“The Island of the Gods!”…
And in our humble opinion: “The Island of the Gays”!
Bali is the quintessential tropical island getaway high up on most travellers' bucket lists, particularly amongst those of us inspired by the Julia Roberts movie, “Eat Pray Love”. Surprisingly, Bali is also a popular gay haven in Asia: remember this is part of Indonesia, a country which has over the years become increasingly more homophobic.
Bali stands strong in the face of this rising tide of hatred towards our LGBTQ community in Indonesia thanks to its unique Hindu heritage and the diverse international community across the island.
For LGBTQ travellers, Bali offers a tropical paradise, gorgeous beaches, world-class restaurants, plenty of welcoming gay hotels and an entire strip of lively gay hangouts in Seminyak. We've put all of this right here in our lengthy gay travel guide to Bali based on our first-hand experience.
POLICE CRACKDOWN ON GAY HOTELS IN BALI!
Please be advised that there was a crackdown on gay guesthouses in Bali in early 2020. It appears this was only in relation to hotels openly advertising themselves as being exclusively “gay”.
Whilst Bali remains safe for gay travellers, as expressed by the Bali Tourism Board, remember this is still part of a country where LGBTQ rights are constantly being challenged. Despite this, we still found Bali to be safe for LGBTQ travellers.
What we cover in this guide
Why is Bali so gay friendly?
Before visiting Bali, we were wondering how such a gay haven can possibly exist in a country like Indonesia, where the Islamic government has been working ruthlessly to oppress its LGBTQ community. Over the years, more anti-LGBTQ laws are being passed in Indonesia. Whilst homosexuality wasn't historically illegal in this former Dutch colony, the government has been ruthlessly trying to introduce laws that effectively criminalise consensual same-sex.
Despite what's happening on the mainland, Bali continues to thrive, largely unaffected. Unlike the rest of the country, which has the largest Muslim population in the world, Bali is mainly Hindu – a religion which is more tolerant of our LGBTQ family! In addition, Bali is also very touristy, with a vast international community living/working here all year round. As a result, a gay scene has been able to thrive here for many years, along with several gay/male-only hotels.
For more check out our interview about what it's like to be gay in Indonesia with Joko from Java island.
Landing in Bali soon?
The easiest way to get from Bali's international airport to your accommodation is via a private airport transfer. Bali's public taxi services can be a little dodgy, so this way we know we can relax while our English-speaking driver whisks us to our hotel in comfort.
The gay area of Bali
The main gay neighbourhood of Bali is along one road in Seminyak called “Jalan Camplung Tanduk Arcade”. Here, you'll find the bulk of the gay hangouts, in particular, Bali Joe, Mixwell and F Bar.
Most LGBTQ travellers will spend their evenings here. We certainly did and loved it. Each bar offers a mix of cocktails, hilarious drag shows and sexy GoGo dancers throughout the night. It's busy on most evenings, and on weekends, it's packed. The crowds eventually merge into one and spill out into the street outside, which is what we love about it.
Elsewhere across Bali, there are other gay friendly bars, beach clubs, gay hotels and gay spas/saunas. These are all largely in and around Seminyak – see below for more.
Must do in Bali: a romantic couple's spa treatment
If you want to feel more love-up, pampered and relaxed than ever before, you should take your lover to a romantic couple's spa treatment. With massages, facials, Jacuzzi time and wine – this will definitely be an experience to remember!
Gay hotels in Bali
Bali has sadly had a huge crackdown against gay guesthouses in early 2020. As such there are no more official exclusively gay hotels in operation. There are however many hotels and villas that are welcoming to everyone, where you know you will feel safe to stay with your same-sex partner. These are largely based in and around Seminyak and Kuta.
Kuta is the main entry point of the island, where the airport can be found (as well as a large horde of drunk straight Aussie tourists). Seminyak is the more trendy and upmarket area next to Kuta, which is also where the hub of the gay scene of Bali can be found.
We also recommend checking out Nusa Dua, located around 30 minutes taxi ride south from Seminyak on the southern tip of the island. In our opinion, it is the most romantic part of Bali, where all the high-end luxury resorts can be found. See more about Nusa Dua later in this guide.
For the best gay hotels in Ubud, check out our detailed gay guide to Ubud (due to be published soon!) but we've also included a section for Ubud towards the end of this guide.
W Hotel Retreat and Spa
Why we love it
- Luxurious 5-star resort
- Stunning views of the Indian Ocean
- Excellent spa and fitness facilities
- Multiple bars and restaurants
The W is world-famous for being an LGBTQ friendly brand, and we LOVE it for this! The W in Seminyak is notorious for being gay friendly and has even been used as the location for gay destination weddings in the past.
When we entered, we were blown away by how massive it is – like entering a mini-city in Seminyak! It has its own looong driveway entrance, an entire beach section and huge plush pool space designed to look like a rice field. There's also an array of excellent in-house bars and restaurants to check out.
Fire Restaurant serves excellent barbecued meat dishes like ribeye and wagyu, along with some pretty incredible cocktails. Starfish Bloo is perfect for pan-Asian cuisine as well as a seafood market on Friday evenings and an amazing brunch on Sunday mornings. The W also has lots of places to relax beside the pool or looking out over the beach, while you sip on a few delicious cocktails. The rooms and suites are also stunning here, decorated with splashes of green to make you feel like you're in a jungle treehouse while taking in the sea views from your balcony.
