Discover the most gay-friendly Caribbean islands, from Puerto Rico and Curaçao to Aruba and Saint Barts. We compare LGBTQ+ rights, gay beaches, nightlife, hotels, and safety to help you plan your Caribbean vacation.
It’s a question we get asked a lot, and the answer depends very much on where you’re going. Puerto Rico has one of the Caribbean’s biggest gay scenes, Curaçao and Aruba now have marriage equality, and the French Caribbean islands offer some of the region’s strongest LGBTQ+ legal protections.
But not every island is equally welcoming. Some still criminalize consensual same-sex intimacy, while others have progressive laws but relatively conservative social attitudes.
We’ve compared ten of the most gay-friendly Caribbean destinations, looking at LGBTQ+ rights, gay beaches, nightlife, Pride events, and gay-friendly hotels. Whether you’re planning a romantic honeymoon, a beach vacation, or a gay Caribbean getaway with friends, here’s where we’d recommend going and what you should know before booking.

How do we rank the most gay-friendly Caribbean islands?
The Caribbean can be a wonderful destination for gay travelers, so much so that there are many gay cruises in the Caribbean.
When choosing the most gay-friendly Caribbean islands, we look beyond the beaches and beautiful resorts. Our rankings are based on three main factors:
- LGBTQ+ rights: Is homosexuality legal? Can gay couples marry? Are there laws protecting LGBTQ+ people from discrimination?
- Gay scene: Are there gay bars, clubs, beaches, Pride festivals, or other LGBTQ+ events?
- Gay travel experience: How welcoming is the island towards gay visitors? Are there gay-owned businesses, LGBTQ+ friendly hotels, and places where couples can feel comfortable being themselves?
Other useful and important sources we recommend checking out include the US Department of State advice for Gay and Lesbian Travelers, the UK Foreign Office, and the Australia Smart Traveller page.
So now let’s get into it…can you guess who we rate as the as #1?

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1. Puerto Rico – best for gay nightlife
The gayest Caribbean island is one of the largest too, with a population of around 3 million. Often referred to as “The Island of Enchantment”. We agree and also rank Puerto Rico as the gayest place in the Caribbean.
Remember – this is the home of Ricky Martin as well as some of the best RuPaul Drag Race girls – Alexis Matteo, Nina Flowers, and Cynthia Lee Fontaine, to name a few…

Gay Puerto Rico in a nutshell
- Population: 3 million
- Gay marriage legalized: 2015 (USA)
- Gay scene highlights: Santurce gay village with places like SX Club and the Xteamworks Bath House
- Gay beach: Atlantic Beach in Condado
- Best gay events: Winter Pride Fest and Pride Puerto Rico
- Best gay hotel: Coqui del Mar San Juan Guesthouse
How safe is Puerto Rico for gay travelers?
Puerto Rico is one of our top picks for a gay Caribbean vacation, especially if you want beaches alongside a proper gay nightlife scene. As a US territory, Puerto Rico has recognised same-sex marriage since 2015, following the US Supreme Court’s momentous Obergefell v Hodges marriage-equality ruling.
There are also legal protections for LGBTQ+ people. Transgender residents have a process for updating the gender marker on their birth certificates (the official guidance was reviewed in January 2026). However, we wouldn’t describe any destination as completely free of discrimination. For us, San Juan is particularly appealing because it combines an established LGBTQ+ community with plenty of places to stay, eat, and go out.
The gay scene of Puerto Rico
Santurce is where it’s at for queer peeps. Situated in Puerto Rico’s capital city of San Juan, this area is home to most of the island’s LGBTQ+ establishments.
As fans of RuPaul’s Drag Race will know, Puerto Rico has turned out some of the finest drag artists on the international stage, including Alexis Mateo and Vanessa Vanjie. The main gay hangout is SX Club, which is packed to the rafters with exotic dancers(!), and Xteamworks Bath House – Puerto Rico’s first (and so far, only) gay sauna. There’s also the gay beach of Condado, located in front of the Atlantic Beach Hotel.
Gay events in Puerto Rico
There are several fabulous LGBTQ+ events to be enjoyed at various times of the year in Puerto Rico. The Winter Pride Fest takes place in December – although “winter” is a bit of a reach, considering you can still expect plenty of sun and temperatures in the 80s °F (around 25-30°C).
The biggest and most popular LGBTQ+ event on the island is Pride Puerto Rico, which is usually held around May-June in San Juan. What began as a small protest in 1990 has now grown into one of the largest and best Pride events in the Caribbean.
Travel highlights
Of course, there are plenty of other things to do in Puerto Rico for those days when your gay energy needs a little time away from the scene to recharge. Old San Juan is equal parts quaint and colorful – a cute combo of local culture and Puerto Rican history, with plenty of places to grab a drink or a bite to eat. It can get busy during peak season, but it’s worth a look for anyone visiting the island.
Beach lovers can’t go wrong with a visit to Playa Flamenco, one of the most popular non-gay beaches in Puerto Rico. Playa Flamenco looks like a living postcard, with gorgeous white sands stretching out as far as the eye can see – to call it paradise is no exaggeration!

