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Gay Bali: the ultimate LGBT travel guide to the island of the gods

Gay Bali: the ultimate LGBT travel guide to the island of the gods

Bali. Our guilty pleasure… Now HERE is a playground for the gay boys!

Our trekking in Mount Rinjani and scuba diving in the Komodo National Park left us feeling exhilarated, but quite frankly, knackered!

We were ready to let our hair down. A visit to Bali was calling us…

Stefan's gay Bali chillaxing moment in Villas Bali Seminyak

Cheeky Stefan chilling with no clothes on in our private pool in our Seminyak villa

Bali has a nice mix of luxury villas and spas in Seminyak, culture and scenic lush green rice terraces in centrally located Ubud and of course, a whole bunch of gay bars.


Sophisticated Seminyak with its luxury villas and high restaurants is also where you’ll find the Bali gay bars.

We made lots of friends here. And were particularly taken by this beauty:

Drinks at gay Bali bar Bali Joe in Seminyak

A look of pure bewilderment! Making new friends in the gay Bali bars in Seminyak

1. Gay bars in Bali – Seminyak

Indonesia is not really well known as being very gay friendly at all, lacking any comprehensive pro LGBT legislation. But despite this, Bali is the gay oasis of the country.

When we visited in September 2015, there were 4 bars/clubs on the road called: Jalan Camplung Tanduk Arcade:

We met up with some of our friends here, including awesome blogger Josh of Engineer on the Road (on the far right) and showgirl Karen Ninna:

Night out Bali gay bars in Seminyak

A messy night out with friends and a Madonna impersonator at the gay bars in Seminyak

Each gay bar in Seminyak hosts its own repertoire of drag acts and showgirls (like Karen), throughout the evening.

And of course, look out for the talented go go dancers:

You can guarantee you’ll have a jam-packed fun night out here, as party animal Sebastien found out:

Sebastien gay bars Seminyak in Bali

Sebastien at the end of a messy night out on the gay scene in Seminyak

2. Gay friendly hotels in Seminyak

There are many gay friendly hotels in Seminyak and even a few exclusively male only places where your Grindr will probably crash. Here’s the 2 that stood out for us:


  • The W Hotel is a landmark in Seminyak and popular with gay travellers.
  • It’s massive, like entering a mini city in Seminyak with its own long driveway entrance and entire beach section with very large plush pool space. It also has an array of excellent in house bars and restaurants.
  • Prices for a room at W start from 5,600,000 rupiahs (£265/$406 ) a night. Check their latest prices and promotions here.
Gay friendly hotel W in Seminyak Bali

Hanging out at the W Hotel with our friend Josh in Seminyak

SPARTACVS   Book online

  • Spartacvs (the v is not a typo) is a male only “clothing optional” hotel with a fun atmosphere centred around its swimming pool.
  • Party animal and show star Sebastien dazzled us with his prowess late into the night by the Spartacvs pool:
Seb clothing optional Spartacvs gay hotel Bali in Seminyak

Sebastien taking the clothing optional rules at gay Bali hotel Spartacvs to heart

Prices at Spartacvs start from 130,000 rupiahs (£63/$95) a night but if you book with them directly and mention us, they will give you a $10 a night discount.

Seb in pool of gay hotel Spartacvs in Seminyak Bali

“A $10 discount at Spartacvs you say?” A savvy Sebastien takes note…

THE VILLAS BALI AND SPA  Read review – Book online

  • The Villas Bali is a luxurious and very gay friendly hotel in Seminyak
  • Our private villa included a large garden space, sun tanning area, private pool, kitchen and dining area decorated in traditional Balinese style.
  • You also get your own private chef who prepares your breakfast in your kitchen each morning.
  • Check their latest prices and promotions here.
Drinks by our pool Bali Island Villa Seminyak

Romantic drinks by our pool at the Bali Island Villa in Seminyak

  • The Villas Bali is ideal for a group of friends travelling together in one of the 3 bedroom villas, or for couples in the 1 bedroom villas.
  • Prices for a one-bedroom villa start from 5,000,000 rupiahs (£240/$365) a night.
Yoga by the pool at Villas Bali Hotel in Seminyak

Sebastien attempting a yoga-esque pose at our pool at the gay friendly Villas Bali Hotel

Check out the Flashpacker Family’s blog for more information about where to stay in Bali.

