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Why is the Philippines so gay friendly?

Why is the Philippines so gay friendly?

What makes the Philippines so gay friendly? We asked our Pinoy friends around the world why gay friendly Philippines has such a pink reputation.

Most travelers backpacking around Asia told us the same thing – they came to the Philippines with low expectations but ended up leaving completely besotted with the place!

The Philippines has 7,641 islands of which only 2,000 are inhabited. That's a shedload of tropical beaches to discover. The country also straddles the Coral Triangle, which makes it a paradise for underwater adventurers – we had some of the best snorkeling and scuba diving experiences here, particularly in the waters around Palawan.

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And, it's super gay friendly! We rate the Philippines as one of the most gay friendly countries in Asia. Whilst it has a long way to go with its LGBTQ laws (as does almost every country in Asia), this was one of the rare countries in Asia where we felt super welcome as a gay couple.

We put this down to the Filipinos. They are extremely friendly, warm, and fun-loving people – the “Filipino hospitality” is a thing that they highly value.

We were fortunate to make many LGBTQ Filipino friends during our travels, both in the Philippines and elsewhere. We reached out to them to give us their opinion on why they think the Philippines is so gay friendly and awesome!

We specifically asked each of them to answer these 2 questions and have printed their answers below:

  1. What is it about the Philippines that makes it so gay friendly? 🏳️‍🌈
  2. Where in the Philippines would you take Mr Right? 💗

DJ Yabis – living in Essen, Germany

The Philippines is very gay friendly because the country is pretty gay! Although being gay is still frowned upon in most places, Filipino gays are pretty out and loud. It helps a lot that there are many visible gays on TV and in various media, like the TV presenter Vice Ganda and transgender actress and model BB Gandanghari.

I would take Mr Right on a diving trip all over the Philippines. Actually, I already did! The best dive spots from my experience are in Batangas, Cebu, Bohol, Palawan and of course the Tubbataha reef.

Check out DJ's awesome blog: Dream Euro Trip.

DJ blue leaf heaven in Geneva

Regina Ladera – living in Bangkok, Thailand

It is a fact that Filipinos are friendly and happy people. We are optimistic and always believe that for every challenge in life, there’s always a positive solution. Although becoming transgender was not an easy process, it was greatly helped by all my family and friends around me who all just accepted me for who I am. 

I would take Mr Right: to my beautiful hometown of Iloilo City, which is nicknamed The City of Love. We have a lot of natural beauty as well as many stunning beaches. And, as you can imagine, Valentines Day is a particularly special time in the City of Love.

Check out Regina's awesome interview about her life as a transgender female in Asia.

Regina drinks at Silom Bangkok

Girard Philip Espanola Bonotan – living in Jakarta, Indonesia

Filipinos are friendly to all visitors, gay or straight. We’re eager to meet tourists and show them around. People’s attitudes towards the LGBTQ community have shifted a great deal over the years and it helps that there are increasingly more gay personalities in the media. People belonging to the LGBT community are more tolerated rather than fully accepted, but I’m quite positive attitudes are moving towards the latter, albeit slowly.

I would take Mr Right: to Siargao Island, in the North-Eastern tip of Mindanao. I’m bias of course because this is where I’m originally from. It’s mainly known as the surfing capital of the Philippines, but beyond surfing, it has many great romantic and secluded beaches, like Magpupungko, Alegria, and Union.

Check out Girard’s sassy blog for more fun Pinoy insights.

Drinks at Silom with Girard Regina

Max Fel Thomas – living in London, UK

Well boys, it’s because we Filipinos are famous for being hospitable to visitors and especially to foreigners. We love them! We are also well-travelled and speak English. This makes us more open-minded and tolerant. However, there are large parts of the country where gays are not well accepted by society, which is the same everywhere I guess. Thankfully the new generation are more open-minded than ever and I am confident of a lot of progress and change for our LGBTQ community.

I would take Mr Right: to climb up to Lake Kayangan at Coron Island in Palawan. One word: amazing! It is a challenge to reach, but I assure you that you'd do anything and everything to show Mr Right this beautiful place. Then at the top, Mr Right would use this moment to propose to me. Then after saying yes, we’d go swimming together in the lake, clothes off, in the glowing moonlight!

Max our gay Filipino friend in London
Our buddy Maxxy serving up his fiercest Beyonce inspired pose

Rione Palacios – living in Manila, Philippines

We are regarded as a gay friendly nation because we possess a warm, welcoming, fun and friendly spirit. We spent 300 years in a Spanish convent and 50 years in Hollywood – hahaha! But as a result, this has shaped us to be more open-minded as to what is different and more accepting of change. 

I would take Mr Right: to Cebu, where I am originally from because it possesses a distinct personality you just won’t find anywhere else in the Philippines. In 30 minutes you can be at a mountaintop resort enjoying fresh produce and inhaling the fresh country air, or you can be by the sea enjoying our fantastic beaches, eating delicious Cebu Lechon (roasted suckling pig) for lunch. 

Read more about Rione’s gay life in Manila and the Philippines.

Gay life Phlippines drinks with Rione and Dennis in Manila

Dennis Baldoria – living in Manila, Philippines

I think the influence of show business is the main reason. So many elected public officials used to be in this industry, which shows the strong showbiz influence in Filipino society. Yes, we are naturally drama queens the lot of us! And, since there is always a gay personality behind every showbiz success story, this has positively influenced how the public sees gay people.

