Top 5 gay massage in Bangkok: Relax and Rejuvenate!

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For me, nothing beats a good, strong massage, working out those tight knots in the back/calves caused by weightlifting. It's also the perfect antidote to a loooong pink eye flight. And yes, it doesn't hurt when the occasional wink wink nudge nudge happens at the end…

Thai massages are world-famous for good reason. The art of Thai massage originated in Bangkok – we even spotted a few ancient plaques depicting the techniques on the walls of the temple Wat Pho. Bangkok is one of the best places to head for an inexpensive good massage.

Straight or gay, every massage I've had in the city has been thorough and left me feeling completely rejuvenated. The city is home to many massage parlours. In all honesty, most will be brilliant and inexpensive. However, some are targeted towards our community 🙂 Most of which are located in and around the gay scene of Bangkok in Silom. The bulk of them can be found along Silom Soi 6, a road that feels like it's dedicated to gay massage in Bangkok!

Always dedicated to the good cause, we've scoured them all and put together our favorite gay massage parlors and spas in Bangkok in 2025 for a good, er, rubdown…

How much does a gay massage in Bangkok cost in 2025?

The price depends on where you decide to go, but usually, the going rate in Bangkok for a gay massage is around 300 baht ($10) for an hour in most places. Most treatments are 60, 90, or 120 minutes long.

Thai massages are the most popular and intense, which is why I love them. You can also have Foot massages, Body Scrubs, or massages with oils, aromas, or both. Obviously, the more involved or longer the massage, the higher the cost.

To give you an idea, check out the full Menu a la Carte that I snapped at The Prime Massage (image below). I'd say these prices are pretty representative for most of the massages on offer on Silom Soi 6:

Gay massage tipping etiquette

We always encourage tipping, particularly in the service industry, and especially if it's for LGBTQ+ locals.

In the masseur world, tipping is customary and expected (note the Menu image above even makes reference to this at the bottom).

How much you tip comes down to how you feel about it. As a ballpark, 100 baht ($3) is the minimum expected. For example, when paying for my 60-minute Thai massage at The Prime Massage, I was told by the receptionist beforehand that I was to budget for at least 100 baht as a tip.

Our take on it is that if you can afford to, be generous! These guys don't get paid much and make their living from tips, so if you can, we'd say up the 100 bahts minimum by a few hundred. It really won't break the bank!

But ultimately, it's a private decision for you to make.

If you're offered a generous “ending” to your message, then it goes without saying that you should definitely up the standard 100 baht tip to around 1,000-2,000. In this scenario, your masseur will tell you the price he expects before he does anything to you, so just be guided by that.

What's the T with Happy Endings?

You've all heard about it – some are horrified by the idea, and for others, it's the sole reason for planning their gay trip to Thailand… We say live and let live. Nothing beats a good deep massage of the muscles, especially if, like us, you hit the gym a lot. Your body needs it!

If it's a good, clean, wholesome massage you want, we recommend The Prime Massage. It's super professional, the facilities are immaculate, and there is no skin-to-skin touching. When I went, I was required to wear massage pajamas – strictly no nudity, and no skin-to-skin touching! You're also given the choice of a male or female masseur/masseuse.

If, however, you're looking for something a little more intimate, then any of the other ones in this list will be your friend. In most cases, you'll be prompted to select your masseur (they're all male!) from the lineup outside along Silom Soi 6. At the end of the massage, they will be guided by your body language as to how far you want to go(!), but the key thing is they are always professional and won't push you to do anything you're not comfortable with.

The different types of massage available in Bangkok

Lots of different words are thrown about to describe the various forms of massage available, so I've put together this succinct summary:

• Thai Traditional Massage: The Thai traditional massage is influenced by both Ayurvedic and traditional Chinese medicine. If you like it hard (the massage that is!), then I recommend this one. Gay masseurs use their entire bodies to reduce the tension in your muscles, to “click” bones into place, and ease out any knots.
• Aromatherapy Massage: a more chilled massage technique where your gay Masseur uses a blend of essential oils such as lavender, Eucalyptus, Bergamot, and more on your body… The aim is to relax your body and manage areas with pain. It also improves mood.
• Oil Massage: refers to any type of massage (usually Thai Traditional) but with the addition of oils such as Almond, jojoba, or grapeseed oil, which your masseur will ask you to choose beforehand. If you're looking for a gay massage with a happy ending, let's just say that adding oil to the mix will be conducive to making it all slide more easily!
• Sports Massage: This one's my favorite. Similar to Thai Traditional Massage, a sports massage is more focused on targeting the muscle groups and soft tissues used in sports. It includes a combination of assisted stretching and massage techniques.
• Thai Herbal Ball Massage: A warm herbal ball is rolled, dabbed, and moved in a rocking motion across your body to relieve aches and pains. It was first used by Buddhist monks during the 14th century in Thailand to treat injured soldiers returning from battle. It is considered a treatment in Thai Traditional medicine.
• Swedish Massage: often considered the “classic massage” that is softer than the Thai Traditional or Sports massage. The Swedish Massage is an all-body massage that involves kneading, long strokes, deep circular movements, and passive joint movements. The aim is to relax you, stimulate nerve endings, and increase blood flow and lymph drainage
• Thai Foot Massage: Seby's favorite, which he always gets when we're in Bangkok. Also referred to as “Thai Reflexology”, it is much more than just a soothing foot rub! This is a centuries-old therapy where masseurs use their hands, knuckles, and even sticks to apply pressure that you'll feel across your entire body.