Along with the multiple pools and beach areas, we love their gym. It's modern, with full equipment and perfect for shaping up in before posting for all those Insta shots… If you can't be bothered with a gym work out, they have group classes like yoga, body pump and core. The Away Spa is open 24 hours a day and has a mix of treatments on offer ranging from body scrubs, foot baths, makeup services, massages and manicures.
STAY WITH A GAY LOCAL
Misterb&b is the Airbnb equivalent for the LGBTQ community. Unlike on Airbnb, you know your host is gay, avoiding any nasty surprises when you check in. It is also a great way to meet gay locals and discover the underground gay scene. Click below to get 10 € (or $10) off your first booking.
Why we love it
- Very gay friendly
- Fabulously pink throughout!
- Multiple pools and right by the beach
- Both eco-friendly and ethical
With a name like PinkCoco, you can bet this hotel is going to be pretty in pink and fabulous! Not only are there pretty pink features throughout this hotel, but there's also plenty of beautiful artwork, decor and cute little details – from the romantic netting on the beds to the bright murals in some rooms.
Originally designed for surfers, PinkCoco Bali is just a stone's throw the famous Padang-Padang surf breaks, but you don't have to hang ten to stay here.
A new tapas restaurant is due to open on the property in April 2020, but there are also lots of excellent cafes, restaurants and bars within walking distance, or a quick scooter ride. The staff at PinkCoco are absolutely wonderful and so helpful, offering suggestions on things to do or organising a driver to take you around the area. Since there are only 30 rooms at the hotel you definitely feel like you get very personalised and friendly service here.
We particularly love the complimentary and eco-friendly items provided, like water in glass bottles in the bedrooms and fabric shopping bags for guests so you don't have to use plastic bags if you're doing some shopping. In fact, all the Pink Hotels strive to be both ethical and eco-friendly, as well as partnering with the Bali Pink Ribbon Foundation in the fight against breast cancer. This kind of conscious effort to do good is definitely an initiative we can get behind!
Impiana Private Villas Bali
Why we love it
- Gorgeous private villas
- All villas have a private pool
- Relaxing spa with luuush treatments
- In-villa dining and an award-winning restaurant
Impiana Private Villas is a luxurious and gay friendly complex in Seminyak offering up traditional Balinese private villas that are simply stunning.
We loved our private villa, with its large garden space, sun tanning area, private pool, kitchen and dining area decorated in traditional Balinese style. We also had our own private chef who prepared breakfast for us in our kitchen every morning.
These villas are ideal for either a group of friends travelling together in one of the 3 bedroom villas or for couples in one of the 1 bedroom villas. Each villa has its own private pool for a dip and there's also a luxurious private spa where you can be pampered in the Middle Eastern styled rooms. You can choose from different massage, reflexology and beauty treatments or join in on a yoga class. For the young at heart (like our Stefan!), you can even make use of the resort's collection of awesome floaties in your pool, perfect for that obligatory Insta shot of you on a floating pink unicorn!
As well as a private chef, you can also dine in the award-winning Prana Restaurant (or get a picnic basket to go!), plus the location in Seminyak means you are close to the gay bars as well as some of the best restaurants on the island (see more below). What really elevates Impiana Villas though is the service: the staff here are amazing! They were super welcoming to us as a gay couple, ready to go above and beyond to ensure our stay was as comfortable as possible.
Why we love it
- Meditation and Nurture!
- Incredible spa services
- Glorious pool and poolside bar
- Beautiful Japanese-style villas and suites
No, it's not what you think! It, in fact, stands for “Meditation and Nurture”! And it's the perfect place to nurse off that Bali Joe hangover! This gem of a hotel is also a very popular boutique day club in Bali. They have spa treatments, dining and pool area with a bar.
The accommodation options are in gorgeous Japanese-styled suites and villas.
M.A.N. Resort has also hosted some pretty cool pool parties in Bali, which we recommend looking out for, especially on weekends when they have hilarious drag shows. We think it's one of the best places to base yourself in Bali if you're a group of friends having a party holiday together. Oh – the cocktails? They've just gone for it – with hilarious names like “Sex By The Pool”, “Strawberry Shag” and our favourite, “Golden Showers”…
Want to trim your hair whilst on holiday here in Bali but not sure where to go? Yeah, they've covered that too, with an on-site barber to hand to make you feel like Beyonce in no time! Every day they have a themed event, like 50% off food on Wednesdays and 50% off massages on Thursdays. Weekends are more orientated to parties. They also encourage LGBTQ locals to come and mingle, especially on Mondays and Fridays, when the entry is free for locals.
Gay bars in Bali
The gay scene of Bali is dominated by the 3 gay bars in Seminyak along the road called: Jalan Camplung Tanduk Arcade. The fabulous 3 are: Mixwell, Bali Joe and F Bar, which are next door each other. They are all open from around 6pm until the early hours when they become popular dancing venues, particularly Mixwell and BJ.