Best gay hotel on the island
Check out the adults-only Coqui del Mar San Juan Guesthouse – “the gayest guesthouse in San Juan” by its own admission! You can book a villa, a cabana, a poolside room, or a studio, each self-contained for maximum privacy. It also has a very handsome communal pool in the annex – clothing optional, of course!
2. Curaçao – best for gay friendly resorts
Curaçao is one of the Caribbean’s smaller islands, with a population of 160,000. It’s located in the south of the Caribbean Sea, off the coast of Venezuela, and is a constituent of the Kingdom of the Netherlands. Since gay marriage was legalized in 2024, Curaçao has become one of the most popular gay honeymoon destinations.
Gay Curaçao in a nutshell
- Population: 160,000
- Gay marriage legalized: 2024
- Gay scene highlights: Lyric’s Cafe and the Wet and Wild Beach Club
- Gay beach: Moomba Beach
- Best gay events: Curaçao Pride
- Best gay hotel: Avila Beach Hotel
How safe is Curaçao for gay travelers?
Curaçao has become one of the most appealing Caribbean destinations for gay couples, and there’s an important reason why: same-sex marriage has been legal here since July 2024.
On July 12, 2024, the Dutch Supreme Court upheld a ruling that excluding same-sex couples from marriage was discriminatory under Curaçao’s constitution. It was a major victory for LGBTQ+ equality on the island.
For gay travelers, Curaçao offers colorful Willemstad, beautiful beaches and a growing LGBTQ+ tourism scene. We particularly like that there’s an established Pride celebration here.
The gay scene in Curaçao
The first thing that struck us about Curaçao is its bright, colorful architecture. If you look at the island from above at a certain angle, I’m almost certain you can make out the Pride flag – if that isn’t a big gay welcome, I don’t know what is! Our favorite place in Curaçao is Lyric’s Café, the island’s only regular gay venue. It’s small, but it has tons of personality and charm, with a comfortable lounge area and a dancing pole for when you’re feeling your oats!
Many Curaçao gays gravitate towards the Wet and Wild Beach Club, which is always a good time. The best night is Sunday, when the Happy Hour Beach Party takes place from 5 pm until 7 pm and features the club’s resident DJ, with drinking and dancing going on into the early hours. In terms of gay beaches, the island doesn’t have an official one, but Moomba Beach is an adults-only, gay friendly beach where the boys hang out.
Gay events in Curaçao
Curaçao knows how to do Pride right for such a small island! The annual, six-day-long Curaçao Pride festival takes place in late September. It hosts a battalion of local and international performing artists to thrill and delight the island’s LGBTQ+ locals and visitors. The festival includes several Pride parties like the Boat Party and the White Party, which are well worth attending.
Travel highlights
Curaçao has plenty of other non-gay sights to see too. The Christoffel National Park in the West End is packed full of local horticulture and features two driving routes and eight hiking trails. These include a two-to-three-hour hike up to the summit of Christoffel Mountain, the highest point on the entire island. It is a sight to behold, but not for the faint of heart!
If history and the arts are your cup of tea, there’s plenty to drink during your time on the island. Willemstad is the cultural heart of Curaçao, home to the Landhuis Bloemhof Arts Center and the Gallery Alma Blou, as well as the Museum Kura Hulanda and the Queen Emma Bridge.