3. Spa heaven in Seminyak

We all love a good spa session and the Nomadic Boys will of course never shy away from one.

This was another reason we loved The Villas Bali, who they have no fewer then 2 award winning spas: Chili Reflexology and Prana Spa.

CHILL REFLEXOLOGY   Check on Tripadvisor

  • The massages at Chill Reflexology focus on massaging pressure points. We tried The Ultimate Chill, a 1.5 hours treatment (265,000 rupiahs / £13 / $20), which was heavenly for our sore backs and legs after all that trekking on Rinjani mountain.
Sebastien at Prana Spa, Bali Villas, Seminyak

Sebastien blending in nicely with the colours, patiently waiting for a few spa treatments in Seminyak

PRANA SPA   Check on Tripadvisor

  • Prana Spa offers a more intense 2 hours experience with treatments like the Mystique Bali Package (800,000 rupiah / £40/$60).
  • Oh BOY were we spoilt rotten! We started with a relaxing oil massage, followed by skin polishing and scrub, and then, a yoghurt wash!
  • Yes you read right: a yoghurt wash! You stand in a shower clad in spa underwear and your body is cleansed with fresh yoghurt by your attentive masseuse. And it feels goooood. 
  • Our Mystique Massage concluded with a romantic flower bath and tasty fresh herbal tea. We highly recommend it.
Bath of flowers at Prana Spa at The Villas Bali Hotel in Seminyak

A bath of flowers at the Prana Spa at The Villas Bali Hotel

4. Culinary highlights in Seminyak

Seminyak has its fair share of high-end restaurants. We particularly loved the Sunday Brunch at Fire and the Royal Rijstaffel experience at Husk, a truly unique Indonesian tradition.

Royal Rijstaffel meal at Hust Restaurant in Seminyak, Bali

The waitresses dancing their way to us as part of the Royal Rijstaffel dinner at the Husk restaurant in Seminyak


  • The Royal Rijstaffel is a Balinese tradition dating back to the Dutch colonial era of the 19th Century and literally translates as rice on table.
  • The rice is served with a variety of accompanying local dishes by a group of female waitresses who dance their way over to you, accompanied by traditional music.
  • The Husk Royal Rijstaffel dinner is every Monday 6:30-9:30pm (part of the Royal Beach Hotel) and costs 350,000 rupiahs (£17/$26) per person.


SUNDAY BRUNCH AT FIRE (W HOTEL)   Check on Tripadvisor

  • The Sunday Brunch at Fire is a lavish affair based on hawker street food. It costs 455,000 rupiahs (£22/$34) per person and includes a welcome drink of bubbles.
Welcome drink FIre restaurant W hotel in Seminyak

A tasty glass of bubbles to welcome us to the Sunday Brunch at Fire restaurant at W Hotel

The cheeseboard at the Fire’s Sunday Brunch got a cheese deprived Frenchman dead excited: 17 months travelling in Asia without any cheese, started to take its toll on him…

Cheeseplatter Fire Sunday Brunch W Hotel in Seminyak, Bali

After 17 months travelling in Asia without cheese, this Frenchman got quite excited at the Fire Sunday Brunch

BAMBU RESTAURANT   Check on Tripadvisor

Bambu is a highly rated restaurants and you need to book in advance. The food is traditional Indonesian, on the pricey side but well worth every penny.

Our favourite was the Gohu Ikan Tongkol (yellow fin tuna ceviche starter) and the Bebek Betutu (slow roast duck with galangal, lemongrass, toasted coconut and green bean salad).

They also do really innovative tasty cocktails like Ginger Honey Sling (rum based), Lychee Cooler (with vodka) and Pomelo Julep (also with vodka).

Our meal at Bambu restaurant in Seminyak, Bali

The Nomadic Boys enjoying good food and cocktails at the Bambu restaurant in Seminyak


Ubud is known as the cultural capital of Bali. It is around 1 hour’s drive away North from Seminyak towards the centre of the island.

