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Well, we're glad you asked! We assess the most gay friendly places in the Caribbean and how safe they are as a vacation destination for LGBTQ travelers.
The Caribbean is a region of the Americas located southeast of the Gulf of Mexico. It’s famous for its tropical weather, beautiful blue skies, and crystal-clear waters.
However, certain areas of the Caribbean are also infamous for their conservative politics and anti-gay laws. Spending a couple of weeks surrounded by palm trees and Pina Coladas might sound cute on paper, but just how safe is the Caribbean for the LGBTQ community?
To say these islands are something of a mixed bag when it comes to Caribbean gay travel would be the understatement of the century. Some islands like Puerto Rico and Curaçao are homo heavens. Others are still ‘evolving' when it comes to their LGBTQ rights…!
Read on to find out what we rate as the safest and most alluring for LGBTQ travelers. We also include a list of dishonorable mentions. In other words, the gay no-fly zones that should be avoided like the plague. No, crocs – and I don’t mean the semiaquatic, reptilian kind!
How safe is the Caribbean for gay travelers?
Overall, it's very safe for LGBTQ travelers across most parts of the Caribbean. So much so that gay cruises in the Caribbean is super popular. There are sadly a few places in the Caribbean that criminalize homosexuality, which we recommend exercising a lot of caution if you do choose to go there (scroll down to the final part of this article for more about this).
When assessing how gay friendly and welcoming the Caribbean is for LGBTQ travelers, we looked at the following 4 factors:
- Spartacus gay travel ranking: since 2012, Spartacus has published a detailed study of all the countries in the world. We like it because as well as looking at LGBTQ rights, it also takes into account other factors such as the attitude of locals to give you a bigger picture of how gay friendly a place really is.
- LGBTQ rights: we looked at the LGBTQ rights of each island, specifically focusing on those that have legalised gay marriage and which have also passed other progressive laws.
- Gay scene: what does each island offer to LGBTQ travelers? We looked at the gay scene of each island in particular if it has any gay bars, clubs, gay beaches and any Pride events that happen.
- What is gay travel like to that island: the attitude of locals towards the LGBTQ community says a lot about how gay friendly it is. For example, have any openly gay-owned business been allowed to flourish, particularly any hotels.
So now let’s get into it…can you guess who we rate as the as #1?
1. Puerto Rico
The gayest Caribbean island is one of the largest too, with a population of around 3 million. Often referred to as “The Island of Enchantment”, Puerto Rico is also the highest-ranking Caribbean island on the Spartacus Gay Travel Index, at #23. We agree and also rank Puerto Rico as the gayest place in the Caribbean.
Remember – this is the home of Ricky Martin as well as some of the best Ru Paul Drag Race girls – Alexis Matteo, Nina Flowers, Cynthia Lee Fontaine to name a few…
Gay Puerto Rico in a nutshell
- Population: 3 million
- Spartacus rank: #23
- Gay marriage legalized: 2015 (USA)
- Gay scene highlights: Santurce gay village with places like Oceano and The Bear Tavern, Circo, SX Club and the Xteamworks sauna
- Gay beach: Atlantic Beach in Condado
- Best gay events: Winter Pride Fest and Pride Puerto Rico
- Best gay hotel: Coqui del Mar San Juan Guesthouse
How safe is Puerto Rico for gay travelers?
The #1 pink haven in the Caribbean – that's the level of safety we're talking about here! A part of the United States Commonwealth, LGBTQ rights in Puerto Rico are, more or less, in line with those in the US, which makes Puerto Rico a safe haven for the LGBTQ community in the Caribbean. For example, Federal US hate crime laws protecting the LGBTQ community also apply in Puerto Rico. In addition, gay marriage was legalized on the island in 2015 following the momentous Obergefell v Hodges Supreme Court decision. In relation to transgender rights, trans people have been allowed to change their legal gender since 2018.
The gay scene of Puerto Rico
Santurce is where it’s at for queer peeps. Situated in Puerto Rico’s capital city of San Juan, this area is home to over a dozen LGBTQ establishments, including Oceano, a super-trendy bar and restaurant that serves the best mojitos this side of Cuba. The Bear Tavern, meanwhile, offers delicious tapas with a side helping of Puerto Rican prime beef – by which, I mean, its clientele…!
As fans of RuPaul’s Drag Race will know, Puerto Rico has turned out some of the finest drag artists on the international stage, including Alexis Mateo and Vanessa Vanjie. Head over to Circo if you fancy a taste of the incredible local drag scene or you just want to shake what the Good Gay God gave you on one of the club’s multiple dance floors. Other highlights include the SX Club, which is packed to the rafters with exotic dancers(!) and Xteamworks, Puerto Rico’s first (and so far, only) gay sauna. There’s also the gay beach of Condado located in front of the Atlantic Beach Hotel.