For our guide, we've split these up, with F Bar in the “Bars” section and Mixwell/BJ in “Clubs” as we found that F Bar was better to head to for drinks to start the night and then we'd head over to Mixwell and Bali Joe for dancing, GoGo boys and drag shows. We've also included a few other gay friendly bars we loved in and around Seminyak that were a nice break from the main gay strip, but still gay friendly enough to allow us the luxury of a few PDAs!
Note: many online guides reference the gay bar called “Bottoms Up”, which used to be part of this strip, but sadly this one has now permanently closed down.
F Bar (or Face Bar) is located on the “Jalan Camplung Tanduk Arcade” street right next door to Bali Joe. We liked F Bar more as a place to come for drinks before heading over to BJ or Mixwell later in the night, especially since the drinks are cheap. It gets busier later in the evening when the crowds of Mixwell/BJ and F Bar all merge into one along the street outside. Look out for the hilarious drag queens here doing the rounds across the 3 main gay bars of the strip (as well as their sexy entourage of GoGo dancers!). F Bar is open Tuesday to Sunday from 7pm to 3am.
Ku De Ta is a super cool gay friendly beach bar, lounge and restaurant to hang out during the day. It was one of our favourite spots to come to for romantic sunset cocktails. After sunset, they usually have popular live DJs and the area gradually transforms into a dancing space. It's not an exclusively gay bar, but it's well known in the local LGBTQ community for being welcoming and gay-friendly. Ku De Ta is located at 9 Jalan Kayu Aya and is open daily from 8am until 2am.
Capris is a gay friendly beachfront bar attached to the Royal Beach Seminyak Hotel (located at Jalan Camplung Tanduk) and another favourite of ours for romantic sunset cocktails. They have tables to sit at, but we loved getting comfy on their cosy beanbags, right by the ocean. Capris is open every day from 11am until 11pm.
Even if you're not staying at the gaaawgus W Hotel (located at Jalan Petitenget Seminyak), we highly recommend visiting their Woobar. Think trendy, glam, chic…everything you'd expect from the W brand! During the day, entry includes complimentary access to the hotel's large pool area. In the evening, they have a live DJ, and the area slowly becomes a dancing area. Woobar is open daily from 10am until 1am.
La Favela is an amazing gay friendly restobar, famous for its themed parties. The indoor and outdoor seating areas are all decorated with plants (and model animals) to make it feel like a jungle. There's even a mini Christ the Redeemer statue on the roof like the one in Rio de Janeiro! It's located at 177x Jalan Laksamana Oberoi and is open every day from 5pm until around 4am.
For some authentic Mexican food, frozen margaritas and dancing, you'll want to head to the gay friendly Motel Mexicola restobar. As well as having some of the best Mexican food in Bali, they have a huge tequila list and some epic dance parties. Located at 9 Jalan Kayu Jati, Motel Mexicola is open every day from 11am to 1am.
The Lawn Canggu is a cool lounge that opens out directly onto the Canggu black sandy beach. Friday nights are their most popular evenings (“Lawn Friday's”), which attracts quite a sizeable queer crowd (helped by their two-for-one drink specials). Located on Jalan Pura Dalem, The Lawn Canggu is open daily from 10am until around 1am.
One for the cool hipster crowd, also located along Canggu Beach. We love it because the atmosphere is open-minded and welcoming to everyone. They have a different event taking place every day, from beer pong to acoustic guitar and even a monthly market. Old Man's is open daily from 7am until around 1am.
The Alila Seminyak Resort's beach bar is another gay friendly spot we loved in Bali for romantic sunset cocktails. And they go all out on them – check out their coconut and lime daiquiris or G+Ts with mango, black pepper or with olive, rosemary and a sea salt rim! The Alila resort is located at 9 Jalan Taman Ganesha and the Beach Bar is open daily from 11am until 11pm.
Gay clubs in Bali
As mentioned above, the best (and main) gay clubs in Bali are Mixwell and Bali Joe, located right next door to each other on the Jalan Camplung Tanduk Arcade strip in Seminyak. Whilst there is nothing else in terms of official gay clubs in Bali, look out for any ad hoc queer events that take place at other venues like the W Hotel.
Mixwell is the main and most popular gay bar in Bali, which we always ended up at whenever we went out in Bali – most LGBTQ travellers will end up here at some stage during their trip! We love the fierce drag shows and the sexy GoGo dancer boys (see video below!). The waiters are super friendly, always joyful and full of smiles. It's also popular with local guys and the large LGBTQ expat community living/working in Bali. Mixwell is open daily from 6pm to 3am.
This has to be the best abbreviation for a gay bar ever! BJ is the other staple gay club in Bali, located right next door to Mixwell and F Bar. Look out for their fierce and super cheeky Rihanna and Nicki Minaj impersonators who loved pulling Seby up to the dance floor and stripping him down to his boxers! The drag queens also come out and mingle with you afterwards – they are hilarious and will make you wet yourself laughing! Bali Joe is open daily from 4pm until around 3am.
Pride at Sky Garden – reopening soon
Sky Garden is a huge party complex in Kuta, which used to be famous for its queer nights called PRIDE. It closed for a while for a big refurbishment but has started to open again, slowly. Rumour has it that they may also start up their PRIDE nights again, so watch this space!