1. Gay friendly hotels in Ubud

SAUDARA HOME   Book online

  • This guest house has excellent reviews on Tripadvisor and is based in the middle of the rice fields of the Pakudui village.
  • Prices start from 600,000 rupiahs (£30 / $45) a night and includes breakfast, but you need to book a minimum of 3 nights.
  • Check latest prices and promotions here.
Beautiful lush green countryside Ubud in Bali, Indonesia

The beautiful lush green countryside and paddy fields surrounding Ubud

AWANG AWANG   Read review – Book online

  • Awang Awang is a high-end gay friendly villa retreat in the countryside just outside the main town.
  • Each villa has its own private infinity pool overlooking the surrounding tropical jungle and is great for taking in the Balinese countryside.
  • Prices start from 3,000,000 rupiah (£145 / $220) a night. Check their latest price and promotions here.
Stefan infinity pool at Villa Awang Awang in Ubud, Bali

Stefan enjoying our infinity pool at the excellent Villa Awang Awang in Ubud, Bali

2. Awesome restaurants in Ubud

Ubud has many decent restaurants. Check out Tripadvisor’s 10 best Ubud restaurants list for some of the highly rated options like Luxe Cafe or Swept Away at the Samaya.

We picked 2 culinary experiences that particularly stood out for us:

FRESH RESTAURANT   Check on Tripadvisor

Fresh is a newly opened raw vegan restaurant. As vegan virgins we were pleasantly surprised: it was not only filling, but everything we tried was bursting with flavour.

But inevitably, the usual food fight broke out…

Fresh raw vegan restaurant in Ubud, Bali

Vegan food fight at Fresh in Ubud: Stefan with his Tempeh toast salad trying to steal Seb’s Living Lasagne

Our favourite dish was the vegan answer to lasagne, called Living Lasagne, which consists of zucchini, sundried tomato, marinara, almond pesto and served with citrus salad.

Stefan with Living Lasagne and Tempeh toast salad at Fresh restaurant in Ubud, central Bali

Proud Stefan arises the winner of the foodfight, proudly showing off his vegan Living Lasagne and Tempeh toast salad at Fresh

ROOM 4 DESSERT   Check on Tripadvisor

This is cheeky! You enter a darkroom of pleasure (!) where Chef Will Goldfarb hosts his 50 Shades of Grace desserts. Look out for desserts like the Coco Beware or the Chocobubbles Too with its mouthwatering raisin and kluwak crumble…

As our fellow travel blogger Mar Pages of Once in A Lifetime Journey nicely put it, “Now boys, when in Ubud, make Room 4 Dessert!” :

Chocobubbles Too dessert at gay friendly Room 4 Dessert restaurant in Ubud

Chocobubbles Too dessert with its mouthwatering raisin and kluwak crumble at Room 4 Dessert in Ubud. Photo credit: Once In A Lifetime Journey

3. Things to do in Ubud

Ubud has plenty to keep you busy, whether you want to explore the countryside, do a cooking class or see a unique style of dancing.

BALINESE KECAK MONKEY DANCE   Check official website

The Balinese Kecak monkey dance is one of the most popular attractions in Ubud. The dancers use their own body as percussion along with pieces of bamboo as stamping tubes.

You can watch a live Kecak fire and trance show in Central Ubud, every Wednesday and Saturday evening for around 75,000 rupiahs (£4 / $6).

Balinese dance monkey chant ritual Ubud

The Balinese Kobagi Kecak band performing their monkey chant ritual using their body as percussion


We set out to explore the scenic paddy fields and numerous little kampongs (villages) around Ubud by quad and buggy tour with Bali Quad Discovery Tours, which also included guided tubing down the Siap Stream in the Payangan area.

Stefan tubing in Ubud Bali with Bali Quad Discovery Tours

Stefan’s favourite position (!) as we go tubing in Ubud

Prices start from 1,200,000 rupiahs (£59/$89) per person for just the tubing and 2,300,000 rupiahs (£112 / $169) for both tubing and quad/buggy driving. Prices include lunch buffet and hotel pick up.

They offer a 15% discount to all our readers if you quote the promotional code of NOMADICBALI.

We recommend it as a way to experience the Ubud countryside in quite a unique way.

