massage is open from 11 am until midnight everyday.
• Minimum tip: 100 Baht.

Relax Thai Massage: gay massage, happy endings available!

In complete contrast to Prime Massage in Silom Soi 6 is Relax Thai. This is one of the smaller unassuming gay massage outlets on this street of which there are several clustered together. Each one has a group of cute masseurs standing outside enticing you in with their sweet smiles. Massages here are without clothing and naturally, they are likely to end in a very happy way but this comes down to what you want and what you agree on with your masseur.

We found that gay massage parlors like Relax are similar to all the others around – similar menu and price. Which one you pick comes down to which of the masseurs you click with so we suggest having a walk around and speaking with each of them. Tips vary from 200 baht to whatever your masseur will “quote” you verbally during your massage for whatever style of happy ending you agree on!

• Address: Relax Thai Massage is located at 9 Si Lom 6, Suriya Wong, Bang Rak, a 3-minute walk from Sala Daeng station on the Silom MRT line.
• Opening hours: Relax Thai Massage is open every day from 11 am to midnight.

The Adam Massage: gay massage, happy endings part of the service!

Come here if you expect a Happy Ending! If you're partying the night away at Balcony or Stranger and fancy a massage, then Adam Massage has got your back. Located in the heart of Silom Soi 4, the Adam Boys offer a range of treatments with delightful essential oil scents to choose from. If a Happy Ending is what you seek, then The Adam Massage will deliver (although budget for a hefty tip of around 1,000 to 2,000 baht – your masseur will specify mid-way through the massage).

• Address: The Adam Massage is located at 114 16 Si Lom, Suriya Wong, Bang Rak, a few minutes walk from Sala Daeng station on the Silom MRT line.
• Opening hours: The Adam Massage is open from 11 am to 11 pm every day.
• Minimum tip: 500 Baht.

Gay cruising in Bangkok

Historically, Bangkok was one of the most popular gay cruising hotspots in Asia, particularly around Saranrom Park and Lumphini Park.

However, with the rise in popularity of gay dating apps over the past 10 years, the outdoor gay cruising scene has been pretty much quiet. Today you'd struggle to find any outdoor cruising spaces in Bangkok, so Grindr is your friend if this is what you're looking for.

However, local friends have told of pretty raunchy tales of going jogging in places like Lumpini Park, locking eyes with a stranger, then heading to the public toilets there for playtime. The same for the toilets in some of the Malls like Siam Paragon.

Gay gyms in Bangkok

It's no secret that we like to keep our bodies looking good, both when we're traveling and at home! But the last thing we want is to get harassed by hairy hetero-apes while you're just trying to use that rowing machine. We like to read reviews of gyms when we're traveling to make sure they're going to be gay friendly. Luckily Bangkok has quite a few of these!

Fitness First Platinum Siam Paragon

Inside the massive Siam Paragon shopping mall, you'll find a gym that's popular with local gays: the flagship location of Fitness First. Fitness First Platinum Siam Paragon is huge, with two different floors housing multiple areas for free weights, cardio, cycling studios, and even a boxing ring.

They have a range of classes, super hot PTs, and of course, a spacious gym area. There are lots of amazing extras included in your entry or membership fee, like free towels and gym gear. This gym also provides some pretty stunning views out the windows of the Skytrains and the rest of the city.

Hot tip: if you don't want to join a gym, consider booking an Airbnb in one of the many condos that have a gym (and sometimes a pool). Otherwise, head to Lumpini Park which has an excellent outdoor gym and calisthenics park…we like to come here just to gawk at the eye candy, to be honest!

• Address: Fitness First Platinum Siam Paragon is located on the fourth floor of Siam Paragon, on Thanon Rama I Road.
• Opening hours: Fitness First Platinum Siam Paragon is open from 5 am until midnight on weekdays and from 8 am until 10 pm on weekends.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): The cost of entry at Fitness First Platinum is 800 Baht for a Day Pass.

The Olympic Club

As part of the Pathumwan Princess Hotel, the Olympic Club is a gorgeous, HUGE fitness center that boasts sports courts, a swimming pool, and a running track as well as the main gym area. There are a large number of gay members who enjoy this club, but even if you're only visiting Bangkok for a short time you can get a daily membership to enjoy the facilities.

If you enjoy playing basketball, squash, or tennis you can do so here, and there are plenty of different classes to join as well. The Olympic Club is our top pick in terms of variety!

• Address: The Olympic Club is located in the Pathumwan Princess Hotel at 444 MBK Center, Phayathai Road. The closest MRT station is National Stadium on the Silom line.
• Opening hours: The Olympic Club is open from 6 am until 11 pm on weekdays and from 7 am until 10 pm on weekends.
• Entry fee (updated 2024): The cost of entry is 325 Baht for a day.