Gay events in Puerto Rico
There are several fabulous LGBTQ events to be enjoyed at various times of the year in Puerto Rico. The Winter Pride Fest takes place in December – although “winter” is a bit of a reach, considering you can still expect plenty of sun and temperatures in the 80s °F (around 25-30°C).
The biggest and most popular LGBTQ event on the island is Pride Puerto Rico, which is usually held around May-June time in San Juan. What began as a small protest in 1990 has now grown into one of the largest and best Pride events in the Caribbean.
Of course, there are plenty of other things to do in Puerto Rico for those days when your gay energy needs a little time away from the scene to recharge. Old San Juan is equal parts quaint and colorful – a cute combo of local culture and Puerto Rican history, with plenty of places to grab a drink or a bite to eat. It can get busy during peak season, but it’s worth a look for anyone visiting the island.
Beach-lovers can’t go wrong with a visit to Playa Flamenco, one of the most popular non-gay beaches in Puerto Rico. Playa Flamenco looks like a living postcard, with gorgeous white sands stretching out as far as the eye can see – to call it paradise is no exaggeration!
Best gay hotel on the island
Check out the adults-only Coqui del Mar San Juan Guesthouse – “the gayest guesthouse in San Juan” by its own admission! You can book a villa, cabana, poolside room, or studio, each self-contained for maximum privacy. It also has a very handsome communal pool in the annex – clothing optional of course!
Curacao is one of the Caribbean’s smaller islands, with a population of 160,000. It’s located in the south of the Caribbean Sea, off the coast of Venezuela, and is a constituent of the Kingdom of the Netherlands. Whilst the Netherlands is one of the absolute best countries to live and travel for LGBTQ folks, Curacao still has an extremely long way to go in terms of its political and legal system. However, we are starting to see some of that Dutch progressiveness rub off on this magnificent island.
Gay Curaçao in a nutshell
- Population: 160,000
- Spartacus rank: #78
- Gay marriage legalized: not yet
- Gay scene highlights: Lyric's Cafe and the Wet and Wild Beach Club
- Gay beach: Moomba Beach
- Best gay events: Curaçao Pride
- Best gay hotel: Floris Suite Hotel and the Avila Beach Hotel
How safe is Curaçao for gay travelers?
Curacao has long been welcoming gay travelers for years. As a Dutch-influenced territory, you can be sure things are relaxed and super safe here! There are plenty of safe spaces and LGBTQ-friendly places to stay in. Most of the islanders adopt a live-and-let-live ideology, which suits us just fine! Being gay has never been a criminal offense on the island, and discrimination based on your orientation was outlawed in 2011. However, whilst gay marriages are not yet legal in Curaçao, a bill to legalize gay marriage is currently going through the courts. There are also no provisions for trans people to change their legal gender.
The gay scene of Curaçao
The first thing that struck us about Curacao is its bright, colorful architecture. If you look at the island from above at a certain angle, I’m almost certain you can make out the Pride flag – if that isn’t a big gay welcome, I don’t know what is! Our favorite place in Curacao is Lyric’s Café, the island’s only regular gay venue. It’s small, but it has tons of personality and charm, with a comfortable lounge area and a dancing pole for when you’re really feeling your oats!
Many Curacao gays gravitate towards the Wet and Wild Beach Club, which is always a good time. The best night is Sunday when the Happy Hour Beach Party takes place from 5pm until 7pm and features the club’s resident DJ, with drinking and dancing going on into the early hours. In terms of gay beaches, the island doesn't have an official one, but Moomba Beach by the Floris Suite Hotel is an adults-only gay friendly beach where the boys hang out.
Gay events in Curaçao
For such a small island, Curaçao sure knows how to do Pride right! The annual, six-day-long Curaçao Pride festival takes place in late September. It hosts a battalion of local and international performing artists to thrill and delight the island’s LGBTQ locals and visitors. The festival includes several Pride parties like the Boat Party and the White Party, which are well worth attending. Also, be sure to check out the weekly LGBT happy hour at the Floris Suite Hotel.
Curaçao has plenty of other non-gay sights to see too. The Christoffel National Park in the West End is packed full of local horticulture and features two driving routes and eight hiking trails. These include a two-to-three-hour hike up to the summit of Christoffel Mountain, the highest point on the entire island. It is a sight to behold, but not for the faint of heart!
If history and the arts are your cup of tea, there’s plenty to drink during your time on the island. Willemstad is the cultural heart of Curacao, home to the Landhuis Bloemhof arts center and the Gallery Alma Blou, as well as the Museum Kura Hulanda and the Queen Emma Bridge.
