What are the best gay holiday destinations in Europe?

Every gay traveler, at one point, looked up at a rainbow and dreamt of seeing the world. ‘There must be somewhere better than this drab old town?'…each of us often wondered in our respective beige suburbs growing up…

Fast forward 20 years, and we're both living our dream of seeing the world, one amazing continent at a time. Europe is hands down our favorite. We are biased, of course, as this is where we're from – Stefan is British/Greek Cypriot, and Seby is from France.

We've traveled extensively around Europe when growing up, as well as together as a gay couple. Of course, some places stood out to us more than others, so we list out what we found to be the best gay holiday destinations in Europe from our first-hand experience:

1. Sitges in Spain

For us, Sitges is the numero uno gay holiday destination in Europe. It's a small coastal town, around 45 45-minute train ride from Barcelona. For decades, it's been a famous LGBTQ mecca, full of many gay hangouts, all congregated together mainly along the Carrer de Joan Tarrida street.

The gay scene of Sitges

The gay scene of Sitges is vast and always buzzing. Parrots is the main bar. It’s our favorite meeting spot as well as being the ideal place for people-watching, with chairs and tables facing the crowd passing by. We always start a gay night out in Sitges at Parrots, then head on down Joan Tarrida Street where there are tons of bars like XXL, El Horno, La Cueva, and Man Bar. These all converge outside to become one large, fabulous street party every single evening.

A few blocks away is the excellent El Piano gay bar, which is one of the best places to come for drag shows, cabaret nights, piano sing-alongs, and bluesy singers performing.

Sitges also has some of the best gay beaches in Europe. The main one is called San Sebastián, located right in the heart of town. Further out are a few gay nude beaches, like Balmins and Playa del Muerto.

Gay events in Sitges

Sitges Pride takes place each June and is one of the best Pride events that a gay guy could wish for. With beach games, loud music, tons of drinks, and queens in all shapes and sizes, Sitges Pride delivers the true meaning of what Pride is all about.

Other fantastic gay events to check out in Sitges include the Carnival in February/March, the International Bears Week in April/May, another Bears Week in early September and the queer International Fantasy Film Festival in October.

2. Mykonos island in Greece

It's Lindsey Lohan's favorite place in the world for a reason…

Mykonos Island is a place that is rich in history, culture, and lots of partying. During the summer period (May to October), gay Mykonos comes alive and transforms into one big fabulous gay mecca. July and August are the peak season when it gets super busy, especially around the big gay XLSIOR festival.

The gay scene of Mykonos

It might not be the exact location of the Mamma Mia movies, but it looks pretty close. We spend most of our days in Mykonos hanging out at the Super Paradise and Elia gay beaches, which are located on the southern tip of the island.

In terms of gay bars/clubs, these are located in Mykonos town on the northwest side of the island. Jackie O stole our hearts, with some of the funniest drag shows happening every evening in the summer months. Next door, Babylon offers a vibrant and exciting night out, filled with flashing lights and go-go dancers.

Gay events in Mykonos

The annual XLSIOR festival, which takes place each August, will have you singing Lay All Your Love On Me as you become overwhelmed by all the gorgeous, topless Speedo-clad gay hunks. This is one of the biggest and best gay beach parties in Europe.

For more, be sure to use our gay Greece travel guide and our gay Athens hotel guide to enrich your trip to the Hellenic Republic!

3. Gran Canaria in Spain

Gran Canaria is kind of like Spain's naughty step. Back when the Catholic Church held the nation by its throat, all criminals and social deviants were banished to the Canary Islands and left to their own devices. Those ‘deviants' included gay people, and naturally, many of them found themselves there. As generations developed, the island became a community of super-tolerant folk. Sure, the island is small. But what it lacks in size, it makes up for in heart.

The gay scene of Gran Canaria

Many gay people swing by the Yumbo Centre – a shopping mall filled with gay bars, clubs, shops, and restaurants. There are tons of gay hangouts here to choose from, so the best advice is just to head there and discover it yourself. One of our favorite bars is Terry's, which has hilarious Spanish drag shows featuring some of the classic Latino hits. In terms of clubs, Mykonos is the one we enjoyed the most, which goes on until the early hours.