Gay friendly restaurants in Bangkok

Eating out in Bangkok is a treat. It is inexpensive and Thai food is one of the best in the world. We've never had a bad meal every time we've come here. Our advice is to head to one of the many street food markets for a truly authentic experience. We've also a handful of places we love to dine at which we've set out right here for you:

Cabbages & Condoms

“Our food is guaranteed not to cause pregnancy,”…they say! Cabbages & Condoms is one of the most unique restaurants we've ever been to. The whole concept was created around the idea of promoting education on contraception and family planning. Condoms have been used in the decor, with lampshades made from them and mannequins throughout the restaurant in all sorts of crazy costumes entirely made up of condoms!

There's even a gift shop where you can buy quirky gifts and souvenirs. The food is excellent here too, with Thai favorites like Tom Yum Goong, pad Thai, and Seby's favorite, mango sticky rice.

• Address: Cabbages & Condoms is located at 6 10 Sukhumvit 12 Alley, Khwaeng Khlong Toei, close to Asok MRT station.
• Opening hours: Cabbages & Condoms is open daily from 11am to 10pm.

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Lon Lon Local Diner

For some of the best Thai food in Bangkok, we love the Lon Lon Local Diner. With a casually cool atmosphere, Lon Lon is very popular with locals for lunch, dinner, or gap glaem – the Thai name for snacks you have while drinking. They're famous for their crispy salted pork belly which pairs amazingly with lychee martinis. Seby also LOVED their mango mojitos and passionfruit margaritas. “Fetch me another!” he cried at the pillar behind his seat as he confused it for the waitress in his drunken state…

• Address: Lon Lon Local Diner is located at the Trinity Silom Hotel at 150 Silom Soi 3. Chong Nonsi is the closest MRT station.
• Opening hours: Lon Lon Local Diner is open for lunch Monday to Friday from 11:30 am-2:30 pm, and for dinner Monday to Saturday from 5:30-10 pm. It is closed on Sundays.

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Unicorn Cafe

The interior of the Unicorn Cafe really looks like a rainbow unicorn exploded… With unicorn dolls everywhere, colorful unicorn wallpaper, pink chandeliers, and pastel-colored couches, it's basically our dream gay home! The food and drinks are also colorfully rainbow-unicorn-themed, often with little ice-cream cones in them to make horns. You can even rent unicorn onesies to have your own ultimate unicorn photoshoot.

• Address: Unicorn Cafe is located at 44/1 Soi Sathon 8, Silom, next to Chong Nonsi MRT station.
• Opening hours: Unicorn Cafe is open every day (except Mondays) from 12-8 pm.

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Sühring

You can't miss out on visiting Restaurant Sühring while you're in Bangkok. It's often lauded as one of the best restaurants in the world. The restaurant is the brain-child of German twin chefs Mathias and Thomas Sühring, who renovated a gorgeous 1970s villa to create this homey space for dining on exquisite cuisine. For a two-star Michelin restaurant, it's also quite playful – we were delighted to see a currywurst street food tribute served in a box complete with a wooden fork just like the ones we've had in Berlin.

• Address: Restaurant Sühring is located at 10 Soi Yen Akat 3, Chong Nonsi. The best way to get there is to grab a taxi.
• Opening hours: Sühring is only open for lunch on Thursday to Sunday from 12-1:30 pm, and for dinner on Wednesday to Sunday from 5:30-9:30 pm.

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Indus

We had some of the best Indian food we've tasted outside of India at the stunning Indus restaurant. Not only is the restaurant decorated with authentic Indian antique furniture, beautiful artwork, and frescoes, but they serve the most perfectly executed Indian dishes. Decadent chicken tikka for me and malabar prawn curry with garlic naan for my Seby…everything was scrumptious! They also do some amazing set menus for brunch, lunch, and an “epic thali”.

• Address: Indus is located at 71 Soi Sukhumvit 26, Khlong Toei, close to Phrom Phong MRT station.
• Opening hours: Indus is open daily from 11 am until 10:30 pm (note on Monday-Thursday it closes between 2:30-5pm).

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Best things to do in Bangkok

What-oh? Wat Pho of course! Oh, the fun I had with this wordplay to anyone who'd listen. Seby just gave me his usual deadpan facial expression as we walked through Bangkok's Grand Palace…

We've listed out the main sites we think all first-timers should hit up – at least these are the ones we loved on our first visit here many moons ago…

Feel like a princess at the Grand Palace

Welcome to the OFFICIAL residence of the Nomadic Boys! Princess Seby will only be too happy to show you around… That's right, we moved in back in 1925 when the former Kings of Siam (that's the nickname of Thailand) moved out. Yup – we're that old…(!)

