Looking for a gay hotel in Tokyo? Here are our favorite hotels all cool and stylish, including guesthouses and hostels…
Tokyo is a lot of fun! Each time we've visited, we've always had a hilarious time partying in the gay bars of Shinjuku. The city is notorious for having over 300 tiny bars crammed together into a small space centered around Shinjuku's Ni-chōme (Area 2).
In terms of finding a place to stay, Tokyo has an array of
Please note that while many of these hotels have lovely swimming pools and on-site spa and sauna areas, all travelers to Japan should be aware that if you have tattoos you may not be permitted in public bathing areas.
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Experience Japan on a gay tour
Psst! Want in on a secret? Our friends at Out Adventures recently launched a super kawaii tour of Japan. On this all-gay foray, travelers will ride the Shinkansen bullet train between Osaka, Kyoto, and Tokyo. Highlights include a street food tour, samurai experience, a night in an authentic onsen, and an evening in Tokyo's gay district, Shinjuku Ni-chōme.
Where to stay in Tokyo
Tokyo is a massive city so it can be daunting to try and figure out the best areas to stay, especially if it's your first time. These are our thoughts on the best neighborhoods to stay in Tokyo for gay travelers.
- Shinjuku: Shinjuku is our favorite part of Tokyo because it is the gay hub of the city! It's also a good area for tourists as there are lots of options for accommodation, shopping and entertainment. Being near the Shinjuku train station is especially handy since this is one of the busiest stations in the world, which means you will easily be able to get to other parts of the city from here. Our favorite
gay friendly hotel to stay in Shinjuku is Keio Plaza. - Akasaka: the area of Akasaka is also a very convenient location when it comes to public transport links. Being nestled between the Imperial Palace and Crown Prince's residence makes it perfect if you are planning to visit these attractions as well. Our favorite
gay friendly hotel to stay in Akasaka is The Capitol Hotel Tokyu. - Ginza: Ginza is Tokyo's version of Fifth Avenue in New York with many modern Western-style buildings, some of Tokyo's most upscale shopping malls and lots of top-end luxury hotels. This is the place to stay if you are looking for luxury and the ability to shop up a storm! If you're looking to stay in this area, check out the quirky Ginza Bay Capsule Hotel.
- Asakusa: on the opposite scale to Ginza is the area of Asakusa which looks much more like what you might imagine ‘traditional Tokyo' to look like; before it was modernized and westernized. This is a great budget neighborhood to stay in, especially if you'd like a quieter and more local experience. The area is also home to the National Sumo Stadium, so you may just spot chubby some sumo wrestlers during your trip! Wired Hotel is our favorite place to stay in Asakusa.
Be connected as soon as you land
Before heading off, don't forget to pre-order your pocket WiFi so you can stay online throughout your trip in Japan. You can choose to pick it up at the airport or get it delivered to your hotel room. The pocket WiFi will save you a lot of money on roaming fees. For more info, check out our comprehensive guide to renting pocket WiFi in Japan.
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Hotel Queen Annexe
Shinjuku district
Why we love it
- Located in the heart of the Shinjuku Ni-chōme gay area of Tokyo
- 24 hour reception ideal for late check in
- Very gay friendly
- Good value for money for its location
Queen Annex is our hidden gem in Tokyo’s gay district, nestled right in the heart of Shinjuku Ni-chome!
It’s cozy, super welcoming, and literally steps away from all the action. We love it for its location—imagine being able to hop from the hotel to Tokyo’s best gay bars and then back to your room in minutes.
The rooms here are simple but clean and surprisingly spacious by Tokyo standards, with everything you need for a comfortable stay.
It’s perfect if you’re after a relaxed, intimate vibe and want a more local experience without the big hotel price tag. Plus, the staff is discreet and LGBTQ+ friendly, which makes the whole experience even better.
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Hotel & Spa J-Mex
Shinjuku district
Why we love it
- Super gay friendly: #TravelProud certification
- Private Jacuzzi and sauna
- Short walk to Shinjuku gay bars of Tokyo
- Short walk to airport transfer buses
J-Mex Shinjuku was such a great find! It’s a love hotel – designed for couples needing privacy. It also super close to the Ni-chōme gay scene, around 15 minutes walk.
We loved the little luxuries here. Each room has its own private Jacuzzi and a sauna, which feels like such a steal for Tokyo.
The rooms are huge too (unheard of in Tokyo!), with mood lighting, karaoke, and all these fun extras that make it feel like our own mini hideaway. It’s so nice to be able to relax and unwind just a short walk from the nightlife.
And the staff is totally discreet and friendly – over night guests are allowed. With a private Jacuzzi and sauna, it was hard to leave the room!
J-Mex has the BookingCom #TravelProud certification, a mark that it is extra welcoming for everyone, especially for our LGBTQ community.