Best gay hotel in Curaçao
The two main ones are the Floris Suite Hotel and the Avila Beach Hotel. The Avila has a unique and super picturesque location right on the beach, with an all-inclusive resort option making it a popular venue for destination weddings and gay commitment ceremonies. The Floris Suite is an adults-only hotel that frequently sponsors gay events like Curaçao Pride and even has a gay Happy Hour in its Rainbow Lounge.
Martinique is part of the overseas territorial collectivity of France, and as such, it is far more progressive in its equality for the LGBTQ community than some of its counterparts. Almost all its 375,000 inhabitants speak French, so those without at least a rudimentary understanding of the native tongue will do well to brush up on their parlez-vous-francais and their oui-oui-bien…
Gay Martinique in a nutshell
- Population: 415,000
- Spartacus rank: #34
- Gay marriage legalized: 2013 (France)
- Gay scene highlights: no gay bars
- Gay beach: Plage de la Petite Anse des Salines
- Best gay events: Martinique Carnival and Martinique Gay Pride
- Best gay hotel: Le Carbet Gay B&B
How safe is Martinique for gay travelers?
In terms of its politics and laws, Martinique is one of the more LGBTQ-friendly Caribbean islands. Being a French territory, it decriminalized homosexuality at the same time as its parent country back in 1791 and legalized gay marriage in 2013. Discrimination on the basis of orientation is illegal, gays can adopt and give blood, and trans people can change their legal gender. While gay conversion therapy is still legal, the courts are currently working to outlaw it. Sadly, the island’s legal system doesn’t formally recognize non-binary gender identities yet but, fingers crossed, it’s only a matter of time.
The gay scene of Martinique
Whilst Martinique doesn't have a gay scene, there are some gay-friendly and gay-owned establishments that are safe and welcoming for LGBTQ travelers. Our advice would be to stay at one of the island's gay guesthouses like La Kalenda Gay or Le Carbet Gay and ask them if there are any gay parties happening.
What Martinique does have is a gay-friendly beach area. At the far end of the stunningly gorgeous Les Salines beach is an area known as Plage de la Petite Anse des Salines. While it’s not exactly outwardly gay like some of the beaches you might have sauntered onto in the past, there is an unspoken consensus that this is a safe place for LGBTQ travelers to congregate and meet other gay travelers and locals. There’s also a gay-friendly nude beach close by called Little Anse des Salines.
Gay events in Martinique
Not having much of a gay scene, you might assume that there aren’t any gay events going on in Martinique either, but there are a couple worth checking out. The Martinique Carnival takes place in late February and is extremely popular with the local LGBTQ community. The carnival is a very Mardi Gras-ish celebration of local culture on the island, which includes male and female performers gender-swapping for a burlesque-themed mock wedding.
Martinique also has a low-key Pride day that takes place every June on the Coin au Carbet beach. Sometimes called the La Gay Pride au Carbet, this spectacular event involves a colorful parade as well as a rainbow crossing painted in the streets of Carbet.
Oh, Miss Martinique, you're not shy when it comes to pretty sights… If you’re into nature, the Balata Botanical Garden will blow your mind. Located near Fort-de-France, the Balata is home to 3,000 different species of plants. It’s a sight to behold and a lovely way to spend a quiet, relaxing day in Martinique. Speaking of Fort-de-France, it is the capital of the island and a great starting point for travelers wanting to take in some local culture. If history and architecture are your bag, you’ll love the Musee Departmental d’Archeologie, the Cathedrale Saint-Louis, and Fort Royal.
Best gay hotel in Martinique
There may not be any proper gay venues on Martinique, but one place is super-gay, for sure, and that’s the Le Carbet Gay B&B. Le Carbet is ideally situated in the bustling Pointe du Bout beach town. The standout highlight is the stunning roof terrace which features a clothing-optional solarium area.
4. Saint Martin/Sint Maarten
What’s in a name? As you will know by now, some of the Caribbean islands belong to other countries. Many are owned by France, the Netherlands, the UK or the US, while others are independent and make their own rules. This island is something of an anomaly in that it is split into north and south sections. Saint Martin, the slightly larger north section, is part of the French Republic, while Sint Maarten, the south, belongs to the Kingdom of the Netherlands.
Gay Saint Martin/Sint Maarten in a nutshell
- Population: 78,000
- Spartacus rank: #23 (France) #5 (the Netherlands)
- Gay marriage was legalized: 2013 in Saint Martin (France) only
- Gay scene highlights: Eros Club and Bliss
- Gay beaches: Orient Bay Beach, Happy Bay Beach, and Cupecoy Beach
- Best gay events: the Carnival Mardi Gras Parade
- Best gay hotel: The Paradise Peak (formerly: Villa Rainbow)
How safe is Saint Martin/Sint Maarten for gay travelers?