Gay events in Gran Canaria

The island has tons of Pride events throughout the year. Maspalomas Pride is the main one, which takes place in May. In October, check out the Maspalomas Ŧetish Week, which celebrates all things leather and more exotic. And if that wasn't enough, the Pride festival comes back for a winter edition in November.

4. Puglia in Italy

Oh, Italia… where it is virtually impossible to tell the gay men from the straight. Our gaydar has never been as confused as when we first hit the beaches of Puglia. Italian men (gay and straight) take good care of their bodies and have a lot of pride in what they wear. And we love them for it! Puglia is a stunning region of Italy, which has grown more and more popular with LGBTQ travelers over the years, particularly since the country allowed gay unions in 2016.

The gay scene in Puglia

The majority of the gay hangouts of Puglia are quite spread out, so we highly recommend renting a car. We did a road trip around the region, basing ourselves in Gallipoli and visiting cultural gems Lecce, Ostuni, Alberobello, Polignano a Mare, and Otranto.

The main gay hangouts to check out are Cafe Bellini and Village Picador in Gallipoli. In terms of gay beaches, you'll need a car to reach the nudie beach of D'Ayala, located around 1 hour north of Gallipoli. Lecce is another cultural not-to-miss gem in Puglia, where you'll find Marilyn Bar. Bari is the main transport hub of the region with a handful of gay and even a gay sauna – Millennium. Find out more in our detailed gay guide to Puglia.

Gay events in Puglia

The main one is Puglia Pride (usually in Bari), which takes place every August. It is awash with rainbow colors, an excitable crowd, and glorious weather. The Parade itself is a lot of fun, climaxing with an epic beach party on the Lido Por Do Sol. Attendees dance on the sand in bathing suits to funky dance music, whilst sipping from cocktails and reveling in their LGBTQ pride!

5. Ibiza Island in Spain

“We're going to Ibiza!”

…the party capital of the Mediterranean, Ibiza is an island filled with crazy nightclubs and even a gay nude beach. We all know the fun doesn't really begin until the gays walk in, so inject a little bit of queer magic into the tropical Spanish nightlife.

The gay scene in Ibiza

There are a handful of gay hangouts in Ibiza, mainly based in and around Ibiza town. Mad Ibiza is one of the most popular places where most start their evening, drinking and chatting the night away. JJ Bar is another gem, which was one of the original gay bars on the island, still standing strong. Also, check out the weekly Frigays parties at Club Lolas.

After a night out, you might find yourself whipping off all your clothes for a streak along the Playa Es Cavallet – the island's gay nudist beach. By day, it's a beautiful place to relax, with white sands and blue seas, surrounded by rolling green hills and tons of nude gay guys. Between sun tanning sessions, the Chiringay restaurant is open to serve up some delicious meals and even tastier drinks. So, what's not to love…

Gay events in Ibiza

What is a sensational experience, is super gay and lasts for five whole days???

Ibiza Gay Pride of course!

Packed full of drag shows, film screenings, DJ sets, and dance parties, the Spanish island's Pride event attracts thousands of people from all around the world. It takes place in mid-June each year, underneath the scorching Mediterranean sun. The festival climaxes with a parade through Ibiza Town, with plenty of parties to follow.

6. Barcelona in Spain

Barcelona – the birthplace of the LGBTQ movement of Spain. The city is well known for being super gay-friendly, with an entire neighborhood just for us. The “Gaiexample” (pronounced gai-sham-ple) is packed with LGBTQ shops, bars, cafes, restaurants, clubs and hotels. You could spend your whole trip in Gaixample and never get bored!

The gay scene in Barcelona

The Barcelona gay scene is incredible. With a swirling mix of drag bars, hedonist clubs, and dance halls, there is truly something for everyone. Some of our favourite gay bars in Barcelona include Moeem, La Chapelle, Versailles, and Gin Gin. For the best drag shows, head to Believe, which has a hilarious show every evening. In terms of clubs, check out Arena, Metro, Sala Safari, and The Black Room.