Best gay hotel in Curaçao
Our favorite gay friendly hotel in Curaçao is the Avila Beach Hotel. It has a unique and super picturesque location right on the beach, with an all-inclusive resort option making it a popular venue for destination weddings and gay commitment ceremonies.
3. Martinique – best for a French-Caribbean experience
Martinique is part of the overseas territorial collectivity of France, and as such, it is far more progressive in its equality for the LGBTQ+ community than some of its counterparts. Almost all of its 360,000 inhabitants speak French, so those without at least a rudimentary understanding of the native tongue will do well to brush up on their parlez-vous-francais and their oui-oui-bien…

Gay Martinique in a nutshell
- Population: 360,000
- Gay marriage legalized: 2013 (France)
- Gay scene highlights: no gay bars
- Gay beach: Plage de la Petite Anse des Salines
- Best gay events: Martinique Carnival and Martinique Gay Pride
- Best gay hotel: Le Carbet Gay B&B
How safe is Martinique for gay travelers?
Martinique is one of the Caribbean islands with some of the strongest legal protections for LGBTQ+ people, thanks to its status as an overseas region of France.
Same-sex marriage has been legal since 2013. Gay couples can adopt, and discrimination based on sexual orientation is prohibited. France also introduced legislation banning conversion practices in 2022.
That doesn’t mean homophobia has disappeared, of course, but the legal framework is an important advantage for gay couples planning a Caribbean vacation. We’d choose Martinique for its beaches, French-Caribbean culture and relaxed island atmosphere rather than expecting a huge gay nightlife scene.
The gay scene of Martinique
Whilst Martinique doesn’t have a gay scene, some gay-friendly and gay-owned establishments are safe and welcoming for LGBTQ+ travelers.
What Martinique does have is a gay-friendly beach area. At the far end of the stunningly gorgeous Les Salines beach is an area known as Plage de la Petite Anse des Salines. While it’s not exactly outwardly gay like some of the beaches you might have sauntered onto in the past, there is an unspoken consensus that this is a safe place for LGBTQ+ travelers to congregate and meet other gay travelers and locals. There’s also a gay-friendly clothing-optional beach close by called Little Anse des Salines.
Gay events in Martinique
Not having much of a gay scene, you might assume that there aren’t any gay events going on in Martinique either, but there are a couple worth checking out. The Martinique Carnival takes place in late February and is extremely popular with the local LGBTQ+ community.
Travel highlights
Oh, Miss Martinique, you’re not shy when it comes to pretty sights… If you’re into nature, the Balata Botanical Garden will blow your mind. Located near Fort-de-France, the Balata is home to 3,000 different species of plants. It’s a sight to behold and a lovely way to spend a quiet, relaxing day in Martinique. Speaking of Fort-de-France, it is the capital of the island and a great starting point for travelers wanting to take in some local culture. For history and architecture lovers, we recommend heading to the Musée Départemental d’Archéologie, the Cathédrale Saint-Louis, and Fort Royal.

Best gay hotel in Martinique
There may not be any proper gay venues in Martinique, but one place that is super-gay is Le Carbet Gay B&B. It is ideally situated in the bustling Pointe du Bout beach town. The standout highlight is the stunning roof terrace, which features a clothing-optional solarium area.
4. Saint Martin/Sint Maarten – best for beaches
What’s in a name? As you will know by now, some of the Caribbean islands belong to other countries. Many are owned by France, the Netherlands, the UK, or the US, while others are independent and make their own rules. This island is something of an anomaly in that it is split into north and south sections. Saint Martin, the slightly larger north section, is part of the French Republic, while Sint Maarten, the south, belongs to the Kingdom of the Netherlands.

Gay Saint Martin/Sint Maarten in a nutshell
- Population: 78,000
- Gay marriage was legalized: 2013 in Saint Martin (France) but not yet in Sint Maarten
- Gay scene highlights: Rainbow Cafe
- Gay beaches: Orient Bay Beach, Happy Bay Beach, and Cupecoy Beach
- Best gay events: the Carnival Mardi Gras Parade
- Best gay hotel: The Paradise Peak (formerly: Rainbow Villas)
How safe is Saint Martin/Sint Maarten for gay travelers?
One island, two countries, and two different legal systems. The island of Saint Martin is divided between French Saint Martin in the north and Dutch Sint Maarten in the south.
On the French side, same-sex marriage has been legal since 2013. Dutch Sint Maarten has a separate legal system, and its rules concerning marriage and the recognition of marriages performed abroad differ from those in the European Netherlands. Gay couples planning to marry or register a marriage should check the latest requirements with the local civil registry.
Both sides welcome international tourists, and neither prohibits LGBTQ+ events or consensual same-sex relationships. We’d still recommend being mindful of local attitudes, especially outside the main tourist areas. For us, the appeal of this island is that you can enjoy its beautiful beaches and international atmosphere without having to choose between the French and Dutch sides.
The gay scene of Saint Martin/Sint Maarten
The main gay bar in Saint Martin is the Rainbow Cafe. Be sure to check out the Gay Sint Maarten Instagram for the latest info on what is happening.
There are also a few gay clothing-optional beach areas packed with hotties: Orient Bay Beach and Happy Bay Beach in the north and Cupecoy Beach in the south.
Gay events in Saint Martin/Sint Maarten
Neither side of the island currently has an official Pride festival, but there are two carnivals during the springtime. The French side of the island has its carnival in late February, while the Dutch side’s carnival is later in the year, around April. Both events are pretty gay – I mean, they’re carnivals! But the French one is certainly gayer.
The Mardi Gras Parade takes place towards the end and sees performers swarm the streets dressed up to the nines. Meanwhile, the Dutch carnival takes place over a month, so if you’re visiting the island around that time, you can’t miss it.
Travel highlights
There’s so much to do on this island, you’ll be spoilt for choice and wondering how you’re going to squeeze it all in – though we always find a way, don’t we? Pinel Island is top of everyone’s list, a stunning day-trip location. There are several different tour packages available, including boat tours and snorkeling experiences. Water babies will be living their best lives!
Back on dry land, Fort Louis is well worth a look, if only for the incredible view of the island once you reach the top – again, there are plenty of guided tours available if you’re planning to visit. GI Joe wannabes should head to Loterie Farm, packed with hiking trails and treetop obstacle courses, while animal lovers are sure to have a great time at the Parotte Ville Bird Sanctuary.