Very safe! This unique Caribbean island is split between two very gay friendly European nations: France and the Netherlands. The Northern part is the French domain and is referred to as “Saint Martin”. The South is part of the Dutch Caribbean and is called “Sint Maarten”. Because of its unusual territorial situation, LGBTQ equality standards differ between the north and south sections. The north legalized homosexuality in 1791 and gay marriage in 2013, in line with French law. In the south, homosexuality was never considered a crime in the first place, but unlike its parent country, the Netherlands, Sint Maarten is yet to legalize gay marriage.
The gay scene of Saint Martin/Sint Maarten
Our favorite venue in the French part is Eros Club in Marigot, the capital of Saint Martin. It’s only open on Saturday nights from 11pm, but it is the place to be if you love a good party. There’s a battalion of beautiful male dancers, and the local drag queens are an absolute scream. Down south in Sint Maarten, check out L’Escargot, a restaurant with one of the gayest decors we’ve ever clapped eyes on. On Friday nights, the island’s best and brightest cabaret stars put on a fabulous show for diners. Once you’re suitably fed, watered, and entertained, head over to Bliss, a gay-friendly restaurant and nightclub, to dance the night away under the stars.
There are also a few gay clothing-optional beach areas packed with hotties: Orient Bay Beach and Happy Bay Beach in the north and Cupecoy Beach in the south. You can thank me later!
Gay events in Saint Martin/Sint Maarten
Neither side of the island currently has an official Pride festival, but there are two carnivals during the springtime. The French side of the island has its carnival in late February, while the Dutch side’s carnival is later in the year, around April. Both events are pretty gay – I mean, they’re carnivals! – but the French one is certainly gayer. The Mardi Gras Parade takes place towards the end and sees performers swarm the streets dressed up to the nines. Meanwhile, the Dutch carnival takes place over the course of a month, so if you’re visiting the island around that time, you can’t miss it!
There’s so much to do on this island, you’ll be spoilt for choice and wondering how you’re going to squeeze it all in – though we always find a way, don’t we? Pinel Island is top of everyone’s list, a stunning day-trip location. There are several different tour packages available, including boat tours and snorkeling experiences. Water babies will be living their best lives!
Back on dry land, Fort Louis is well worth a look, if only for the incredible view of the island once you reach the top – again, there are plenty of guided tours available if you’re planning to visit. GI Joe wannabes should head to Loterie Farm, packed with hiking trails and treetop obstacle courses, while animal lovers are sure to have a great time at the Parotte Ville Bird Sanctuary.
Best gay hotel in Saint Martin/Sint Maarten
If you’re looking for the gayest place to stay on the island, we recommend Paradise Peak (formerly ‘Villa Rainbow'). It’s a small, quiet, adult-only guesthouse with a clothing-optional pool. It is tucked away up in Marigot’s Pic Paradis hills where you have THE best views of the island.
5. Saint Croix
Mirror, mirror, on the wall, which is the gayest Virgin Island of them all? Saint Croix, sweety! Best of all, neighboring Saint Thomas Island is equally gay-friendly and only 25 minutes away in a seaplane. If you don’t like flying, you can also take a ferry over to Saint Thomas, which takes a couple of hours but is well worth the trip. Saint Croix is part of the U.S. Virgin Islands (not to be confused with the more conservative British Virgin Islands).
Gay Saint Croix in a nutshell
- Population: 50,000
- Spartacus rank: #56
- Gay marriage legalized: 2015 (USA)
- Gay scene highlights: Palms at Pelican Cove
- Gay beach: Sand Castle on the Beach
- Best gay events: St Croix Pride
- Best gay hotel: Sand Castle on the Beach Boutique Hotel
How safe is Saint Croix for gay travelers?
No problems with safety here! The Virgin Islands are governed by the United States and, as such, are similar in terms of LGBTQ rights, which includes full marriage equality in line with US law. Saint Croix also passed its hate crime law in 2014, which includes provisions for crimes committed against LGBTQ people, of which there have been some reported cases. LGBTQ couples can adopt, and lesbian couples can access fertility treatment. While there is no legal ban against trans people changing their legal gender, the Superior Court of USVI has said they aren’t aware that such a petition has ever been lodged, so there isn’t yet a legal framework in place.
The gay scene of Saint Croix
Head to Frederiksted where most restaurants, bars, and clubs proudly fly the rainbow flag! Specific places to check out include The Palms at Pelican Cove on Friday and Saturday nights. It can get busy, so we’d recommend making a reservation. The Palms also opens onto a gay-friendly beach area with lots of sights to see – and I’m not just talking about the sun, sea, and sand! Our other top gay beach is in front of the Sand Castle on the Beach, which also happens to be our favorite place to stay on the island; more on that later.
Gay events in Saint Croix
When it comes to celebrating Gay Pride, Saint Croix is all for it. The Saint Croix Pride includes a launch party at Point Udall, a Pride art exhibition at the Caribbean Museum Centre for the Arts, and a glorious Pride Parade. The highlight is the popular after-party following the parade which kicks off at Sand Castle on the Beach.