Quad biking in Ubud countryside in central Bali

Quad biking through the Balinese countryside in Ubud

COOKING CLASS   Check on Tripadvisor

We did a class with Be Bali Day (350,000 rupiahs / £17 / $26 per person, minimum booking of 2), a family run venture led by the really cute husband/wife team, Kadek and Made.

Be Bali Day cooking school in Ubud, Bali

Kadek and Made husband and wife team with offerings for the local temple at Be Bali Day cooking school

Kadek and Made taught us to make a variety of local specialties like sayur urap (blanched vegetable salad with shredded coconut dressing), satay lilit (chicken satay served in a lemongrass stick) and perkedel jagung (sweetcorn fritters).

All was going so well until greedy Sebastien tried to steal all the freshly made perkedel jaguns…

Cooking class Ubud Seb with perkedel jagung sweetcorn fritters

Sebastien stealing all the perkedel jagung sweetcorn fritters at our Be Bali Day cooking class in Ubud

For more adventures from Ubud, check out Wanderlust Chloe’s excellent post about her Mount Batur sunrise hike.


Nusa Dua is located right on the southern tip of Bali, around 30 minutes taxi ride from Seminyak. This is the place for that ultimate honeymoon retreat, where all the high end luxury hotels of the island are based.

And when Sebastien announced to Stefan we would go there, Stefan started to get flutters of excitement…could this finally be THAT moment he FINALLY gets THE ring??!!

Stefan gay friendly Nusa Dua gay wedding engagement

Stefan patiently waiting for that moment…THE ring. Could this be it?

The hotels of Nusa Dua are designed so you do not need to leave them. Each one has a variety of excellent restaurants, spas, private beach and other in house activities.

Let’s face it, everyone loves a bit of pampering once in a while right? We love adventure travelling and discovering the local life, but after 17 months non stop travelling in Asia, we welcomed the idea of just relaxing and taking a few days break from travelling and sightseeing.

St Regis Bali saltwater lagoon pool

Stefan enjoying the salt water lagoon of the St Regis in Nusa Dua. We didn’t leave the hotel once during our stay here.

There were two gay friendly resorts in Nusa Dua that stood out for us:

1. The St. Regis Bali Resort   Read review Book online

We stayed at the St. Regis Bali Resort and bloody hell, wow! 

You’re blown away from the moment you set foot into the St Regis and are met with your Butler (yes you read right, your own Butler!).

Romantic bath at our Suite at gay friendly St Regis Bali Resort in Nusa Dua

Our trusty tripod took this photo on the camera timer not the butler!

The St Regis is so huge, you need a buggy to go from one end to the other. We particularly enjoyed many peaceful, relaxing moments by the private beach.

Nomadic Boys on St Regis Bali resort beach in gay friendly Nusa Dua

The St Regis in Nusa Dua, south Bali was our romantic and luxury escape.

If that wasn’t enough, the St Regis Bali has a massive 3,668 squared metres salt-water lagoon pool and you can rent a private villa which leads directly into it.

A night in a basic Suite at the St Regis Bali starts from 5,700,000 rupiahs (£275/$420) a night. Check their latest prices and promotions here.

2. The Grand Nikko Bali   Book online

The Grand Nikko Bali is a more affordable exotic getaway hotel in Nusa Dua also with a private beach front. Prices start from 2,000,000 rupiahs (£100/$150) for a double room with garden view and private balcony.

It has no fewer then 8 in house restaurants, 4 inter connected swimming pools, water slide, 3 tennis courts, fitness centre, spa and much much more…

Aerial view Grand Nikko gay friendly hotel in Nusa Dua

Aerial view of the Grand Nikko Hotel in Nusa Dua, south Bali

The Grand Nikko welcomes gay couples and got its gay reputation after hosting the second not for profit G-slam gay Tennis Tournament in 2012.

Grand Nikko Bali hosts gay tennis tournament 2012

PHWOOAR, check out those tennis shorts!! (The Grand Nikko hosted the second G-Slam gay tennis tournament in September 2012)

Oh and for the record, Stefan didn’t actually get his engagement ring in the end at Nusa Dua 🙁

But despite this we loved our time in Bali. It has a bit of everything: culture, spa, romance, luxury and of course some super cool gay nights out in Seminyak.