Gay beaches and beach clubs in Bali
Whilst there are no official gay beaches in Bali, Batu Belig Beach is considered the main “unofficial” gay beach hangout. We've also included a few gay friendly beach clubs which are popular hotspots for LGBTQ travellers and locals during the day before heading over to Mixwell and Bali Joe:
Batu Belig Beach
This used to be gayer many moons ago when there was a cafe here proudly waving a rainbow flag. Whilst the cafe and flag are no more, the beach has retained its fabulous notoriety and still has tables, chairs and sun loungers to rent. The gay bit is located towards the northern side of Batu Belig beach, with some cruising in the nearby forested area. Batu Belig beach is located close to the W Hotel and minutes walking distance to the Grand Balisani Suites Resort.
Famous for being voted as one of the hottest beach clubs in Bali. This is one super gorgeous gay friendly beach club to hang out at, whether for romantic cocktails (cue us!) or for the Instagrammable decor. It's built from reclaimed wood from more than 500 old fisherman boats, resembling something out of Pirates of the Caribbean. We loved it! La Brisa is located on Echo Beach and open daily from 7am until 11pm.
Mr Potato Head was one place recommended to us by gay locals as a trendy queer-friendly beach club to hang out. From the outside, it's designed to look like a coliseum built from thousands of wooden window shutters, but once you get inside there are two beach-front infinity pools, three different restaurants, a swim-up bar, a groovy indoor cocktail bar and plenty of spaces to just relax. The Potato Head Beach Club is located at 51B Jalan Petitenget and is open Tuesday to Sunday from 10am until 2am.
We could almost put this under the club section because even though it's a beach club, Finn's is one of the most popular gay friendly party spots in Bali with huge and epic events. You can laze the day away here while listening to DJs from 9am and live vocalists from 4pm. There are no fewer than four pools and nine bars here (including two swim-up pool bars), along with five highly rated restaurants! Finn's Beach Club also has some of the best pool parties, especially on New Year's Eve. Finn's is located on Jalan Pantai Selatan Gau and is open every day from 9am until 11pm.
Perched on top of a cliff 100 metres above the Indian Ocean, Omnia Dayclub is an absolutely stunning day club. While you can't technically get onto the beach, you can enjoy the amazing panoramic views from the multiple infinity pools, bars and restaurants. It's lovely to relax here on the daybeds in the sun or have a meal in one of the two restaurants. But the incredible dance events and their signature Saturday pool parties are the real drawcards! Omnia is located on Jalan Belimbing Sari and is open every day from 11am to 10pm.
Gay saunas in Bali
Whilst Bali is synonymous with massage, you can be sure you'll find a heap of places that also offer that little bit extra! And there's quite a large number of them. These are some of the best gay saunas in Bali to check out, also referred to as spas locally:
Coco Grande is an exclusive gay men's spa which specialises in full-body massages using aromatherapy oils. All the staff are men, who are trained in the art of massage They also provide a call-out service if you want to have a massage in the privacy of your hotel room…! Coco Grande is located at 37 Jalan Plawa and is open daily from 10am until 10pm.
Teman Spa is an executive gay-owned spa for men with all-male masseurs. As well as special massages for relaxation, tension or sensation they also provide facials and cleansing body scrubs. Teman Spa is located at 15 Jalan Mertanadi and is open every day from 10am until 10pm.
In what is possibly the biggest and most luxurious gay spa in Bali, Elegantz is a 5-star establishment spread out over two floors of an ancient Balinese mansion. There's a Greek-style steam room with aromatherapy, a Roman bath plunge pool, private relaxation rooms, a walk-through balcony, garden terrace, cafe and a gym! Handy tip: Elegantz gets very popular after 6pm. It's located at 18 Jalan Tangkuban Perahu and is open daily for massages from 11am-10pm, while the cruising area is open from 4pm-10pm.
Banana Spa is one of Bali's oldest, largest and most popular gay spas. It's more of a day club to hang out at, with all the fun extras that come with it! The sexy all-male staff offer banana-scented oil massages, exfoliating scrubs and manscaping…and more! Located at 69 Jalan Drupadi, Banana Spa is open daily from 9am until 11pm.
With verrry chic black and white styling throughout, M2 Spa is a more traditional gay spa. We love it because they also cater to couples(!) offering a professional and relaxing couples massage – involving a traditional “Boreh” spicy scrub complete with flower bath. M2 Spa is located at 41B Jalan Petitenget and is open every day from 10am until 10pm.
The cosiest male massage in town! Adam's Apple is where you wanna head to get things like a decadent “Forbidden Apple Massage”(!) This bad boy combines Swedish, shiatsu, Thai yoga and Chinese acupressure. They also offer a call-out massage service to your hotel room. Adam's Apple is located at 69X Jalan Batu Belig and is open from 9am until 10pm daily.
Despite the name, Young Generation is for over 18s, with lots of different massages to try, including deep tissue, hot stone and foot reflexology…all of them with the promise of a “happy ending”! Located at 102B Jalan Tangkuban Perahu, Young Generation is open daily from 10am to 10pm.
Best gay events in Bali
While Bali does have a gay pride event, there isn't a huge amount of information available online about it (due to pressure from religious groups), so we recommend connecting with locals using Grindr to get the latest scoop. There are plenty of other exciting cultural and music festivals that we fancied and think you would as well:
Gay Pride Bali/Bali Art Festival (June)
Bali hosts Indonesia's only gay pride parade, which coincides with the Bali Art Festival in June. The art festival takes place over the whole month, with events to celebrate, preserve and develop Balinese art and culture. Most of the events take place at the Taman Werdhi Budaya Arts Centre in Denpasar, with something different every single day, from theatre to dance to documentary films and even puppet shows!