Mar Bella is the main gay beach in Barcelona and one of our favorite gay beaches in all of Europe. It gets super busy here during the summer months, especially during the August Circuit festival.

Gay events in Barcelona

The best gay events in Barcelona are Circuit in August and Pride in June. The Circuit Festival is a week full of parties with plenty of muscle hunks who have probably taken a rest from Tel Aviv Pride, coming to Circuit Barcelona, and are probably heading over to Mykonos afterwards for Xlsior! Meanwhile, the Pride festival is as campy and fabulous as ever, and we love it! Read more about our experience at Barcelona Pride.

Other gay events in Barcelona to look out for include the Snow Gay Weekend in March, the International Memorial AIDS Festival in May, and the Barcelona International Gay Film Festival in October.

7. Reykjavik in Iceland

There is nothing gayer than sitting underneath a pitch-black sky and seeing it lit up with swirling green swashes. The Northern Lights is nature's way of saying “I'm here, I'm queer, get used to it!” Regardless of the purpose of your trip to Iceland, a tour of the Arctic Circle is a must – but bear in mind, that the chances of seeing one of the wonders of the world will be higher if you go during the winter months.

The gay scene of Reykjavik

The city of Reykjavik is a lovely city in an amazingly gay-friendly country. The gay scene is more lively than you would imagine for a country that is situated so far away from everything. The Kiki bar is a fabulous place to, well, have a kiki. The cool and casual vibe of the bar is a great place to share gossip with new friends and enjoy a relaxing evening. Adjoining the bar is the gay-friendly Bravo, which has a more local crowd.

Moving through the idyllic streets, with its fairytale-like houses and cheery-faced nationals, it's difficult to believe such a quaint and demure little city would have a spot like The Icelandic Phallological Museum – a museum to men's most private part! Inside lies the world's largest display of phallic objects. Don't get too cocky when walking around! It can be quite easy to break out in a fit of giggles, but you'll receive stern looks from fellow patrons – you could even be penalized…!

Gay events in Reykjavik

For a city that's so small (around 125,000 people), it sure makes its impact. With 1/3 of the population attending the Pride event every August, Reykjavik Pride has become one of the country's biggest events. It has some of Iceland's most famous stars popping up to perform, fierce drag artists, and tons of organisations supporting the parade. Reykjavik Pride brings this small city to a standstill.

If that wasn't enough, Reykjavik also has a winter Pride event called Rainbow Reykjavik in February. The city flips the celebration of gay Pride on its head, swapping out tank tops and tight shorts for geometric baths and field trips to see erupting volcanoes!

8. Paris in France

A city of stars… Paris is a romantic paradise. Whether you're going for the Instagrammable scenery or for a cheeky weekend away, Paris is worth seeing all year round. Of course, there's the gorgeous Eiffel Tower, with its sparkingly light show each night. And, the allure of the Mona Lisa in the Louvre, with her sinister smile that reminds every gay man of the smirk they give when trying to catch the eye of a potential lover across the bar floor…

The gay scene in Paris

Paris has a thriving queer scene, especially in the La Marais area. There is the frankly named gay bar called COX, with charming clientele and fruity cocktails (excuse the pun!) Another gem we love is FreeDJ, which has fantastic drag/cabaret shows with epic lip-sync battles and gender-bending performances.

Gay events in Paris

Paris Pride attracts a large turnout of almost 1 million every year. It's a burst of color, sparkles, and music. In Paris, they don't do things by halves: the French are either lounging around in dark wine cellars, smoldering over a plate of cheese and bread, or rioting in the streets in an attempt to dismantle the government. With Paris Pride, they take all that passion they use for protesting and turn it into love!

9. Amsterdam in The Netherlands

What makes Amsterdam so alluring for gay travelers? Could it be the canals that make the city feel as if it were floating? Or is it the picturesque scenery that transports you right into a storybook where you're guaranteed a happy ending? Perhaps, it is the carefree and open-minded nature of its people, who want nothing more than to relax and have a great time.

