Gay Phuket: our ultimate guide to the best gay bars, clubs, hotels & activities in Patong

Stefan Arestis

We love Thailand. It's got it all – best beaches, terrific food and the gay scene of Bangkok we think one of the most fun in the world.

Phuket is one of the most popular gay destinations to visit in Thailand, with a large gay scene in Patong. This large Thai island is also an excellent transport hub, with many international airlines flying here, making it very accessible.

These are our 5 favourite things to do in Phuket for gay travellers.

Get online while you're in Phuket…

by renting a pocket WiFi device. Doing so will give you unlimited internet access on multiple devices, perfect if you're travelling in a group or need to do some work on your laptop! Pocket WiFi also ensures you have a secure and private connection which isn't always the case when using public WiFi hotspots.

Gay hotels in Phuket

There are many different gay hotels to stay in Phuket, to suit everyone. Some of the best medium/low budget hotels can be found right in the middle of the gay scene in the Paradise Complex, but be warned, it will be noisy. We advise checking Tripadvisor's “Speciality Accommodation” section to find the best one for you.


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We love Phuket because of the large number of high quality romantic boutique hotels you can stay at. One of our favourite gay friendly hotels in Phuket is the Impiana Private Villas boutique resort in Kata Noi. It's stunning! It's a little bit outside the Paradise Complex, but totally worth it. Here you have your own luxurious secluded private villa perched above the bay of Kata Noi, overlooking the stunning Andaman Sea, with panoramic sunset views. It's so gorgeous that it's a popular spot for LGBTQ weddings, which they can also organise.

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The gorgeous setting of the Impiana Villas in Kata Noi

Gay bars and clubs in Phuket

The Paradise Complex in Patong is the focal point for the gay life of Phuket, with most of the gar bars and clubs. This is where you'll want to come for a gay fun night out.

Most of the bars have a free show every evening, but guests are expected to buy at least one drink. They generally get busy from around 10pm when they start putting on street performances to attract customers. By midnight most of the gay bars in Phuket are crowded, especially on weekends. Some of the best hangouts of Patong include:

  • Boat Bar: this is one of our favourite gay bars in Patong, which we came to every night during our stay. It's open everyday, with at least 2 cabaret shows taking place every evening, the first at midnight, then again at 1:30am.
  • Zag Club: we love “Topless Tuesday” at Zag: you get 50% off your drinks if you stay topless all night long…! They also have “Farang Fridays” when foreigners get 50% off. Zag is men only, and is open daily from 8pm till late.
  • Tangmo Club: another fun gay club in Paradise Complex, which is also one of the largest. They have 3 nightly shows at 22:30, 23:30 and 01:00.
  • YES! Bar / My Way Cabaret: My Way is another staple bar and one of the oldest in the Paradise Complex. They have very cute Go Go dancers and hilarious drag shows every evening, with a large outside terrace, which we love for people watching:

Gay events in Phuket

There are two gay events taking place in Phuket every April, which are worth planning your trip around:

  • Tropout: a fun annual gay beach festival that takes place in mid-April during the Songkran Buddhist New Year holiday. It includes beach parties, boat parties and group events like yoga, cooking classes and more.
  • Phuket Pride festival: takes place on the last week of April and includes some of the best parties, art shows, charity auctions, concerts, parades and more. It began in 1999 and has been taking place each year with the exception of 2018, when the organisers decided to take a break. It attracts tens of thousands of gay boys from all around the world, making it one of the most popular gay pride events of Asia.

Best gay beaches in Phuket

Patong Beach is the most famous and developed beach on Phuket. It's around 3.5km (2.17 miles) long and has a large gay section in front of “La Flora Resort Patong” where the rainbow flags fly proudly. It's the closest beach to the gay scene of Paradise Complex, which therefore makes it the most popular gay beach of Phuket.

Karon Beach is another popular beach for gay travellers in Phuket, located 3km away from Patong beach. It has a 5km (3 miles) long beach of white powder sand, which is what makes it so popular. It's not as crowded as Patong, but still receives its share of crowds from the nearby guesthouses and resorts.