If you’ve had your fill of gay fun and frolics for a while, check out what else Saint Croix has to offer. There’s a fabulous boat tour of the Virgin Islands that is an incredible way to spend a day. The high price may be a bit of a barrier for couples, but if you’re traveling with a group, the boat seats up to nine guests, which makes it a much more affordable prospect.
For those who would prefer to keep their feet on the ground, groups of up to six people can go on a private day tour of the island that includes stops at Mount Pellier Domino Club, the Salt River Bay National Historical Park and Ecological Preserve, the Cruzan Rum Distillery and more!
Best gay hotel in Saint Croix
Situated in Frederiksted, Sand Castle on the Beach is at the epicenter of all things gay in Saint Croix. By far the most popular resort for gay travelers, the Sand Castle also happens to open out onto the most popular gay beach on the island – score!
Guadeloupe is a collection of six small islands, located south of Antigua and Barbuda. Interestingly, Saint Martin and Saint Barthelemy were once considered part of Guadeloupe until a 2003 referendum saw the two islands split off and become their own territory. As part of the French West Indies, Guadeloupe follows many of its parent country’s laws and, as such, is one of the more LGBTQ-friendly islands in the Caribbean.
Gay Guadeloupe in a nutshell
- Population: 400,000
- Spartacus rank: #34
- Gay marriage legalized: 2013 (France)
- Gay scene highlights: no gay scene
- Gay beach: Anse Tarare beach and Plage Gay Naturiste de Sainte Rose
- Best gay events: Guadaloupe Carnival
- Best gay hotel: Les Jardins de Zephyr
How safe is Guadeloupefor gay travelers?
So safe that the island doesn’t have any documented history of any homophobic or transphobic hate crime! The legal framework of Guadaloupe is shaped by France, which includes full marriage equality (since 2013) and a full set of anti-discrimination laws. LGBTQ couples can also adopt and trans people can change their legal gender. Where Guadeloupe falls down is that it doesn’t yet recognize those who identify as non-binary, and like many other Caribbean islands, it hasn’t banned conversion therapy.
The gay scene of Guadeloupe
Guadeloupe doesn’t have any gay bars or clubs. Whilst there are many gay-friendly bars on the island, if you’re hoping to paint the town all the colors of the rainbow and party till the early hours, then you're better off heading to Curaçao. Guadaloupe is geared towards LGBTQ travelers who want to chill. If this is your gig, then you'll love the island's gay friendly nude beaches – Anse Tarare in Saint Francois and Plage Gay Naturiste de Sainte Rose.
Gay events in Guadeloupe
It’s very unusual for a city or country without a gay scene to have a Pride festival, and Guadeloupe, unfortunately, doesn’t buck that particular trend. However, like many of our other favorite gay-friendly Caribbean islands, Guadeloupe doesn’t disappoint when it comes to its annual carnival. Taking place over two whole months between January and March, the Guadeloupe Carnival promises “color, music, happiness, and laughter” – all sounds pretty gay to me!
Guadeloupe may not have much in the way of gay nightlife, but it's the perfect travel destination for LGBTQ travelers who prefer their adventures away from the nightlife scene. Guadeloupe National Park is a sprawling nature reserve packed with local flora and fauna, several native bird species, and fabulous hiking trails, including a two-hour climb up the La Soufriere volcano that promises some spectacular views once you reach the top.
There’s also the Blue Lagoon Tour, a guided boat tour that includes visits to the teeny-tiny gorgeous island of Ilet Caret, the Grand Cul-de-Sac Marin Natural Reserve, and the Moustique River, with opportunities to go snorkeling and check out the mesmerizingly beautiful coral reef.
Best gay hotel in Guadeloupe
Of all the options available to LGBTQ travelers, our favorite is the male-only guesthouse, Les Jardins de Zephyr in Basse-Terre. You're welcomed at the Zephyr with a fabulous evening buffet on the night of your arrival, where the adorable owners, Sylvain and Christophe, will fill you in on all the best places to visit on your trip.
Located north of the British Virgin Islands, Bermuda is actually a cluster of over a hundred islands, the largest of which is known as Main Island. It’s small but very densely populated. What used to be a Caribbean island notorious for homophobic crime has evolved into a Pink haven, even legalizing gay marriage in 2018.
Gay Bermuda in a nutshell
- Population: 75,000
- Spartacus rank: #49
- Gay marriage legalized: 2018
- Gay scene highlights: Cafe Cairo
- Gay beach: between Chaplin Bay and Horseshoe Beach
- Best gay events: Bermuda Pride
- Best gay hotel: Aunt Nea’s Inn
How safe is Bermuda for gay travelers?