Best gay hotel in Saint Martin/Sint Maarten
If you’re looking for the gayest place to stay on the island, we recommend Paradise Peak (formerly ‘Rainbow Villas’). It’s a small, quiet, adult-only guesthouse with a clothing-optional pool. It is tucked away up in Marigot’s Pic Paradis hills, where you have THE best views of the island. The best part: it’s Adults Only, so no screaming kids ruining your fun by the pool 🙂
5. Saint Croix – best for a relaxed gay vacation
Mirror, mirror, on the wall, which is the gayest Virgin Island of them all? Saint Croix 🙂
Best of all, neighboring Saint Thomas Island is equally gay-friendly and only 25 minutes away in a seaplane. If you don’t like flying, you can also take a ferry over to Saint Thomas, which takes a couple of hours but is well worth the trip. Saint Croix is part of the U.S. Virgin Islands (not to be confused with the more conservative British Virgin Islands).

Gay Saint Croix in a nutshell
- Population: 50,000
- Gay marriage legalized: 2015 (USA)
- Gay scene highlights: Palms at Pelican Cove
- Gay beach: Sand Castle on the Beach
- Best gay events: St Croix Pride
- Best gay hotel: Sand Castle on the Beach Boutique Hotel
How safe is Saint Croix for gay travelers?
Saint Croix is one of our favorite Caribbean options for gay couples who want a quieter island escape without giving up the legal protections that come with being part of the United States.
As part of the US Virgin Islands, Saint Croix recognizes gay marriage, and gay couples have access to the legal protections that apply in the territory. However, legal equality and everyday experiences aren’t necessarily the same thing, so we’d still take the usual precautions when traveling.
What appeals to us most about Saint Croix is its welcoming accommodation, beautiful beaches, and small but visible LGBTQ+ community. If you’re looking for a laid-back Caribbean getaway rather than a major party destination, this is one we’d seriously consider.
The gay scene of Saint Croix
Head to Frederiksted and check out The Palms at Pelican Cove on Friday and Saturday nights. It can get busy, so we’d recommend making a reservation.
The Palms also opens onto a gay-friendly beach area with lots of sights to see – and I’m not just talking about the sun, sea, and sand… Our other top gay beach is in front of the Sand Castle on the Beach, which also happens to be our favorite place to stay on the island.
Gay events in Saint Croix
When it comes to celebrating Gay Pride, Saint Croix is all for it. The Saint Croix Pride takes place every June. The highlight is the popular after-party following the parade, which usually kicks off at Sand Castle on the Beach.
Travel highlights
Beyond the beaches, boat tours of the Virgin Islands are very popular. Other highlights of the island include the Mount Pellier Domino Club, Salt River Bay National Historical Park Ecological Preserve, and the Cruzan Rum Distillery.

Best gay hotel in Saint Croix
Situated in Frederiksted, Sand Castle on the Beach is at the epicenter of all things gay in Saint Croix. By far the most popular resort for gay travelers because, as well as being Adults Only, it opens out to the most popular gay beach on the island – score!
6. Guadeloupe – best for nature lovers
Guadeloupe is a collection of six small islands, located south of Antigua and Barbuda. Interestingly, Saint Martin and Saint Barthélemy were once considered part of Guadeloupe until a 2003 referendum saw the two islands split off and become their own territory.
As part of the French West Indies, Guadeloupe follows many of its parent country’s laws and, as such, is one of the more LGBTQ+ friendly islands in the Caribbean.

