Gay Mongolian man Zorig tells us about the first gay bar in Mongolia

During our travels in Mongolia, we spent a lot of time in the capital city, Ulaanbaatar during the popular Naadam festival, where we discovered a subtle gay scene.

Despite being a very traditionally conservative country, we found Mongolia's only gay bar when we visited in 2014! Whilst there is no official gay scene, we were able to connect with queer locals and find the main LBGTQ hangouts. Since 2014, the gay scene of Mongolia has flourished and today several queer venues are thriving in the capital city of Ulaanbaatar.

The first gay bar in Mongolia has undergone various names over the years since it was created in 2004 by its super charismatic owner, Zorig Alima. and frequently changes locations. Historically it was called Hanzo. Today it has evolved to the Melody Karaoke bar.

We met Zorig, the owner of Mongolia's only gay bar who gave the crowd the most unique performance of Swan Lake we've ever seen…! Zorig told us what it's like growing up gay in Mongolia as well as his experience of setting up and owning a gay bar in Ulaanbaatar.

Hi Zorig! Tell us a bit about yourself:

Good morning Nomadic Boys. My name is Zorig Alima.

I am a Mongolian gay guy from the Mongolian capital city of Ulaanbaatar. I work full-time as an accountant for the Mongolian Railway in Ulaanbaatar. However, during my spare time, I own and operate the only gay bar in Mongolia, usually performing on weekends in a variety of drag and other outfits I have tucked away in my fabulous closet!

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Are you openly gay?

I am openly gay to my family and friends who fully support me as well as my gay bar. I'll be honest though, it wasn't a very easy coming out experience. I came out quite late in life when I was in my late 20s because it took me a long time to accept who I was. When I did, my parents did not initially accept it, but after many conversations and tears, we've reached a mutual point of love and respect for each other.

I have not formally come out to my colleagues but I wouldn't be surprised if they've worked it out by now. That's not to say that I'm ashamed of being gay in any way – simply that I haven't had the chance to come out to them, nor have I felt the need to do so.

What is gay Mongolia like?

Overall, Mongolia is a very conservative country. We had a very socialist past, which made homosexuality a crime and a mental disorder. Up until very recently, being gay here was a big taboo.

Today, Mongolia is one of the more gay-friendly countries in Asia and things are rapidly changing. Homosexuality was legalized in 1993 (it's still illegal in most places in Asia sadly), and since 2017, an array of anti-discrimination laws have been passed. This included sexual orientation as part of the hate crime laws. Mongolia is also pretty trans-friendly (by Asian standards!): we've had the right to change legal gender since 2009. There is a long way to go, but at least things are moving in the right direction.

Also, Ulaanbaatar has a Pride event every August called the Equality Walk. This includes an awesome parade through downtown, with a concert, art gallery, film festival, and of course, culminating with a fabulous party at my bar!

How did you meet other guys growing up?

Many years ago, we would meet at parks and public toilets and there were sometimes monthly gay nights organized at word-of-mouth venues.

The growth of the internet over the past 10-20 years has changed things massively for the gay community and made it easier than ever to meet.

But in the old days, it used to be pretty hard to find “one of your kind”!

What's the gay scene of Ulaanbaatar like?

Ulaanbaatar is a fast-changing city with 1.5 million people out of a total population of 3 million in the whole country. However, gay life here is still fairly closed. Things are changing, but very slowly, and outside of Ulaanbaatar there is no gay scene. 

Currently, my bar is the main queer venue in Mongolia. I have had to rebrand and change location several times. For example, at one stage I called it “d.d / h.z” and more recently Melody Karaoke.

Post-Covid I've seen our local gay scene flourish. One of my former bar staff established his own gay bar called DiEX, which is now the most popular gay club in Mongolia. It's huge with drag shows taking place every Friday and Saturday. It's also been super successful in hosting some of the country's best drag queens such as Sarantuya and Ariunna.

More recently in 2024, the new gay bar called C.U.M. opened its doors. It's smaller than my bar and DiEX, similar to the small gay bars you'd find in the gay scene of Tokyo or gay Taipei. The C.U.M. gay bar of Ulaanbaatar has a drag show every Wednesday.

Is it easy to find performers for your drag shows?

Yes, it is!

Finding drag queens in Mongolia is always a struggle because there aren't that many here. I am always scouring social media watching other drag performers across Asia and have on occasion invited more high-profile performers over for big special occasions, such as our big opening night.

Whilst we do have a handful of local Mongolian drag queens, what usually ends up happening is me grabbing my latest outfit and doing it all myself (I love this of course!)

Did you have any problems when you first opened a gay bar in Ulaanbaatar?

Yes, we did. The police were so ignorant about gay bars that they thought we were just promoting adultery and prostitution. As a result, there were many police raids initially.

As a result of police raids, the gay community of Ulaanbaatar wanted to remain firmly hidden in the closet, so getting customers was a big struggle in the early years.

Has the situation for gay life in Ulaanbaatar since changed?

It has improved a lot because overall attitudes in Mongolia towards gays has improved. The police have started to understand that being gay does not automatically mean sex and now cooperate with us on issues like prostitution.

A few years ago, my former bar, Hanzo, was one of only two bars mentioned in a popular Mongolian magazine as the “top 50 places you must visit in Ulaanbaatar”, which helped the LGBTQ community start to appreciate us and gain the courage to come out to us! 

The translated quote in this magazine said:

“Although people have a perception of it being a gay bar, we would vote for it as one of the very few underground places in Ulaanbaatar, where the most open-minded people gather. Organising many unique and interesting events, and giving pleasant surprises of new music makes it the place to visit”.

What advice do you have for gay tourists visiting Mongolia?

Mongolians welcome foreigners and I recommend trying to meet a few locals using social media apps like Grindr, Hornet or Jack'd.

Head on down to my bar and say hello to meet this very friendly local 🙂

What are some of the highlights you recommend for gay travelers to Mongolia?

The most popular thing I recommend for all travelers is to hire a van (and a guide) and take a tour around the country, especially in the Gobi Desert – the largest desert in all of Asia! The scenery here is simply stunning, with nomadic families living in gers (yurts) in the same way they did back in the days of Genghis Khan during the 1200s and 1300s.

The other big must-see I always recommend to my friends visiting Mongolia from abroad is the Naadam Festival in July. This takes place every year and I always describe it as being the Mongolian answer to the Olympic Games. It has a really beautiful and dramatic opening ceremony in the main stadium in Ulaanbaatar, followed by the three main events of archery, horse riding, and wrestling.

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