Despite Bermuda's history of intolerance towards the LGBTQ community, the island nation has evolved massively in recent years to position itself as one of the top destinations for gay travelers in the Caribbean. In 2018, Bermuda legalized gay marriage and also allowed LGBTQ couples to adopt. It also has a generous set of anti-discrimination laws in place to protect the LGBTQ community which includes hate speech.
The gay scene of Bermuda
There are a handful of queer places in Bermuda to check out in the capital city of Hamilton. The main one is Café Cairo where you can grab a fabulous dinner followed by drinks and dancing until 3am courtesy of the resident DJ. There’s even a hookah bar if that’s your thing. The Little Venice Restaurant is a gorgeous Italian restaurant with some of the best food we’ve ever tasted and a positive reputation with the LGBTQ community.
There is a gay beach area situated between Chaplin Bay and Horseshoe Beach, near the parishes of Southampton and Warwick. While it’s a great place to meet other gay travelers and locals, cruising is a big no-no as police regularly patrol the area, particularly in the summer months.
Gay events in Bermuda
In August 2019, Bermuda had its very first Pride festival (the 2020 Pride was canceled due to the global pandemic), attracting around 6,000 people – that's almost 10% of the island's entire population! Bermuda Pride is a 3-day festival, which includes a parade and plenty of parties largely based around Victoria Park. It is supported by the Rainbow Alliance of Bermuda, which does fantastic things for the LGBTQ community of the island.
If you prefer your vacay with a side-helping of history, you won’t want to miss a trip to St George on the island’s east end. It is home to Tobacco Bay Beach and more museums than you can shake a stick at, including the St George Historical Society Museum and the Bermudian Heritage Museum. We also recommend checking out the National Museum of Bermuda in Sandys Parish.
We love an aquarium (who doesn’t?!) and Bermuda has a fabulous one situated in Flatts Village on the North Shore. The Bermuda Aquarium, Museum & Zoo is home to hundreds of species of fish, coral, birds, reptiles, and mammals from all over the world. The aquarium also runs whale-watching boat cruises in the spring, where you can spot Bermuda humpback whales as they migrate north.
Best gay hotel in Bermuda
Our top pick is Aunt Nea’s Inn in St George. This super quaint homely inn is lesbian-owned and comes highly recommended by customers on TripAdvisor. It is located in a quiet part of town, away from the large crowds, everything here geared towards harmony and pure relaxation.
Cuba is located in the northern Caribbean Sea, south of Florida and the Bahamas. It’s the second-most populated island on our rundown with over 11 million residents. Despite having quite an authoritarian government, it is constantly evolving in relation to LGBTQ laws, largely thanks to the efforts of Raul Castro's daughter, Mariela Castro, who is one of the leading LGBTQ activists in Cuba.
BREAKING news Sept 2022: Following a referendum, the people of Cuba overwhelmingly voted to legalize gay marriage! To be precise, that's around 67% of the Cuban population (around 4 million people) voted in favor of introducing gay marriage in Cuba.
Gay Cuba in a nutshell
- Population: 11.3 million
- Spartacus rank: #56
- Gay marriage legalized: not yet – but a 2022 referendum voted in favor of it!
- Gay scene highlights: Bar XY and Cabaret Las Vegas
- Gay beach: Mi Cayito
- Best gay events: None – canceled from 2019
- Best gay hotel: Casa Particular Jorge Silvio
How safe is Cuba for gay travelers?
Despite being an authoritarian regime, Cuba is very safe for gay travelers. We loved it and would go back in a heartbeat. There was a time when gay Cubans would risk their lives to flee the country for a better life in the States. However, thanks to the efforts of people like Mariela Casto, a full range of anti-discrimination laws have been introduced since 2013 which included laws on gender equality. Cuba is also on the path to introducing marriage equality over the next few years…watch this space!
The gay scene in Cuba
Considering Cuba’s chequered past towards LGBTQ people, there is a rich and vibrant queer community here. Malecon, located on the coast of Havana, Cuba’s capital city, is where the Havana boys hang out in the evening. In terms of gay hangouts, check out Bar XY. Fridays and Saturday nights pop off in spectacular fashion with fabulous cocktails and hilarious comedy drag shows. For a world-class cabaret with a Cuban twist, head to Cabaret Las Vegas. Just be wary of the dress code – men, leave your open-toed shoes at home! There is a gay beach called Mi Cayito on the Playas de Este, which is a 30-minute taxi ride away from Havana.