Gay Guadeloupe in a nutshell
- Population: 400,000
- Gay marriage legalized: 2013 (France)
- Gay scene highlights: no gay scene
- Gay beach: Anse Tarare beach and Plage Gay Naturiste de Sainte Rose
- Best gay events: Guadeloupe Carnival
- Best gay hotel: Les Jardins de Zephyr
How safe is Guadeloupe for gay travelers?
Guadeloupe benefits from France’s LGBTQ+ equality laws, making it one of the stronger Caribbean destinations when it comes to legal protections.
Same-sex marriage has been legal since 2013, and gay couples can also legally adopt. Discrimination based on sexual orientation is prohibited. France also banned conversion practices in 2022, with the legislation applying to its overseas territories.
That said, we wouldn’t assume everyone on the islands has the same attitude towards LGBTQ+ visitors. Guadeloupe is better suited to gay travelers looking for beautiful beaches, nature and French-Caribbean culture than those hoping for a big gay nightlife scene. We’d recommend researching your accommodation and taking the same sensible precautions you would anywhere else.
The gay scene of Guadeloupe
Guadeloupe doesn’t have any gay bars or clubs. Whilst there are many gay-friendly bars on the island, if you’re hoping to paint the town all the colors of the rainbow and party till the early hours, then you’re better off heading to Curaçao.
Guadeloupe is geared towards LGBTQ+ travelers who want to chill. If this is your gig, then you’ll love the island’s gay friendly, clothing-optional beaches – Anse Tarare in Saint Francois and Plage Gay Naturiste de Sainte Rose.
Gay events in Guadeloupe
It’s very unusual for a city or country without a gay scene to have a Pride festival, and Guadeloupe, unfortunately, doesn’t buck that particular trend. However, like many of our other favorite gay-friendly Caribbean islands, Guadeloupe doesn’t disappoint when it comes to its annual carnival. Taking place over two whole months between January and March, the Guadeloupe Carnival promises “color, music, happiness, and laughter”.
Travel highlights
Guadeloupe may not have much in the way of gay nightlife, but it’s the perfect travel destination for LGBTQ+ travelers who prefer their adventures away from the nightlife scene. Guadeloupe National Park is a sprawling nature reserve packed with local flora and fauna, several native bird species, and fabulous hiking trails, including a two-hour climb up the La Soufriere volcano that promises some spectacular views once you reach the top.
There’s also the Blue Lagoon Tour, a guided boat tour that includes visits to the teeny-tiny gorgeous island of Ilet Caret, the Grand Cul-de-Sac Marin Natural Reserve, and the Moustique River.

Best gay hotel in Guadeloupe
Of all the options available to LGBTQ+ travelers, our favorite is the male-only guesthouse, Les Jardins de Zephyr in Basse-Terre. You’re welcome at the Zephyr with a fabulous evening buffet on the night of your arrival, where the adorable owners, Sylvain and Christophe, will fill you in on all the best places to visit on your trip.
7. Bermuda – best for a romantic island escape
Bermuda is one of the more unusual destinations on our list. Although it’s located in the North Atlantic rather than the Caribbean Sea, it’s often included in Caribbean-style island vacations. Its relationship with LGBTQ+ rights has been complicated, particularly when it comes to marriage equality, but the island also has an active LGBTQ+ community and its own Pride celebrations.