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Imperial Hotel Tokyo
Chiyoda district
Why we love it
- Super gay friendly: #TravelProud certification
- Iconic Japanese luxury and history
- Spacious, beautifully decorated rooms
- Close to Ni-chome gay nightlife
The Imperial Hotel Tokyo is pure luxury and tradition wrapped up in one stunning package—honestly, it’s like staying in a piece of Japanese history.
This place has been around for over a century, so it’s all about classic elegance with that perfect Japanese attention to detail.
We loved how spacious and beautifully decorated the rooms were, with incredible city views that just scream ‘TOKYO!' And it’s ideally located—just a quick ride to the gay district in Shinjuku Ni-chome, so you get the best of both worlds: a serene, luxurious base and easy access to nightlife.
Plus, the service here is outstanding. They’re so warm and welcoming, making us feel totally comfortable as a gay couple, which makes sense as the hotel has the #TravelProud certification. It’s definitely a splurge, but if you’re looking to experience Tokyo in style, this is the place!
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The Capitol Hotel Tokyu
Akasaka district
Why we love it
- Spectacular views
- Direct metro access
- Yummy Japanese breakfast
- Fully equipped gym
Capitol Hotel Tokyu is our favorite place to stay in Tokyo. This the perfect retreat for couples or solo travelers who want to experience Japanese hospitality at its best.
Conveniently located in Akasaka, downtown Tokyo, Capitol Tokyu is an oasis of calm in the hustle and bustle of the city.
There are 4 subway lines directly under the hotel that you can reach from the basement level.
Having access directly to the Tokyo Metro made our travels around the city very easy. Capitol Tokyu has three restaurants, boasting traditional Chinese and Japanese cuisine throughout the day, with the option to dine privately. We recommend the sushi at Suiren, located on the third floor.
Our room was on the 25th floor, with a fantastic view facing the Imperial Palace and the concrete jungle below stretching as far as the eye could see.
Make sure you check out their club lounge to enjoy a drink with a view!
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Tokyu Stay Shinjuku
Shinjuku district
Why we love it
- Near Shinjuku's gay area
- Washing machine and dryer in most rooms
- Great value for money
- Japanese minimalist style
If you are looking for a budget option that's still in the heart of the action then Tokyu Stay Shinjuku is perfect.
It's very close to the gay bars of Shinjuku and is located in a tower block, so the higher up your room is, the more impressive your views get.
The rooms are a minimalist’s dream, fitted with white and light-wood furnishings.
While it may not be as luxurious as some of the more expensive places, it is still impeccably clean. Most rooms include amenities like a washing machine and a dryer, a microwave or even a full kitchenette.
The Tokyu Stay Shinjuku is only a five-minute walk from Shinjuku train station and is easy walking distance from nearby attractions such as the Robot Restaurant, the Shinjuku Gyoen National Garden, and the gay scene of Shinjuku Ni-Chome.
STAY WITH A GAY LOCAL
Misterb&b is the Airbnb equivalent for the LGBTQ community. Unlike on Airbnb, you know your host is gay, voiding any nasty surprises when you check-in. It is also a great way to meet gay locals and discover the underground gay scene. Click below to get 10 € (or $10) off our first booking.
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Keio Plaza Hotel
Shinjuku district
Why we love it
- In-room massage service
- Karaoke bar
- Princess Hello Kitty themed room
- Lots of pampering options
The Keio Plaza Hotel takes its gay friendly reputation very seriously! Not only are the staff here extremely friendly and welcoming, they also offer LGBTQ travelers a “Pride Package” for their “Premier Grand” club floors.
Keio is located in a skyscraper in Shinjuku, so as well as being close to the gay scene, the rooms have impressive sweeping views across the city.
The huge tower complex boasts a fitness center, an outdoor sky-pool, a karaoke bar and a few other excellent bars.
Make sure you try the Sky Lounge on the 45th floor, for the best views over Tokyo. We love the variety of restaurants, where you can choose to sample traditional Japanese dishes or even French and Italian cuisine.
Keio Plaza is also a great place to pamper yourself; with an onsite esthetic salon (where you can have facials and other treatments), beauty studio and photography studio.
For fans of Hello Kitty (like us), you can even stay in a Princess Kitty room, where everything is pink and Hello Kitty themed! And the cherry on the cake, there is a free shuttle available for guests to go to the Tokyo Disney Resort.
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Imano Hostel
Shinjuku district
Why we love it
- Close to Shinjuku gay area
- Cool on-site cafe
- Great value for money
- Fun activities offered
We found the vibe here to be especially open-minded and gay friendly. The Imano Hostel is ideal for budget travelers looking for a cool place to crash in the middle of Tokyo.
Despite being a budget option, it also comes equipped with all the essentials like free WiFi, shower amenities, locker storage and even disposable slippers!
You can choose to stay in a male-only or female-only dorm, a private family room (with four bunks) or even a Japanese-style room (with three futon-style beds).