If you enjoyed reading about our gay Bali experience, please share it or pin this image of ring deprived Stefan doing a heart shape to you:

Nomadic Boys gay Bali travel guide Pinterest photo

Stefan will love you forever if you pin our photo 🙂

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  1. Wonderful guide for Bali! You guys hit on a lot of our favorite spots too! We 100% second taking a cooking class. Some of the spiciest food we have ever had and now we know how to make it!

    I only wish Bali was closer to the US. We would visit every year for sure!

    • Thanks Alana 🙂

  2. om swastyastu,
    dear stefan and sebastian

    its such amazing experiences that both of you had shared to all of us and as balinese, whose nomadic as well perhaps we shared similar feelings and emotions, and thank you (suksma) to bring these happy vibrations.

    and hope both of you will come visit and join bali pride in the future, perhaps with the rings. ?

    suksma. ?

    san in beijing

    • Awww thanks San 🙂

  3. Looks like so much fun and your photos are awesome as always. You guys always put a smile on my face with your shenanigans!

    • Thanks Sarah ☺️☺️☺️

  4. Fantastic guide – I hadn’t picked Indonesia as being gay friendly at all, so it’s good to know that there are options through Bali. We’re in Australia so really close by; Bali is a super popular travel spot for everyone here. I’ll pass this on to my LGBT friends … I feel like I have a friend visiting Bali every other day!

    • Thanks Meg!

  5. Well, you two certainly made the most of Bali! That husband and wife cooking team are so cute, I’d love to learn how to make those delicious corn fritters. Would love to experience that ROYAL RIJSTAFFEL DINNER AT HUSK RESTAURANT.

    • Thanks Brenda 🙂

  6. I can see how a place like Bali (so open minded, hippy-central, etc! 😉 ) would be a great place for the LGBT community. I love the idea of the Spartacvs.! Can there be a “clothing optional” hotel option for people who aren’t gay!?!? I’d be there in a heartbeat!

    • Ha ha ha! Spartacvs is an interesting concept lol! Agree there should be a non gay one 🙂

  7. Wow, didn’t know Bali has everything to offer my fun-loving LGBT friends. Hope they take me with them! Would be so much fun.

  8. You guys definitely had a better time in Bali than I had… I truly didn’t fall for it. I suppose you were able to do your thing and pick the places you really wanted to visit, which definitely helps. Your pictures are HILARIOUS.

    • Awwwww thanks Claudia 🙂

  9. Bali is not really my favourite place, but I can understand why people have great time there – there is just lots to do!

    • Can definitely see why you think so, but but – did you go to Ubud? Cause that was extremely beautiful/full of culture/awesome photo opps etc

  10. what an incredible experience you two must had! everything looks surreal especially the spa! it’s definitely on my travel list; and thanks so much for the travel tips

    • Our pleasure – thanks for the kind words 🙂

  11. Great guide. and looks like you had a fabulous time. I would think that Bali would be LGBT friendly but good to read real recommendations from those that have traveled.

    • Thanks Sue xx

  12. I always enjoy reading your guides, but the best part are the pics. You guys are so adorable and goofy in all your pictures! Is the champagne from that brunch place purple? I would drink a lot more champagne if it was served purple!

    • Thanks Prianka! Goofy? Oh my he he he – we deliberately called them “bubbles” not champagne as we weren’t sure it was that and would otherwise risk upsetting our very proud Frenchman (Sebastien!!)

  13. First, I need to say you guys are so fun-loving, you basically personify my relationship goals! Second, that was a really great guide to Bali! Third, it looks like you had an absolute blast! Awesome post!

    • Awwwwww thanks Tamar 🙂

  14. Bali looks magical! You two get up to such fun and luxurious things. Your pictures always have me laughing 🙂 You guys are awesome!

    • Thanks Jen 🙂

  15. The bar photos are quite funny. It looks like you had a blast.

    The Grand Nikko Bali looks like a great family place as well. My daughter would LOVE the pools!

    • Agreed – and thanks 🙂

  16. Awesome round up. We loved Bali as well. Happy to read that despite Indonesia’s stance on LBGT that Bali is different!!