Gay Bermuda in a nutshell
- Population: 75,000
- Gay marriage: Not currently available for new marriages; domestic partnerships are legally recognised
- Gay scene highlights: no gay scene
- Gay beach: between Chaplin Bay and Horseshoe Beach
- Best gay events: Bermuda Pride
How safe is Bermuda for gay travelers?
Bermuda has had a complicated relationship with marriage equality. Same-sex couples were able to marry following court rulings, but in March 2022 the UK’s Privy Council upheld the constitutionality of Bermuda’s Domestic Partnership Act, which provides for domestic partnerships rather than new same-sex marriages.
That doesn’t mean gay couples are prohibited from visiting or that LGBTQ+ relationships are illegal. Bermuda has an active LGBTQ+ community, hosts Pride celebrations, and remains a destination that gay travelers can, and should, consider.
The gay scene of Bermuda
There are no official gay bars in Bermuda. The Little Venice Restaurant is a gorgeous Italian restaurant with some of the best food we’ve ever tasted and a positive reputation with the LGBTQ+ community.
There is a gay beach area situated between Chaplin Bay and Horseshoe Beach, near the parishes of Southampton and Warwick. While it’s a great place to meet other gay travelers and locals, cruising is a big no-no as police regularly patrol the area, particularly in the summer months.
Gay events in Bermuda
In August 2019, Bermuda had its very first Pride festival, attracting around 6,000 people – that’s almost 10% of the island’s entire population!
Bermuda Pride has since grown to become one of the island’s established annual festivals, usually taking place over 3 days in June/July.
Travel highlights
If you prefer your vacay with a side-helping of history, you won’t want to miss a trip to St George on the island’s east end. It is home to Tobacco Bay Beach and more museums than you can shake a stick at, including the St George Historical Society Museum and the Bermudian Heritage Museum. We also recommend checking out the National Museum of Bermuda in Sandy’s Parish.
We love an aquarium, and Bermuda has a fabulous one situated in Flatts Village on the North Shore. The Bermuda Aquarium, Museum & Zoo is home to hundreds of species of fish, coral, birds, reptiles, and mammals from all over the world. The aquarium also runs whale-watching boat cruises in the spring, where you can spot Bermuda humpback whales as they migrate north.

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8. Cuba – best for culture and nightlife
Cuba is located in the northern Caribbean Sea, south of Florida and the Bahamas. It’s the second-most populated island on our rundown, with over 11 million residents. Despite having an authoritarian government, it is quite progressive when it comes to LGBTQ+ legislation, thanks to the efforts of Raul Castro’s daughter, Mariela Castro, who is one of the leading LGBTQ+ activists in Cuba. It’s a major step forward, even if the country’s LGBTQ+ rights journey is far from finished.
In September 2022, Cuban voters approved a new Family Code legalizing same-sex marriage and adoption, with around two-thirds of valid votes supporting the reform.

Gay Cuba in a nutshell
- Population: 11.3 million
- Gay marriage legalized: 2022
- Gay scene highlights: Bar XY and Cabaret Las Vegas
- Gay beach: Mi Cayito
- Best gay hotel: Casa Particular Jorge Silvio
How safe is Cuba for gay travelers?
Cuba took a major step forward for LGBTQ+ rights in September 2022, when voters approved a new Family Code that legalised same-sex marriage and adoption by same-sex couples.
It’s a significant change from the country’s history of discrimination against LGBTQ+ people, although legal progress doesn’t mean that prejudice or restrictions on civil liberties have disappeared.
We loved traveling around Cuba, and its culture, music, and beaches left a lasting impression on us. But we’d separate our personal experiences as tourists from the challenges LGBTQ+ Cubans may still face. We recommend checking the latest travel advice before visiting and being mindful that public attitudes can vary considerably.
The gay scene in Cuba
Considering Cuba’s chequered past towards LGBTQ+ people, there is a vibrant queer community here. Malecon, located on the coast of Havana, Cuba’s capital city, is where the Havana boys hang out in the evening.
In terms of gay hangouts, check out Bar XY. Fridays and Saturday nights pop off in spectacular fashion with fabulous cocktails and hilarious comedy drag shows. For a world-class cabaret with a Cuban twist, head to Cabaret Las Vegas. Just be wary of the dress code – men, leave your open-toed shoes at home!
There is a gay beach called Mi Cayito on the Playas de Este, which is a 30-minute taxi ride away from Havana.
Gay events in Cuba
Pride marches have been held in Cuba every May for many years to coincide with the International Day Against Homophobia. However, in 2019, the organizers were forced to cancel the parade at short notice.
The official reason: the Cuban government does not allow independent, grassroots civil society organizations or unsanctioned public protests. Any public gathering not approved and led by state-run entities (such as CENESEX, the National Centre for Sex Education) is considered illegal.
Nevertheless, each year, the LGBTQ+ community continues to show up in a tremendous display of strength, resilience, and, above all, Pride!
Travel highlights
If you fancy breaking up all the food, drink, dancing, and debauchery with a little history and culture, Havana is full of stunning architecture and several interesting tourist attractions.
The Malecon waterfront is a lovely place for a stroll in the sun, while the Museo de la Revolución is packed with photos and artifacts from the era of the Cuban Revolution. History fans won’t want to miss a trip to the colonial city of Habana Vieja, which is also the location of the stunning Plaza de la Catedral.