Whatever it is, Amsterdam is a must-see for the gay traveler. It is honestly one of the only places in the world where we feel comfortable showing affection in public. The Netherlands has a long history of LGBTQ tolerance, and you can feel the support for our fabulous community buzzing through the air wherever you go.

The gay scene in Amsterdam

Take us to church – or Club Church to be precise. One of the hottest gay Ŧetish clubs in Amsterdam, with an electric atmosphere, stellar drag performances, and cheap drinks that will create a night out worth remembering. Other gay clubs to check out in Amsterdam include NYX, YOLO, and Eagle. In terms of gay bars, there are many. They are mainly based along the Reguliersdwarsstraat street, like SOHO, Prik, and Amstel 54. Read more in our detailed guide about the gay scene in Amsterdam.

Gay events in Amsterdam

Amsterdam Pride in late July/early August is one of the most unique in the world as it takes place on the water. Instead of floats parading the streets, Amsterdam Pride has floats sailing along the city's famous canals.

Then, prepare to have all the boys come up to the yard, with the Milkshake Festival in July (see what we did there?) Milkshake is a truly liberating festival with multiple stages across a large campsite with something for everyone. Whether you're a lover of pop, dance, rock, or techno, the Milkshake Festival is there to set you free.

10. Berlin in Germany

What London is for musical lovers, Paris for romantics, and New York for fashionistas, Berlin is for the Ŧetishists! Some even call it the Ŧetish Capital of the world, with the annual Folsom Festival cementing the city as an S&M fanatic's goldmine. Berlin is known for its heavy and industrialized scene, but for the quieter and introverted souls, there is still a place for you in Berlin!

The gay scene in Berlin

Don't pass off the chance to visit one of the city's biggest gay clubs: the Berghain! If you, like us, are the kind of people who like to keep the party going until well past a normal person's bedtime, then you're in luck. The Berghain starts on a Friday evening and continues until Monday midday! Inside are several floors with dancing areas, bars, places to chill, order food, smoke, and a few darkrooms. There are no mirrors inside and a strict ‘no photos' policy, leaving you to just live in and enjoy the moment. That's if you get in of course! This place is extremely picky with who is let in. The door staff famously turn away every other person for no reason, so if you know someone connected to the club, try to get on the guest list to guarantee entry.

Drag bars like Monster Ronson and Rauschgold are fantastic and will have you end your night with fits of laughter. Read more in our gay guide to Berlin.

Gay events in Berlin

Berlin proudly hosts multiple LGBTQ events each year. The most famous are Berlin Pride in July and Folsom Europe in September.

Folsom is a street fair that sells items related to leather and underground subcultures. Everyone is welcome to the market, but the consumer base is predominantly gay. What city can say it celebrates its leather daddies so proudly? If that wasn't enough, Easter in Berlin is another gay Ŧetish festival every April that also shines the spotlight on lovers of leather and Ŧetish items.

11. Stockholm in Sweden

Stockholm! Everyone we speak to seems to have it on their European bucket list. Why is it so attractive? Well, not only is it amazingly LGBTQ-friendly, but it has a great nightlife scene with some pretty impressive sights to explore. No matter what time of year you go, whether the sun is splitting the sky in summer, or the Gamla Stan Old Town is a blanket of snow in the winter months, Stockholm always looks so wholesome and perfect.

The gay scene in Stockholm

The Secret Garden isn't such a secret, but it makes for a fun night. With juicy cocktails and a great dance playlist, you'll feel like Adam & Adam, or Eve & Eve, as you move through the gorgeous bar's interiors. Another gem is the Space Sthlm gay club, which has some of the best drag shows in town.

Gay events in Stockholm

Stockholm Pride in late July/early August is an affair to remember! Over 600,000 people attend each year, spilling out onto the street adorned in rainbow flags and glitter-smeared faces. It is a week of street parties, queer-related workshops, and LGBTQ walking tours across the city. This is not only the largest gay event in Sweden but of all the Nordic countries.