Gay events in Cuba
Pride marches have been held in Cuba every May for many years to coincide with the International Day Against Homophobia. However, in 2019, the organizers were forced to cancel the parade at short notice and with little-to-no explanation! Nevertheless, they showed up, in a tremendous display of strength, resilience, and, above all, Pride! Sadly, the police also turned out – in huge numbers. Several attendees were arrested, and the rest were ordered to disperse. Clearly, the good fight is not over…
If you fancy breaking up all the food, drink, dancing, and debauchery with a little history and culture, Havana is full of stunning architecture and several interesting tourist attractions. The Malecon waterfront is a lovely place for a stroll in the sun, while the Museo de la Rivolucion is packed with photos and artifacts from the era of the Cuban Revolution. History fans won’t want to miss a trip to the colonial city of Habana Vieja, which is also the location of the stunning Plaza de la Catedral.
Best gay hotel in Cuba
Our favorite gay place to stay in Cuba is the Casa Particular Gayfriendly Casa Jorge Silvio (a bit of a mouthful, to be honest, Jorge!) in Centro Havana. It is adorably kitschy, quintessentially Cuban, and best of all, within walking distance of the Malecon, the old town, and the La Plaza de Carlos III shopping center.
9. Saint Barthelemy
The trés chic Saint Barthelemy (or Saint Barts, as it’s more commonly known) is like Christmas in Disneyland for the LGBTQ community. This teeny-tiny island is another overseas collectivity of France, super-popular with celebs and very welcoming to gay tourists. What teeny-tiny St Barts lacks in terms of gay parties, it sure makes up for in terms of gay beaches and hotels.
Gay Saint Barts in a nutshell
- Population: 10,000
- Spartacus rank: #23 (France)
- Gay marriage legalized: 2013 (France)
- Gay scene highlights: no gay scene
- Gay beach: Saline Beach
- Best gay events: none
- Best gay hotel: Villa BelAmour
How safe is Saint Barts for gay travelers?
Very safe! As part of the French West Indies, Saint Barts follows in France’s progressive footsteps when it comes to LGBTQ equality. The island has a comprehensive set of anti-discrimination laws which follow those in France. In addition, gay marriage was introduced in 2013 when it was legalized in France and it includes adoption rights. All in all, Saint Barts is a haven for the gays!
The gay scene of Saint Barts
Saint Barts has an interesting and unusual reputation for being one of the most popular gay tourist destinations in spite of the fact it doesn’t have a single exclusively gay venue. It’s not that the island doesn’t provide safe spaces for the LGBTQ community – more so that it doesn’t need to. The general consensus seems to be that all spaces are safe spaces, no matter your orientation or gender identity. Prejudice isn’t really a thing in Saint Barts, which is just fabulous. However, if you're looking to party, you're better off heading to somewhere like Curaçao.
In terms of gay beaches, check out Saline. The far left and right sections are the most popular areas with the gay community, and it’s clothing optional, so you’re sure to see lots of sights!
Gay events in Saint Barts
Despite being exceedingly gay in every way, shape, and form, Saint Barts doesn’t currently run any gay events or have a Pride festival. That’s a shame in a way, as we can imagine Saint Barts Pride being an absolute riot. On the other hand, we can kind of understand it. By all accounts, the people of Saint Barts actively encourage the LGBTQ community to live their truth freely and proudly 365 days of the year. When you look at it that way, it’s kind of great and represents a gold standard of queer acceptance we hope the rest of the world can catch up to one day.
The top attractions of St Bart's include the capital city of Gustavia, packed with museums, art galleries, fabulous French restaurants, and some of the best places to shop in Saint Barts. Fort Gustave is a great place to take in some of the island’s history and culture.
Saint Jean is like a mini-Gustavia, located in the center of the island. Saint Barts knows how to do shopping and dining like no other, and Saint-Jean is no exception. Saint Jean’s Bay Beach is beyond stunning and offers opportunities to partake in water sports like surfing and snorkeling.
Best gay hotel in Saint Barts
Villa BelAmour is owned by Thibault, a cute gay local guy (see video above). It is the absolute lap of luxury…and the best part? It’s all yours! It's ideal for couples, with a comfy lounge, fully decked-out kitchen, and even an office for those who might need to check in with work now and again. And did we mention that gorgeous oblong-shaped pool…?!
We’re heading back to the Dutch Caribbean for this final main entry on our list of the Caribbean islands safe for gay travelers. Aruba is a constituent country of the Netherlands, an incredibly progressive nation. However, unlike some of the other Dutch islands on this list, Aruba’s LGBTQ equality legislation still needs a lot of work. It’s one of the lowest-ranking gay-friendly Caribbean islands on the Spartacus Gay Travel Index for 2020 at number 78, with a score of minus four.
Gay Aruba in a nutshell
- Population: 110,000
- Spartacus rank: #78
- Gay marriage legalized: none (Civil Unions since 2016)
- Gay scene highlights: 7 Club Lounge Bar although has been reported as closed
- Gay beach: Eagle Beach (mixed)
- Best gay events: tbc
- Best gay hotel: tbc
How safe is Aruba for gay travelers?