Best gay hotel in Cuba
Our favorite gay place to stay in Cuba is the Casa Particular Gayfriendly Casa Jorge Silvio in Centro Havana. It is kitsch, quintessentially Cuban, and best of all, within walking distance of the Malecon, the old town, and La Plaza de Carlos III shopping center.
9. Saint Barts – best for luxury
The trés chic Saint Barthelemy (or Saint Barts, as it’s more commonly known) is like Christmas in Disneyland for the LGBTQ+ community. This teeny-tiny island is another overseas collectivity of France, super-popular with celebs and very welcoming to gay tourists. What teeny-tiny St Barts lacks in terms of gay parties, it sure makes up for in terms of gay beaches and hotels.
Gay Saint Barts in a nutshell
- Population: 10,000
- Gay marriage legalized: 2013 (France)
- Gay scene highlights: no gay scene
- Gay beach: Saline Beach
- Best gay events: none
- Best gay hotel: Villa BelAmour
How safe is Saint Barts for gay travelers?
Saint Barts is part of the French Caribbean, so same-sex marriage has been legal here since 2013, and French anti-discrimination protections apply. It’s an attractive option for gay couples who want a luxurious Caribbean escape, particularly if your idea of a perfect holiday involves gorgeous beaches, romantic restaurants and beautiful villas rather than gay clubs.
We’d still avoid assuming that discrimination never happens. The island has a relatively small LGBTQ+ scene, and the legal protections don’t guarantee every interaction will be positive. But for a romantic getaway, Saint Barts is certainly one of the Caribbean destinations we recommend.
The gay scene of Saint Barts
Saint Barts does not have a dedicated gay nightlife scene, but that doesn’t stop it from appealing to LGBTQ+ couples looking for a more relaxed, luxurious holiday. However, if you’re looking to party, you’re better off heading to somewhere like Curaçao.
In terms of gay beaches, check out Saline. The far left and right sections are the most popular areas with the gay community, and it’s clothing optional, so you’re sure to see lots of sights!
Gay events in Saint Barts
Despite being exceedingly gay in every way, shape, and form, Saint Barts doesn’t currently run any gay events or have a Pride festival.
Travel highlights
The top attractions of St Bart’s include the capital city of Gustavia, packed with museums, art galleries, fabulous French restaurants, and some of the best places to shop in St Bart’s. Fort Gustave is a great place to take in some of the island’s history and culture.
Saint Jean is like a mini-Gustavia, located in the center of the island. Saint Barts knows how to do shopping and dining like no other, and Saint-Jean is no exception. Saint Jean’s Bay Beach is beyond stunning and offers opportunities to partake in water sports like surfing and snorkeling.

Best gay hotel in Saint Barts
Villa BelAmour is owned by Thibault, a cute gay local guy (see video above). It is the absolute lap of luxury…and the best part? It’s all yours! It’s ideal for couples, with a comfy lounge, decked-out kitchen, and even an office for those who might need to check in with work now and again. And did we mention that gorgeous oblong-shaped pool…?!
10. Aruba – best for a gay honeymoon
Aruba is a constituent country of the Netherlands, part of the Dutch Caribbean. It made the news in July 2024 when it legalized gay marriage, making it a top destination for gay honeymoons.

Gay Aruba in a nutshell
- Population: 110,000
- Gay marriage legalized: 2024
- Gay scene highlights: Cage Night Club
- Gay beach: Eagle Beach (mixed)
- Best gay events: Aruba Pride in June
- Best gay hotel: Bucuti & Tara Beach Resort
How safe is Aruba for gay travelers?
Aruba reached an important milestone for LGBTQ+ equality in July 2024, when the Dutch Supreme Court confirmed that same-sex couples must be allowed to marry on the island.
The ruling brought marriage equality to Aruba and was a major victory for local LGBTQ+ campaigners. Aruba is a constituent country of the Kingdom of the Netherlands, but it has its own legal system, so it shouldn’t be assumed that every Dutch law automatically applies here.
For gay travelers, Aruba is particularly appealing for its beaches, resorts and year-round sunshine. There isn’t a huge dedicated gay nightlife scene, but that doesn’t stop it from being a great option for couples looking for a relaxing Caribbean holiday. As elsewhere, we’d still research accommodation and be mindful of local attitudes.
The gay scene of Aruba
Aruba doesn’t have a huge gay nightlife scene, but there are places to go if you fancy a night out. Cage Night Club has drag shows and themed parties. The Palm Beach area and Oranjestad also have plenty of mixed, LGBTQ+ friendly bars and lounges.
Gay events in Aruba
Aruba celebrates Pride every June. Also look out for rainbow decorations like the “Love is Love” display at the Eagle Beach turtle roundabout during Pride Month.
Travel highlights
There are plenty of things to do in Aruba. We’ve already touched on Oranjestad as the best gay hangout, but it’s also a fabulous place to visit in the daytime. The brightly colored buildings pop in the daylight. The town is always buzzing with activity, and it’s stacked with tourist attractions, including museums and art galleries, as well as restaurants and shops.
On the Oranjestad waterfront, you’ll find Wilhelmina Park, which is packed with horticultural delights and is perfect for a picnic. For the ultimate retail experience, head to the Renaissance Shopping Mall, home to Cartier, Chanel, and Gucci, among others.