Silent Disco at the W (Aug/Sep)
About once a year (usually in August or September) the W Resort's Woobar hosts a really fun silent disco. When you arrive you get your own headphones which you can use to switch between the different music styles played by three different DJs. Keep an eye on the Woobar's Happenings Page to find out when the next one will be.
Bali Spirit Festival (March)
One of the most inspiring festivals in the world, the Bali Spirit Festival, combines yoga, meditation, dance, martial arts and healing workshops. This week-long festival also includes market stalls selling handicrafts, vegan food, clothing and gifts, as well as concerts with music from all around the world. This is definitely a must for anyone interested in spirituality, wellness, world music and nature.
Makepung Races (July-Sep)
For something really unique, if you head to Bali between July to September, you'll get to experience the Makepung water buffalo races. Taking place in the western Jembrana Regency of the island, this tradition originates from the country's agricultural way of life. Farmers dress their bullocks up with colourful decorations, and along with the races, you can even watch a ‘buffalo fashion show’! The races generally take place on Sundays from July to September when it's the dry season in Bali.
Bali Kite Festival (August)
A must-see for anyone visiting Bali during the dry and windy season is the Bali Kite Festival. Exact dates vary depending on the weather conditions but the main event takes place on Padanggalak Beach in Sanur. For Balinese Hindus, kites are used to send messages to the gods and ask for a bountiful harvest. Since the larger a kite is the higher it can go, most of the kites are massive and whole villages take part in the construction. Visitors to Bali can enjoy seeing thousands of colourful kites floating in the sky during the festival, while traditional gamelan orchestras play music.
We love international film festivals as they're always a great place to see local films from the region as well as more international ones. Balinale is the Bali international film festival which is recognized all over the world for the diversity of its programming with a wide variety of documentary, feature and short films. The festival has even attracted its fair share of Oscar, Emmy, BAFTA and Cannes award winners, so you might even spot a few celebs at one of the workshops and seminars!
Legian Beach Festival (November)
Nestled in between Kuta and Seminyak is Legian Beach, a gorgeous spot for swimming without the large suffocating crowds. The Legian Beach Festival is a four-day music festival which also includes lots of food stalls, activities, competitions and even a bartending show. Of course, there's plenty of exciting live music both day and night for you to have a boogie.
Gay Tours of Bali
If you'd prefer to explore Bali as part of a group, there are a couple of excellent gay tours going there. By joining a tour group you'll be able to relax and enjoy everything without worrying about logistics. You'll also be able to make friends with like-minded people so it's ideal if you'll be travelling solo.
1. Bali Gay Cultural Tour with HE Travel
This tour is an excellent way to experience Bali’s culture, history, people and cuisine with a fun group of other gay travellers. This trip includes time for relaxing and exploring, as well as activities like an Indonesian cooking class. You'll get to visit coffee plantations, rice paddies and a volcano, as well as going sailing on a traditional Jukung to spot dolphins! During the 6-day tour, you'll have time to socialise with your group as well as relax in your accommodation when you need some downtime. This tour will be taking place from 21-30 January 2020, so get in quick!
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2. Gay Indonesia Island Hop Tour with HE Travel
If you want to explore Bali as well as other islands in Indonesia then you might prefer HE Travel's Indonesia Island Hop Tour! For two whole weeks, you'll get to spend time on the islands of Java, Borneo, Labuan Bajo, Seraya, Padar, Rinca and Bali, phew! This tour involves quite a bit more strenuous activity than the Bali one, with excursions for cycling, hiking and snorkelling. The best bit is all the animals you'll get up close to from monkeys to orangutans, dolphins and even Komodo dragons! This tour will take place from 23 April-6 May 2021, so you've got plenty of time to save up.
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Best restaurants in Bali
For a small island, Bali sure has its fair share of high-end restaurants. With many international top chefs coming here to set up shop, you can expect to find cuisine from all around the world. These are some of our favourite gay friendly restaurants in Bali we absolutely loved:
FIRE at W Bali
FIRE Restaurant at the W resort is a grill-based eatery that serves delicious roasts, tartars, salads and raw bar classics. But our favourite part was their lavish Sunday brunch based on hawker street food. Every Sunday from midday until 3.30pm you can come along to dine on mouth-watering fresh meats, cheeses and local street-food dishes cooked right in front of you. There's even a ceviche bar, oyster-shucking station and a DIY desserts room to keep you going! The Sunday brunch at Fire includes a free-flow of bubbles and selected cocktails, plus you'll be able to enjoy live music as you dine.
The Royal Rijstaffel is a Balinese tradition dating back to the Dutch colonial era of the 19th Century and literally translates to “rice table”. At Husk Restaurant the rice is served with a variety of accompanying local dishes by a group of female waitresses who dance their way over to you, accompanied by traditional music. This special event only occurs on Monday nights between 6:30–9:30pm, but you can still dine on delicious food at Husk on other nights as well. Husk Restaurant is part of the Royal Beach Seminyak hotel/resort and is also open for breakfast or lunch.