Bangtao (aka Laguna) Beach is a more remote beach, around 20 minutes drive away from Patong beach. Due to the distance, it's less visited and not as popular, which is of course part of its charm. The Dream Beach Club is located nearby, which is a popular spot for gay travellers.

A caution about public nudity: it is not socially accepted and is illegal in Thailand. As such there are no nude beaches or designated gay beaches in Phuket.

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A fun day out at the Patong gay beach in Phuket

Gay massages in Phuket

Getting a massage in Thailand has a lot of seedy “happy ending” connotations. However, there are a handful of gay massages in Phuket that are clean, welcome gay travellers, and where you can feel safe, without being pressured into doing anything you're not comfortable with.

  • Aquarius Guesthouse & Sauna: this is one of the oldest saunas in Phuket, which is also a guesthouse. It's located right in the heart of the Paradise Complex of Patong. It has a steam room, Jacuzzi, fitness centre, rooftop terrace, saunas and of course highly qualified, licensed masseurs.
  • Aqua Spa at Avista Hideaway: although this is not an exclusively gay massage parlour, we love it because it's very luxurious. We love the infinity ponds here to relax in after a massage, and the views are stunning. It's expensive, but well worth the experience.
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Getting ourselves a luxurious relaxing massage in Phuket

Gay map of Phuket

Here's a map of Phuket which includes all the gay bars, clubs, hotels and sightseeing highlights we've mentioned in this post. Use it to plan your own amazing gay trip to Phuket!

Our gay map of Phuket with the best gay hotels, bars, clubs and more for your own fabulous gay holiday to this stunning island

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Stefan Arestis

Stefan is the co-founder, editor and author the gay travel blog As a travel nerd, he has explored more than 80 countries across 5 continents. What he loves the most about travelling is discovering the local gay scene, making new friends and learning new cultures. His advice about LGBTQ travel has been featured in Gay Times, Gaycities, Pink News, Gay Star News, Attitude and Towleroad. He has also written about gay travel for other non-gay specific publications including Lonely Planet, The New York Times, The Guardian and The Huffington Post. Stefan is also a qualified lawyer, having practised as a commercial property litigator in London for over 10 years. He left his lawyer days behind to work full time on Nomadic Boys with his husband Sebastien. Find out more about Nomadic Boys.

14 thoughts on “Gay Phuket: our ultimate guide to the best gay bars, clubs, hotels & activities in Patong”

  1. Hi guys. We often check out your site for info. I think your guide to patong could do with updating though. We Just had a week here in high season and found the gay area almost deserted. The only club with any shows is Zag and whilst you state it’s men only at least half the customers were straight women. The shows finish at midnight when the last few customers leave. The whole street is packing up at midnight, not coming to life. So I think they’re has been some fundamental change in licensing or attitudes recently as it’s become one of the quietest, most “vanilla” gay scenes that we’ve ever encountered! I was here about 20 years ago and it was packed with go go boys and “numbered” hosts. Whilst that’s not everyone’s cup of tea it added a particular atmosphere which is now completely missing. Just thought your readers would maybe appreciate our experience as an update.

    • Hi Andy we were also just there and see what you mean, however, Zag is still a cool hangout cause their music dancy and poppy 🙂 Boat bar is also worth checking out – kinda like the DJ Station of Phuket. Though agree about the influx of straight female customers – I wonder if it’s because it’s high season?

      • Hi Stefan thanks for your reply. As a footnote we carried on to Bangkok where the gay area was even quieter than Patong. We found one bar that had a Short drag show at times but apart from that it was very quiet in the street which was really surprising bearing in mind January should be high season. (By the way, this was just before the onset of coronavirus so I don’t think that had any bearing on how quiet the gay neighbourhood was). So for any of your readers looking for a wild gay scene I don’t think anywhere in Thailand offers that any more based on our experience. That apart, it’s an amazing country with some of the friendliest people we’ve ever met and stunning beaches.

  2. Patong is a blast guys. Kinda gritty on one level but fun too. I liken it a wee bit to a nice version of Mos Eisley, of Star Wars fame. We are often spotted at Jungceylon grabbing dinner and a movie, walking around the mall for indoor cardio when it gets too hot and humid. Super review as always 😉



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