Aruba is safe and welcoming for LGBTQ travelers. It is part of the Kingdom of the Netherlands and generally follows the laws set by the Binnenhof. Aruba has quite a comprehensive set of anti-discrimination laws but has yet to introduce laws that prohibit discrimination based on gender identity. Similarly, gay marriage equality has not yet reached the island, but it is making strides in this direction, having introduced gay civil unions in 2016.
The gay scene of Aruba
District 7 in the capital city of Oranjestad is the center of LGBTQ life on the island. The popular Jimmy’s Place has been rebranded as 7 Club Lounge Bar or “@7” and was the biggest gay nightlife hotspot on the island pre-Covid but we are waiting/hoping it will be reborn again soon! In its heyday, 7 Club was a chic, stylish hangout, perfect for meeting locals and other travelers and dancing your socks off to live music courtesy of world-famous performing artists and international DJs. Gin fans should also check out the gay friendly Gin and Olives Garden Bar – although this has also been closed since Covid.
Aruba has an unofficial gay section at Eagle Beach, but generally, it's a mixed crowd here, also popular with families.
Gay events in Aruba
Unfortunately, there aren’t currently any notable gay events like Pride going on in Aruba. Though the LGBTQ community is growing and becoming more visible. We hope to celebrate the first Aruba Pride event one day.
There are plenty of things to do in Aruba. We’ve already touched on Oranjestad as the best gay hangout, but it’s also a fabulous place to visit in the daytime. The brightly colored buildings really pop in the daylight. The town is always buzzing with activity, and it’s absolutely stacked with tourist attractions, including museums and art galleries, as well as restaurants and shops.
On the Oranjestad waterfront, you’ll find Wilhelmina Park, which is packed with horticultural delights and is perfect for a picnic. For the ultimate retail experience, head to the Renaissance Shopping Mall, home to Cartier, Chanel, and Gucci, among others.
Best gay friendly resort in Aruba
We just love the Bucuti & Tara Beach Resort in Oranjestad. We rate it as one of the most gay friendly Caribbean resorts. It is an adults-only paradise that opens out to the gay friendly Eagle Beach. Bucuti is also very gay friendly. It is not only a proud member of IGLTA, it is also TAG-approved for its service, employment policies, and support of the LGBTQ community.
So, that’s it for our run-down of the ten safest Caribbean islands for gay travelers. Before we move onto the islands you should avoid at all costs, here’s an extra couple of honorable mentions.
Saba is a municipality of the Netherlands and is very accepting of the queer community. Gay marriage was legalized in 2012 making it a top destination for gay weddings. There isn’t much of a scene to speak of, but the Tropics Café is gay-owned and popular with the LGBTQ community. The Saba Carnival, which takes place in February, also packs plenty of gay energy. Queen’s Garden Resort is one of the most famous gay-friendly resorts on the island and in the Caribbean.
Bonaire is another Dutch municipality, so its LGBTQ report card is identical to Saba having also joined the gay marriage club in 2012. There is not much in the way of gay goings-on in Bonaire, but there is a gay area of Sorobon Beach that is worth checking out. In terms of gay hotels in Bonaire, check out the Harbour Village Beach Club Hotel, which is pure luxury with fabulous service. The hotel also operates regular diving excursions with all the necessary equipment provided.
Caribbean islands to avoid for LGBTQ travelers
Now for the dishonourable mentions.
There are 8 Caribbean islands where homosexuality is still illegal. Whether these laws are enforced or not is neither here nor there – ultimately, they send a terrible message to LGBTQ locals and travelers alike, and they paint a hideous picture of intolerance towards our community that has no place in the 21st century!
Barbados is by far the worst offender, where LGBTQ folks can wind up with a life sentence just for living their lives, although note that things are quickly evolving under Mia Mottley's progressive Democratic Labour Party. In Antigua and Barbuda, you can be jailed for up to 15 years, while 10 years in the hole is a very real possibility for queer people in Dominica, Grenada, Jamaica, Nevis, Saint Kitts, Saint Lucia, and Saint Vincent and the Grenadines. The Dominican Republic is another one to be careful of – being gay may be legal, but the lack of any anti-discrimination laws makes it totally legal for hotels to reject a gay couple and get away with it!
For more inspiration:
- For more gaycation inspiration read our detailed guide to the top gay travel holiday destinations in the world.
- For more tropical islands, check out our gay guide to the Thai island of Koh Lipe
- As well as our gay guide to fabulous Gran Canaria in the Canary Islands
- We also have a gay guide to the Gili Islands in Indonesia
- Don't miss our gay island guide to Palawan in the Phillippines
- And find out how we became mermaids for a day on Boracay Island!
- These are the best gay beaches around the world for more fun in the sun
- Check out what we rate as the most gay friendly countries in the world