One of our favorite parts about the Imano Hostel is the coffee shop, where there's always a cool, chilled vibe with a mix of travelers and locals. Each floor also has a lounge area if you need to relax and not on a bunk. The friendly staff organise regular parties and happy hour in the café/bar.
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Hyatt Regency Tokyo
Shinjuku district
Why we love it
- Helpful staff
- Sumptuous French restaurant
- Luxurious penthouse wellness
- Free shuttle to Shinjuku station
Our room here was the lap of luxury, with a stunning view of Tokyo. It's so lush that it makes you feel like you never want to leave Japan. As a massive bonus, this is an excellent base in the city, close to the main gay bars of Shinjuku.
There are seven on-site restaurants, including ‘Cuisine[s] Michel Troisgros', the Japanese location for the 3 Michelin starred restaurant in France.
We loved the penthouse wellness sanctuary with its indoor pool under a skylight roof, the on-site fitness centre and the Joule Spa and Wellness facilities. The spa has a range of relaxing options available such as hot stone massages, facials and luxurious packages for when you want to feel really pampered!
The concierge was on hand to assist with mapping out an itinerary for us, which was useful when looking for ideas and inspiration on where to head outside the city.
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Citadines Shinjuku Tokyo
Shinjuku district
Why we love it
- Gay friendly with #TravelProud stamp of approval!
- Spacious apartments with kitchen
- 24/7 laundrette and gym
- Good facilities for the budget-conscious
We think this place has a well-deserved spot on our list of gay hotels in Tokyo because it boasts every color of the rainbow…literally! From the blue and yellow exterior walls to the bright orange furniture inside, this place has “fabulous” written all over it.
But don't let the exotic coloring fool you as the Citadines has a 4-star rating for good reason. Citadines is an “aparthotel” offering a range of serviced apartments with spacious living areas and well-equipped kitchenettes.
The complex also features amenities such as a 24/7 fitness room, a breakfast lounge, and a 24/7 laundrette. The Citadines' close proximity to the Imperial Palace and National Garden was another major plus for us, as well as being near the gay area of Shinjuku.
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Okubo Shinjuku new open Capsule hotel
Nichome 2 district
Why we love it
- Excellent budget gay friendly option
- Close to Shinjuku Ni-chōme gay nightlife
- Lovely and clean
- Includes washing machine and kitchen
If you’re after an affordable, quirky, and quintessentially Tokyo experience, Okubo Shinjuku Capsule Hotel ticks all the boxes.
Nestled in the vibrant streets of Shinjuku, this newly opened capsule hotel offers a cozy crash pad that’s perfect for a budget-friendly stay.
The capsules themselves are surprisingly spacious (for Tokyo standards) and come equipped with all the mod-cons—plush bedding, charging ports, and just enough privacy to feel like your own little pod of zen amidst the city buzz.
What we loved most is its location—minutes away from the gay bars of Tokyo in Ni-chome, yet tucked away enough for a quiet night’s sleep. The staff were super friendly and helpful, and the communal facilities, including the showers, were spotless.
It’s the ideal choice if you want to soak up Shinjuku’s electric energy without breaking the bank. Plus, there’s something so uniquely Tokyo about falling asleep in a high-tech capsule!
BONUS
Bunny + Bear's B&B
Why we love it
- The owners are a lovely gay couple
- Warm hospitality and home-cooked meals
- Relaxing location outside Tokyo
- Japanese-style bedrooms
For something a little off the beaten path, check out this awesome gay owned mountain retreat on Airbnb. This is a gay owned hidden gem located in Hanno, which is around 70 minutes away from Shinjuku.
Stewart and Tetsu are the British/Japanese gay couple who own and run Bunny and Bear. They are known for their warmth and hospitality, as well as their excellent cooking skills. The food here is fantastic!
The traditional architecture of the home is stunning enough, with the ability to choose between a western style room or a traditional Japanese room. But what makes this place special is the location: it's surrounded by stunning mountains and foliage which, of course, are most spectacular during the leaf changing season in Autumn.
This spot in the mountains north of Tokyo is truly
If you're traveling outside of Tokyo, use our Japan itinerary article to help inspire and craft out your travels.
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- Check out our guide to the most gay friendly countries in Asia
- Use our gay travel guide to Taipei to help you plan your trip
- Read our travel guide to gay Bangkok to plan your trip
- Read what it's like growing up gay in Thailand in our interview with Saroj from Bangkok
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- Read about gay life in Vietnam in our interview with Quan from Saigon
- If you're heading to Malaysia, check out our gay guide to Penang and also to gay Langkawi
- Check out what we rate as the most gay friendly countries Arab world
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Harry
Tuesday 15th of September 2020
The bonus place is closed since March. After reading your blog updated 27th August, I emailed them. You might need to update it again 😉
Stefan Arestis
Wednesday 16th of September 2020
Thanks for the message Harry but fortunately they are still up and running - at least their Airbnb listing still allows you to make bookings. Maybe the dates you searched were taken?