    • Right? 🙂

  17. Great detail provided in this guide, from what time to eat and drink at various restaurants, to cost to the in depth reviews on TripAdvisor. I had no idea Bali had so much to offer to the LGBT community but I’m very happy to see that’s the case. What a great resource, I’ll pass this guide onto some of my LGBT friends who I know are looking to head this way in the near future!


    • Thanks Greig!

  18. It certainly looks like your defined the word definitive in this ultimate guide! It looks like it might make the basis of an e-book on Amazon perhaps??

    • LOL thanks Dave!

  19. You have put together such a comprehensive guide for Bali! Awesome job! Those Villas that come with your own chef sound amaz-ing! Not to mention how fun and personable your writing is! Informative and enjoyable!

    • Thank you!

  20. You guys know how to have fun! This is a very comprehensive gay (and not) travel guide to Bali with lots of useful recos. I will be checking out the St regis for sure. and the W brunch next time I am in town

    • Thanks Mar!

  21. I would like to visit Bali one day. Looks like you two had fun.

    • Thanks

  22. Nice guide. Loved the pictures. I’ve never been to Bali but if I ever go, I’m definitely checking out the Grand Nikko Hotel, looks amazing! And the spas seems amazing. I was supposed to spend today at a spa, but instead will get to do it on New Years Eve. Could be worse, I suppose 😉

    • Niiiiiice! What a way to spend NYE!

  23. Hello
    My name is Maria Grazia Bucchioni and I am a wedding planner in Florence. I expect you all to give you a honeymoon dream in one of
    the most beautiful cities of the world

    • Wow thanks Maria 🙂

  24. Hey Hey!

    LOVED this article. Man did I have a laugh reading this.
    Also now I have a suitcase half packed ready for Bali! Meh! Must travel, getting travel-depressed-from-deprivation!

    It looks like you two had an amazing time.
    I love the photo of you on the Quad Bike *Giggle*.

    Some of those bars look amazing too.
    I am not male, nor gay, although I am a female who is openly bisexual and hates labels so this is a nice twist on the LGBT community while travelling. I wouldn’t have known about any of this had I not read your place, as you mentioned Bali is not the 1st place that comes to mind in regards to LGBT travel.

    *Clothing Optional* Love that too 🙂

    Can’t wait to jump into your posts this weekend and read more on your adventures!
    Come find me on Twitter at @CeecesTravel, I am on my way to find you 🙂


    • Awww thanks Cee – on our way to stalking you right now – watch out g friend xxx

  25. Thorough guide and it seems like you really had an amazing time there!

  26. Wow! What a great and detailed review of Bali. Can’t wait to go visit next year and will be referring back to you suggestions for ideas. Sounds like you had a great time though. Cheers

    • Thanks Rosemary 🙂

  27. Hi Both
    I was reading your trip notes from my facebook friend and had so much interset6 reading it especially while you guys are in bali.
    Dropby in our café if you are returning to Bali again. We just open like 9 months ago and specialises in Singaporean and Malaysian fares with some Indonesian favourite too.
    As I am establishing this café to be gay friendly, it also gay owned. We do have team of Englisg speaking staff.
    Come down if you can and we will be delighted to let you sample our food and hospitality.

    See you guys
    We are also on tripadvisor.

    • Sure thing will do 🙂

  28. Hey guys 🙂

    Awww, love your photos, they make me want to go to Bali right now! St. Regis Bali will definitely be my top choice and Be Bali Day cooking class too 🙂 Keep going!!! Look forward to see you both again soon, safe travels.

    • Thanks Tuk 🙂

  29. Hey guys!
    I’ve been an avid follower of your blog since I read this post just before going to Bali myself. I stayed in Spartacvs based on your recommendation, and it was so much fun! I stayed in another clothing optional resort called Bali au Naturel, though that was not as much fun.
    However, while in Bali did you guys hear of any Gay Traveler’s Hostels? I always prefer youth hostels because of the community, but couldn’t find any gay ones.
    Anyway, thanks for the recommendation! I’m traveling to Thailand and the Philippines next so imma try and find your posts from those countries next 🙂

    Lots of love,

    • Thanks for the message Rohan! Sadly didn’t find any either.


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