Bambu is one of the most highly rated restaurants in Seminyak. It's expensive but well worth every penny, and perfect for a romantic meal. They specialise in traditional Indonesian food including yummy prizes like Gohu Ikan Tongkol (a yellowfin tuna ceviche starter) and Bebek Betutu (slow-roasted duck with galangal, lemongrass, toasted coconut and green bean salad). They also do innovative and tasty cocktails like the Ginger Honey Sling (rum-based) and the Lychee Cooler (with vodka). The whole place looks amazing too, with seating in a gazebo surrounded by a cute pool. Note: book in advance as it gets super busy here!
For some of the best Italian food outside of Italy, head to the Rolling Fork! But seriously, it's that good. Everything is homemade, from the pasta to the pizza dough and all the fresh bread. Located in a very cute antique Balinese joglo house, there are different seating options from tables to cosy couches. The Rolling Fork is open for breakfast, lunch and dinner, with plenty of vegetarian choices. We loved the mango, strawberry, banana and wild honey smoothies. Also, their desserts are just divine (remember: all freshly homemade!).
Moonlite Kitchen & Bar
We love the rooftop Moonlite Kitchen & Bar, mainly for the panoramic views over the Indian Ocean. This is one excellent recommendation if you're looking for a romantic spot to impress your date. The food is really good too, with a huge menu of mouthwatering and modern Asian cuisine. We feasted on scrumptious roast duck, crispy pork belly and char sieuw to start, then had an amazing grilled cuttlefish salad as we watched the sun setting. The cocktails are also pretty incredible, like the vanilla iced Toblerone cocktail! They also serve yummy smoothies if you don't feel like any alcohol.
Things to do in Bali
Bali is a magical island, with so many fun things to see and do. From enchanted rainforests to sacred volcanic peaks, emerald rice terraces and some of the most Instagrammable spots ever, you'll never get bored! These were some of our favourite things we did during our trips to Bali.
Treat yourself to a world-class spa
Bali is famous for them! There are plenty of luxurious and romantic options available, but this couple's spa treatment has got to be one of the most incredible things we've ever experienced. From the moment we arrived we were in heaven, with a welcome glass of wine, a foot cleanse and then a couple's massage side-by-side. Afterwards, we spent time relaxing in the Jacuzzi, surrounded by rose petals, before we also got to use the resort's swimming pool. We came away feeling more pampered, relaxed loved-up and beautiful than ever before! We highly recommend it.
Spend some time on the beach
Whilst there are no official gay beaches in Bali, the beach area in Seminyak is still a cool place to chill during the day, particularly around one of the many gay friendly beach clubs like the W Hotel’s Woobar (see more in our Gay Beach section above). For the adrenaline junkies, there are plenty of places to have surfing lessons, or you could book an exciting watersports day out where you get to experience paragliding over the beach, riding on a ‘donut' behind a speed boat, and learning to ride a jet-ski, just like James Bond in “The Spy Who Loved Me”!
Experience a romantic sunset
Sunsets in Bali are some of the best in the world, and certainly the best we've seen on our travels. What's more, if you head to one of the beaches on the western side of the island then you'll be treated to even more spectacular sunsets, made more perfect with your lover or hot Grindr date to hand. If you're travelling as a couple, then it's definitely worth grabbing a few beach cocktails to watch it together. You could also head to the beautiful Tanah Lot Temple for sunset, a UNESCO World Heritage Site that looks gorgeous when silhouetted by the hues of red, orange and yellow.
Take part in a cooking class
With all the delicious food we ate in Bali, we simply HAD to learn how to make some of it for ourselves! We found and recommend this fun Indonesian cooking class, where we learned how to cook authentic Balinese food in a traditional village. First, our hosts took us to a local market to get our ingredients where we learned all about the vegetables, herbs, meat and spices used in local life. We were then welcomed to the traditional village of Laplapan and learned how to make no less than seven mouthwatering dishes – including dessert! Of course, the highlight of any cooking class, sampling it all at the end!
Swimming with manta rays
There are quite a few places you can go snorkelling in Bali but one of the best is Manta Bay. Manta Bay is technically on the smaller island of Penida but you can visit it easily as a day trip from Kuta, Seminyak, Canggu, Ubud and other parts of Bali. This snorkelling excursion was one of the absolute highlights of our time in Bali, as we actually got to snorkel with the majestic wild manta rays in their natural habitat. The Reef Manta Rays in Bali are the second-largest kind but don't have stingers or sharp teeth, so they're perfectly safe to swim with and often interact with you!
Go hiking on Mount Batur
Mount Batur is an active volcano (although it hasn't erupted since 2000) that you can actually hike for some stunning views over Bali. Hiking the mountain is quite popular with visitors to Bali, especially as it's quite straightforward to ascend to the summit of the central crater. You can even join a guided sunrise hike of Mount Batur with local guides who've been climbing it since they were children. After hiking up in the dark, you enjoy breakfast as you watch the sun come up. Then you walk back down, stopping off for a soak in a natural hot spring to ease those weary muscles.