12. London in the UK

We think our hometown of London definitely ranks as one of the best gay holiday destinations for LGBTQ travelers. We mean, the city has its own freakin' Queen! But, whilst you might have trouble spotting Elizabeth II, you'll be guaranteed to find many queens roaming around our great city. Of course, those interested in the royal family can pay a visit to Buckingham Palace or Westminster Abbey.

London is also the musical theatre mecca of Europe. The West End is where you'll see some of the best shows from Wicked to The Phantom of the Opera; lovers of all things musical will be spoiled for choice. See more in our guide to the best gay shows in London and our bumper London gay travel guide.

The gay scene in London

According to Grindr, London has the highest number of users of anywhere else in the world! That's a lot of ‘discreet' hookups going on… It seems the gay community of London certainly knows how to make their presence known! The main gay areas of London are Soho in the center, Clapham/Vauxhall in the south, and in the East around Dalson, each with its fair share of queer hangouts.

One of the best gay clubs in London is the massive G-A-Y in Soho. On Saturday evenings, there is always someone famous performing like Madonna, Ru Paul's Drag Race queens, Kylie, the Spice Girls, and many more. Meanwhile, the Royal Vauxhall Tavern offers up a cozier place of refuge, where you can enjoy a stiff drink and moan about the English weather. Sink the Pink in Dalson is one of the best queer clubs in London.

Gay events in London

London Pride in early July is always a showstopper. Every corner of the LGBTQ community is represented. Whether you're trans, non-binary, bisexual, or simply someone who likes to adorn leather attire or angel wings, this parade is for you! Read more about it in our article about why we love Pride in London. For a more in-depth read, check out our guide to the best gay events and festivals in London.

The Mighty Hoopla Festival in early June is a celebration of all things love and freedom, which embraces inclusivity, with tons of LGBTQ icons such as Chaka Khan, Lily Allen, and Melanie C. Read all about our experience attending the gay Mighty Hoopla Festival. The LGBTQ+ Film Festival in March is a true delight! Offering the chance to meet and support queer filmmakers and actors, the festival is packed full of comedies, dramas and panel discussions.

13. Prague in the Czech Republic

Eastern and Central Europe often get a bad rap for being quite backward when it comes to LGBTQ rights. Although most countries in the region aren't the most LGBTQ-friendly (particularly the further East you head), Prague certainly has to be acknowledged for how queer-centric it is. A walk around the city will be enough to convince you of its magic. Seriously, it looks like a snapshot from the village Cinderella lives in – except in this version of the story, everyone gets an invite to the ball!

The gay scene in Prague

The majority of the gay scene in Prague can be found in the Vinohrady neighborhood. The Piano Bar is perfect for lovers of drag. Whether they are singing live, lip-synching, or hosting a game of bingo, it's always a guaranteed night of fun. The Saints Bar is, in a sense, inappropriately named, for there is very little saintly activity happening here! While it is a little on the smaller side, it makes up for it in heart and fun. The Bourgeois Pig is a truly unique experience. It turns the campy, gay scene on its head and harnesses the rebellious and punk rock queer vibes that make up a huge part of the LGBTQ scene of Prague.

Regardless of where we went in the city, we had a fabulous experience, which you can read more about in our comprehensive gay guide to Prague for LGBTQ travelers.

Gay events in Prague

Prague Pride in August is the biggest Pride event in Eastern Europe, and it makes sure the rest of Europe knows it! With stellar star performances, incredible floats, and tons of representation, Prague Pride is truly a firm favorite of ours. Gay sports fans will want to check out the Prague Rainbow Spring international gay event that takes place every May.

For a city that is well ahead of its neighboring nations in terms of LGBTQ rights, festivals like the Mezipatra Queer Film Festival in November are super important. It offers an opportunity for LGBTQ people to see their stories reflected on the big screen and to have an open discussion about the issues that plague queer people in society.

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