Those former Kings were inhabiting this old place since 1782 and boy did they splash out. Prepare to be dazzled – colorful sculptures, gleaming golden spires, and ornate decorations everywhere you look.

• Estimated time to spend: allow 1-2 hours
• Entry fee: 500 baht pp (around $15)
• Opening hours: 8:30 am – 3:30 pm.
• Best guided tour: we loved this half-day guided tour which also the Damnoen Floating Market and Maeklong Railway Market.

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Giant 150 ft reclining golden Wat Pho Buddha

You know that feeling the morning after a heavy night out when you've gorged on one too many greasy kebabs and you're just laying there on your couch at home unable to move?

This is the vibe the 150-foot-long reclining Buddha gave me.

Don't get me wrong, it's super impressive. It's covered in gold leaf ffs!

• Estimated time to spend: allow 1 hour for your visit to the Wat Pho temple complex
• Entry fee: 200 baht pp (around $6)
• Opening hours: 8 am – 6:30 pm
• Best guided tour: we recommend this excellent walking tour of Bangkok's temples, which also includes the Grand Palace, local markets, Wat Arun, and the Emerald Buddha Temple.

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Marvel at stunning Wat Arun

I tell all who'll listen: if you wanna impress your date, bring them here at sunset.

Whenever I see a sour-faced (hangry) Seby, I bring him here and everything suddenly seems right in the world again. Wat Arun is one of the most recognizable buildings on the Bangkok skyline: as your plane takes off as you head to Chiang Mai or the islands, grab yourself a window seat to get a snap of its distinctive prang (spires) rising from the west bank of the Chao Phraya River.

• Estimated time to spend: allow 1-2 hours
• Entry fee: 100 baht pp (around $3)
• Opening hours: 8 am – 6 pm
• Best guided tour: for the best views of Wat Arun I recommend a Longtail speed boat tour along the narrow canals of old Bangkok.

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Dabble in the craziness of Khao San Road

I'll be completely honest with you. Seby and I have not yet been to Khao San Road. We've been to Bangkok over 20 times if not more, and each time we make a conscious effort to avoid it.

Why? It sounds like hetty hell…where all the young straight backpackers come to get wasted for as little as possible and then giggle when they see a “ladyboy” trying to entice them into a dubious Ping Pong show…

We feel the need to mention it because it's become so famous among the backpacker community. You may even find it entertaining. But for us, just throw us into Silom Soi 4, and we'll be just fine.

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Shop up a storm at a Bangkok mall

We LOVE shopping in Bangkok!

There are several excellent malls – ICONSIAM is the most Instagrammable, Siam Paragon is the largest, and Terminal 21 is the best for value because it contains local Thai clothing brands.

Whichever you head to, make a day of it. Each one has an entire floor devoted to Food Courts, and if the latest Marvel movie is out, there will likely be a 3D cinema nearby; we tend to visit Bangkok just before the Oscar season starts so we try to catch a movie or three.

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Watch the all-transgender Calypso Cabaret

We love this! A cast where all the female cast is transgender people.

It's truly unique – guaranteed you won't ever see anything like it anywhere else in the world. It's campy, colorful, hilarious, and completely over-the-top, rather like my Seby after his fifth Margarita.

We want everyone to come watch this cabaret show and celebrate our transgender fam. They are all ridiculously talented and you will LOVE them!

• Duration of Calypso Show: around 1 hour and 20 minutes
• Entry fee: 900 baht pp (around $30)
• Show times: every evening throughout the year at 7:30 pm
• Where: the Calypso Cabaret takes place at Asiatique The Riverfront.
• Advance tickets: we recommend booking your tickets in advance which will include free drink coupons.

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Party on Koh Samet: overnight stay or weekend getaway

Another honest disclaimer from me. Koh Samet is not the best island in Thailand. At least not my favorite – Koh Lipe takes that crown.

But, Koh Samet is one of the gayest. It's the closest island to the Thai capital so the local gay guys head here for a getaway on weekends.

It's around 3-4 hours from Bangkok so more of an overnighter. If your Grindr date goes well and you have a few days to spare it may be worth sharing a van to Koh Samet for a gay beach getaway. On one trip to Bangkok, we did this with a group of Thai friends and it was awesome!

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Before you go

Gay map of Bangkok

Here is a detailed map of Gay Bangkok which includes our favorite gay friendly hotels, gay bars, and clubs as well as all the best things to do in Bangkok. Use it to help plan your own fabulous gay trip to this exciting city!

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• You can also read more from the cute Broke Backpacker, Will Hatton in his guide about traveling in Thailand
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• And for real beach bums, check out the best gay nude beaches around the world!

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