Visit the Instagrammable northern side of Bali
While most gay travellers to Bali will spend the majority of their time in Seminyak and Ubud, very few venture to the north of the island. One of our favourite spots is the pretty Ulun Danu temple which sits on a tiny island in the Beratan Lake (pictured). We explored the most famous sights in northern Bali on a day trip, which meant we also got to see the Handara Gate and the stunning Banyumala Twin Waterfall. On the way back to we also visited one of the most Instagrammable spots in Bali – the jungle swing!
Stand in the Gateway to Heaven
This is one of the most famous iconic Instagrammable snaps of Bali you'll see: the Handara Gate. Most come here to get their pic in between these famous gates, with mountain view behind. There is another famous and epic photo opp: the Gateway to Heaven. If you visit Lempuyang Temple there's a gate that almost perfectly frames Mount Agung, often with clouds between, so it literally looks like you're about to step onto the clouds and walk into heaven! While many Instagram photos also show a pool of water in front of the gates, do be aware that this is achieved by a clever trick using a phone screen…there isn't really a pond of any kind here!
Learn about Indonesian culture at the theatre
We love going to the theatre, especially if it means we'll get to experience the traditional culture of a place while we're travelling. The “Devdan – Treasure of the Archipelago” show fits the bill perfectly, as it takes you through a sensory journey of the Indonesian archipelago. We absolutely loved this high-energy performance, which combines dance, acrobatics, music and special effects along with stunning traditional costumes. Tickets for the performance include transport to and from your hotel. You also have the option to upgrade to a VIP ticket so that you can enjoy the spectacle from the comfort of the prime “La-Z-Boy” chairs!
Explore the famous rice terraces
You can't go to Bali and not visit some of the ubiquitous rice terraces, right? The ones at Jatiluwih are actually a UNESCO World Heritage Site and are so stunning, even the Obamas visited! Sadly, we didn't get to hang out with them, but we did join an eco-friendly electric bike tour of the rice terraces, which is a really fun way to explore the area. Along with the rice terraces, we cycled past jungle greenery, bamboo forests and visited small local villages. It's also fascinating to learn about the traditional Subak irrigation system that the Balinese use to grow and harvest rice.
Ubud: the cultural getaway in Bali
While Seminyak is synonymous with beach and nightlife, Ubud is Bali's cultural heart. It is nestled among the mountains and lush jungle in the middle of the island. Temperatures are slightly cooler here and has an overall more chilled vibe. A popular yoga retreat (especially after the success of “Eat, Pray, Love”), we found Ubud to be a wonderful spot to relax and explore the more cultural side of Bali.
There are some excellent gay friendly hotels to stay in Ubud, like Villa Awang Awang and Saudara Home, where you can feel like you're Tarzan living in a jungle treehouse. Delicious restaurants such as Fresh and the stunning Mozaic will keep you satisfied on the foodie front, while there are plenty of gorgeous museums and art galleries to inspire.
If you're brave enough, you can visit the infamous Ubud Monkey Forest, but be warned those monkeys are super cheeky – even more cheeky than our Seby! There are also lots of beautiful temples to visit and many boutique shops in case you need some retail therapy. Make sure you check out our gay guide to Ubud for more info (will be published soon).
Nusa Dua: a honeymoon getaway
Nusa Dua, located on the opposite side to Kuta on Bali's southern peninsula, is known as the ‘honeymoon' area of the island, owing to the large amount of incredible five-star resorts clustered here. This is probably the most upscale area to stay, so it's perfect if you're looking to splurge on a luxurious experience for a special occasion (like your honeymoon).
There are beautiful beaches and stunning cliffs to experience, but without the overly busy/party vibe you get around Seminyak and Kuta. The blowhole known as Water Blow is an exciting spot to visit to see the famous splash through the rocks. If you're looking for a more relaxed and romantic holiday, we definitely recommend this area. You can still easily visit other parts of the island but then come back to your resort or hotel when you want some peace and quiet.
While Nusa Dua means ‘two islands' there are actually two headlands with a temple on each which enclose the gated community. We stayed at the gay friendly St. Regis resort during our time in Nusa Dua and can definitely recommend it as an opulent base for exploring the island.
The St. Regis Bali Resort
Why we love it
- Incredible 5-star luxury resort
- Free airport limousine shuttle service
- Spa, fitness centre and multiple pools
- Multiple amazing restaurants and bars
We stayed at the St. Regis Bali Resort and bloody hell, wow!
You’re blown away from the moment you set foot into the St. Regis and are met with your own personal butler…yes you read right: your own butler!
The luxury actually begins right from the moment you arrive at the airport, as the resort provides a free shuttle service…in a limousine!
The St. Regis is so huge, you need a buggy to go from one end to the other. We particularly enjoyed many peaceful, relaxing moments on the private beach where you can also partake in exhilarating water activities like snorkelling and kite surfing. As if that wasn't enough, the St. Regis Bali has a massive 3,668 square metre salt-water lagoon pool with multiple spots for lounging on beds or deckchairs, and two thatched gazebos with whirlpools inside. All the villas and suites come with a balcony or terrace looking out over the gardens, pool or ocean, while some even have a private hot tub or plunge pool.
For more relaxation and pampering you can choose from a range of treatments at the beautiful Iridium Spa, which is located in the middle of a koi pond! There are also multiple, incredible dining options on-site, particularly the private Cloud Nine Crystal Chapel where you can dine with a private butler AND a private pianist under the Swarovski crystal chandeliers. For something slightly less extravagant, we loved the pan-Asian cuisine served at Kayuputi, with outdoor seating next to the lagoon pool.