Sebastien and Rione in Quezon City

Although the negative stereotypes of being gay were proven to be untrue by these famous gay personalities, being gay is only tolerated and is not yet completely accepted by Filipino society (but a tolerant society = a gay friendly society).

I would take Mr Right: to Paradise, of course, ie Palawan island, particularly to Coron or a nearby remote island where a nipa (wooden stilt) hut is set-up but isn’t necessarily connected to a power grid to provide electricity.

Patrick Limcaco – living in Bangkok, Thailand

Go to Greenbelt Mall in Makati, hold hands with your boyfriend (without irony) and the worst that could happen is you will get provocative, mildly shocked, quietly unnerved stares. And that's it. You won't get stoned, called names, or publicly shamed by conservative Catholics who might feel scandalised by the sight of two buff boys showing very visible signs of affection towards each other. Greenbelt is a classy, family mall, of course, so take that into consideration.

Gay friendly Philippines Pinoy Xmas party with Patrick in Bangkok

When you go out into the streets of (Metro) Manila and behave the same way, it might be a different experience altogether. If by gay-friendly, you mean people are not outwardly hostile, then yes! The Philippines is gay-friendly. Just stay away from the comments section of the Filipino dailies because the amount of vitriol in some of them is just too much.

I would take Mr Right: to one of the many stranded sandy beaches of Palawan island (actually, Mr Wrong wouldn’t be so out of place there, either!). I would also take him to cold Baguio and Sagada, Mountain Province where you can hold hands as much as you wanted underneath all the layers of clothing.

Patrick is a fellow geek and has an excellent blog to prove it.

Arnold Peneda – living in San Diego, USA

Compared to the USA, where I was raised, the Philippines is not as accepting of gays, especially now that gay marriage laws have finally been passed by the US Supreme Court. Despite this, the Philippines is one of the most gay friendly destinations in Asia because the people are more relaxed, easy-going and welcoming to all.

Drinks with Arnold and Ryan on Boracay

I would take Mr Right: to Boracay island because we could dress up and learn to swim like mermaids together just like you boys did!

Ryan Alba – living in El Nido, Philippines

The Philippines is seen as gay friendly because a large amount of our economy depends on tourism, hospitality and catering, each of which naturally attracts the pink pound. 

I would take Mr Right: to my home town in Dipolog City and introduce him to my family and all the good people I know and then take him to the most beautiful place I have been to, which is Ginto Island. What follows next will be the greatest adventure!

Ryan Stefan tricycle in El Nido, Palawan

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Stefan Arestis

Hey everyone, I'm Stefan, the curly-haired Greek flavor behind the gay travel blog Nomadic Boys. Together with my other half, I have explored more than 90 countries across 5 continents. What I love most about traveling is discovering the local gay scene, making new friends, learning new cultures. I've written about LGBTQ travel in numerous online publications such as Gaycation Magazine, Gaycities, Gay Times and Pink News as well as for other non-gay-specific publications including Lonely Planet, The New York Times, The Guardian, and The Huffington Post. Check my full bio here.


Tuesday 22nd of December 2020

They just tolerate gays, lesbians, transgenders, and bisexuals. The middle and upper-class educated people are more homophobic. The people whom you can eat with can turn around and fight against your legal rights due to the Church belief. The Church has a hand in education and sometimes, even politics, similar to the situation in Indonesia (in which the Mosque has the role instead of the Church).

Stefan Arestis

Tuesday 22nd of December 2020

The sooner religion evolves to modern-day thinking, the better!


Sunday 5th of July 2020

Hi, any review of Olongapo, Luzon, area? I'll be visiting this region later in the year :)

Stefan Arestis

Tuesday 7th of July 2020

We've not yet been but can't wait to visit Olongapo one day :)


Thursday 21st of May 2020

The Philippines is an amalgamation of contrasts and parallelism. A country with a conservative Catholic background but possesses a western outlook. As the country adapts to the challenge of providing equal opportunities to the LGBTQI sectors albeit slowly, there is a sense of optimism and that my #homecountry has been more accepting in comparison to its long gone buttoned-up days. Now more than ever, it's MORE FUN in the PHILIPPINES ;-)

Stefan Arestis

Thursday 21st of May 2020

Amen to that!

Darrell Kramer

Thursday 1st of August 2019

The Philippines is more progressive in many ways compared with countries like the US. I have traveled there many times and find that they are more open to alternative lifestyles. Unlike the US, Pageants of all kinds receive mainstream attention.

Stefan Arestis

Thursday 1st of August 2019

Agreed! The Philippines is awesome :)


Sunday 3rd of December 2017

I have visited Philippines about a dozen times, and wish I had discovered it earlier in my life! The guys are so gorgeous, warm, and friendly. I have used dating sites also, and found lots of really sweet and genuine guys. One word of advice, though. Most guys want to be treated with respect and affection. They do NOT want to be regarded as objects or one of several of your conquests. Just be nice and sincere, and they will truly appreciate you. If you fail to give them respect, the good ones will be deeply hurt and the bad ones will be more determined to fleece you of all the money you have. Remember, the average Filipino has a very small disposable income, chocolate and pizza are luxuries to them. Do NOT behave like richer-than-thou boor. I am now happily engaged to a very special Pinoy and we plan to marry in mid-2018.

Nomadic boys

Sunday 3rd of December 2017

Thanks for your comment Alan- and totally agree with you. Our warmest congratulations for your engagement 😊❤️😘😘😘