Best gay friendly resort in Aruba
We love the Adults-Only Bucuti & Tara Beach Resort in Oranjestad. We rate it as one of the most gay friendly Caribbean resorts. It is an adults-only paradise that opens out to the gay friendly Eagle Beach. Bucuti is also very gay friendly. It is not only a proud member of IGLTA, but it is also TAG-approved for its service, employment policies, and support of the LGBTQ+ community.
Bonus mentions
Saba
Saba is a municipality in the Netherlands and is very accepting of the queer community. Gay marriage was legalized in 2012, making it a top destination for gay weddings. There isn’t much of a scene to speak of, but the Tropics Café is gay-owned and popular with the LGBTQ+ community. The Saba Carnival, which takes place in February, also packs plenty of gay energy. Queen’s Garden Resort is one of the most famous gay-friendly resorts on the island and in the Caribbean.
Bonaire
Like Saba, Bonaire is part of the Caribbean Netherlands, where same-sex marriage has been legal since 2012. Both islands benefit from Dutch LGBTQ+ equality legislation, although the local gay scenes and experiences of LGBTQ+ visitors aren’t necessarily identical. There is not much in the way of gay goings-on in Bonaire, but there is a gay area of Sorobon Beach that is worth checking out. In terms of gay hotels in Bonaire, check out the Harbour Village Beach Club Hotel, which is pure luxury and also benefits from having obtained Booking.com’s #TravelProud certification.
Which Caribbean islands are less gay friendly?
While many Caribbean islands have made important progress on LGBTQ+ rights, there are still destinations where gay travelers should exercise greater caution.
Jamaica, Grenada, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, and Trinidad & Tobago are among the Caribbean countries that retain laws criminalizing consensual same-sex intimacy. Although enforcement varies, these laws can contribute to discrimination and stigma.
There has also been encouraging progress. Antigua and Barbuda, Saint Kitts and Nevis, and Barbados struck down discriminatory criminal laws in 2022, followed by Dominica in 2024 and Saint Lucia in 2025.
However, decriminalization doesn’t automatically mean marriage equality, comprehensive anti-discrimination protection or widespread social acceptance. We recommend researching the current legal position and local attitudes before choosing your destination.
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Josh
Tuesday 10th of September 2024
Great article! I would tend to agree with your take on gay friendly and homophobic destinations in the Caribbean.
Stefan Arestis
Tuesday 10th of September 2024
Thanks Josh!
Chris
Friday 12th of April 2024
Just to note that Barbados has now decriminalised gay sex / same sex relationships (December 2022)
Stefan Arestis
Sunday 14th of April 2024
Thanks Chris! Great news - and have updated the article.
Nick
Monday 19th of June 2023
I have been to the Dominic Republic and it's extremely gay-friendly. There is even a gay-only B&B in Santo Domingo, a very big and nice gay sauna, there are several stylish gay bars and a gay disco. Some gay bars are more sleezy and for hookers. They have an annual price parade at which I participated. There is even a cinema where they show old non-interesting movies, but people go there because of the openly gay sexual action on the seats, in front of the screen, in the corridors. There are nudist gay-friendly beaches, one has a very big nudist resort on it and is welcoming gay couples.
Stefan Arestis
Sunday 25th of June 2023
Thanks for this Nick! That's great to hear :)
Sławek Starosta
Friday 1st of January 2021
They're actually all safe. Spent few months on St Vincent and Dominica. No problems whatsoever. There are even LGBT friendly establishments like Cat5 restaurant in Roseau, Dominica that seems to be quite popular among local lesbians.
Stefan Arestis
Friday 1st of January 2021
Great to know. However, there are some places we would exercise more caution over PDAs compared to others!