Tips to plan your trip
We've put together some handy hints and tips to help you plan your own trip to Bali. Read on to find out everything the gay traveller should know before they go.
How to get there: You can reach Bali via a very very long bus (and ferry) ride from Jakarta, via a cruise or by flying into the Ngurah Rai International Airport. To get from the airport to your hotel there are public buses and taxis, although the taxis are rather notorious so we prefer to book a private airport transfer. That way we know there'll be an English-speaking driver waiting to take us straight to our hotel and since we've already paid beforehand, no haggling!
Visa requirements: Visitors to Bali from Australia, Canada, New Zealand, the United Kingdom, United States, and most of Europe can get a visa upon arrival at the airport in Bali, which does cost a small amount. Make sure you check your personal visa requirements before making your travel plans though.
Getting around: It can be easy to get around the areas of Kuta and Seminyak by foot but if you want to explore further afield things get trickier. Taxis are notorious for scams, roads are poor quality and even if you hire a scooter or motorbike you might get harassed by police for a bribe. It often works out to be cheaper and less hassle to hire a driver to take you around for the day. Read this for more info about transport within Bali.
Power Plugs: In Bali, and the rest of Indonesia, type C and F power plugs are used. These are the same as the standard European plugs but if you're travelling from somewhere else then you'll need to bring a travel adaptor with you.
Travel insurance: No matter where in the world you are travelling things can go wrong and Bali is no exception. We never travel without the security of travel insurance and recommend others do the same so you're covered in the event of accidents, cancellations or other mishaps. We love using WorldNomads Travel Insurance because their cover is so comprehensive plus it's easy to make a claim online if you need.
Safety and Security: All travellers (gay or otherwise) can encounter danger when travelling. We like to use CloseCircle's “virtual bodyguard” mobile app to keep safe as it provides security alerts and support wherever you are in the world. With a 24/7 emergency response team monitoring their users at all times, they will contact you immediately if the SOS swipe button is activated. Support can include anything from practical advice, to free evacuation from areas with extreme weather or terrorist attacks. Read more about CloseCircle in our article about how to stay safe while travelling.
Vaccinations: All travellers to Bali will need to be up to date with routine vaccinations like measles, mumps and chickenpox. It's also recommended that you have a polio booster if you're planning to stay in Indonesia longer than four weeks. Some travellers may also need to be vaccinated against Hepatitis A, typhoid, Hepatitis B, Japanese encephalitis, malaria, rabies or yellow fever so make sure you check the most recent information on the CDC website.
Currency: The official currency in Bali is the Indonesian rupiah which is abbreviated to Rp although the official currency code is IDR. $1 US converts to around Rp 14057, €1 is worth about Rp 15516 and £1 will get you about Rp 18142. Those big numbers can be confusing but they mostly only use notes which helps. Here's a helpful guide on getting used to the currency in Bali.
Tipping culture: Tipping isn't really expected in Bali but as wages are generally pretty low you might like to tip a few extra dollars for good service at hotels, restaurants, for your driver or tour guide.
Internet access: Free, fast WiFi can be found in most cafes, restaurants, hotels and malls in Bali, which is partly why it's such a popular destination for digital nomads. If you know you're going to need a lot of bandwidth then you might like to bring a portable WiFi device with you or purchase a local SIM card package to be picked up upon arrival in the airport.
Online privacy: While Bali is very gay friendly, Indonesia as a whole does sometimes block certain websites or apps. If you want to be able to use online gay dating apps without any issues, we recommend using a virtual private network like the ones ExpressVPN provide. They offer an affordable and reliable way to browse the internet anonymously.
Accommodation: There are lots of other stunning places to stay in Bali besides the ones we've mentioned here. We love browsing Booking.com to find the best choices since they offer excellent prices, 24/7 online support and free cancellation for many places.
Sightseeing and adventure: If you want to find more fun things to do while you're in Bali, head to GetYourGuide. We love using their site to find all the best activities, plus they have an easy-to-use booking system and excellent 24/7 online support.
When to visit: Bali experiences two distinct seasons: rainy and dry. Temperatures are consistently warm throughout the year, but during the rainy season, it gets much rainier (duh!) and humid, with lots more annoying mosquitos. The best time to visit is between the months of April-October when the weather is much more pleasant.
Gay map of Bali
Here's our gay map of Bali which includes all the gay bars, clubs, hotels and sightseeing highlights we've mentioned in this post. Use it to plan your own amazing gay trip to Bali!
For more inspiration:
- Make sure you also check out our gay travel guide to the Gili Islands
- As well as our gay guide to Labuan Bajo and Flores Island
- If you're travelling further in the region then these are the most gay friendly countries in Asia
- Find out what it's like to travel through Asia as a gay couple
- And if you like diving, these are our favourite scuba diving spots in Asia as well
- Check out the biggest gay pride events around the world
- Then get inspired with these fabulous gay pride outfit ideas
- Read more about the gorgeous island of Nusa Lembongan just a short distance away from Bali
- For some more Balinese inspiration, read about our friend Kathryn's experiences.
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