1. The Prime Massage

Prime is the most professional of all the gay massages in Bangkok we found. It's located at the end of Silom Soi 6. You can tell it's on a different level from all the other massage parlors because you have to book your time slot beforehand.

No hanky panky here. You select if you want a masseur or masseuse beforehand and then are taken to a private area to shower, change, and put on a set of massage pajamas they give you – no skin-to-skin touching here, that's how serious these guys are.

We love Prime because the massages are brilliant. If you want them to go hard, they will: they put their entire body into the massage, and Oh Em G, you will feel it! You can ask them to go softer if, like Seby, you don't like it too hard. But for me, I love to feel the muscles being kneaded thoroughly and the bones cracking into place!

My favorite memory of Prime Massage is the lemongrass scent that welcomes you as you step foot inside. The staff are just lovely – lots of smiles and super friendly.

Prime Massage is one of the most popular gay massages in Bangkok, so it can get pretty busy. For this reason, I recommend visiting on a weekday when it's not as hectic.

• Address: The Prime massage is located at 128, 23 Si Lom 6, Suriya Wong, Bang Rak. It is in the heart of the gay scene, a 5 minutes walk from Sala Daeng station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours 2023: Prime Massage is open from 11 am until midnight every day.
• Minimum tip: 100 Bahts.
• Reservation enquiries: Call +66 2 634 2078 to book your massage.

2. The Green Massage

Another gay massage parlor we love down Silom Soi 6 is The Green Massage (its actual location is on Surawong Road, around the corner from Silom Soi 6). This is just around the corner from the Prime, so you could easily sample them both and then choose your own personal favorite gay massage like we did 🙂 Let us know which of the two you prefer in the comments below.

Located on Silom Soi 6, the Green Massage itself is small and unassuming, but outside, its group of cute masseurs stand proud with big, bright, warm smiles, enticing you inside. They made me feel like a Princess entering her palace!

They have private rooms for a full-body massage experience (extras included, of course!). Alternatively, you can enjoy the social atmosphere while having a foot/leg massage on one of the comfy couches. Along with aroma or oil massages they also offer invigorating body scrubs to keep your skin looking fresh. For the full works, I recommend combining treatments so you can leave feeling like a Goddess…

• Address: The Green Massage is located at 119 Surawong Road, Silom Soi 6 next to Tartawan Place. The closest BRT station is Sala Daeng station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours 2023: The Green Massage is open daily from 10am until 1am.
• Minimum tip: No Minimum tip required, but use your common sense and be generous, please!
• Reservation enquiries: Call +66 2 634 0319.

3. The Paradise Massage & Spa

Paradise is one of the better gay massages in Silom Soi 6. Like the Green Massage, it's got an unassuming shop front with a group of cute massage lads standing outside enticing you inside with their charismatic smiles.

This is a massage and spa business, so along with relaxing massages, they also offer treatments like an aroma spa or a body scrub. Everything here screams eleganza – with marble floors, towel-shaped swans, and a private Jacuzzi if you book the VIP deluxe room.

While classy is the name of the game, fear not…the pretty masseurs are only too happy to accommodate extras for a tip!

• Address: The Paradise Massage is located at Silom Soi 6. It is close to the gay scene, a 5-minute walk from Sala Daeng station on the Silom line.
• Opening hours 2023: The Paradise Massage & Spa is open from 10 am until 1 am every day.
• Minimum tip: 100 Bahts.
• Reservation enquiries: Email [email protected] or call +66 96 938 6838.

4. The Adam Massage

Adam Massage is more about the Happy Ending than it is about the massage. It is located in the heart of Silom Soi 4 where Bangkok's gay bars can be found. Don't worry about seeing any Eves here as it's purely for gay men to enjoy…

There are five different massage styles available, not too dissimilar to the massage descriptions I wrote about toward the start of this article. Bonus, the male masseurs are all very easy on the eyes…their sweet, welcoming smiles are the cherry on the cake 🙂

I found Adam Massage to be spotlessly clean, with decent facilities. I also loved the scent of essential oils that follow you as you weave your way inside. The decor is also alluring – lots of plants, flowers, candles, and cute water features.

Around halfway into your massage, your masseur will propose a variety of different Happy Endings(!) and give you a price (usually in the region of around 1,000 to 2,000 bahts). What you select is entirely up to you and the chemistry between you and the masseur.

• Address: The Adam Massage is located at 114 16 Si Lom, Suriya Wong, Bang Rak, a few minutes walk from Sala Daeng station on the Silom MRT line.
• Opening hours 2023: The Adam Massage is open from 11 am to 11 pm every day.
• Minimum tip: 500 Bahts.
• Reservation enquiries: Call +66 91 009 2666.

5. The 9-Teen Massage

They'll see you before you see them! As you walk up the main street of Silom heading to Balcony, you'll likely pass the 9-Teen Boys gay massage parlor. It's smartly located just around the corner from Silom Soi 6, making it the first of all the gay massage parlors you'll encounter.

Inside, it's spacious, spread out over multiple floors with plenty of private, clean massage rooms. I had their oil massage after being told it would help ease a sore back muscle ache. I recommend this, but just be warned, it's a bit of a pain to remove, so maybe avoid if you're heading out to the gay bars of Silom Soi 4 afterward.

We've only had positive experiences at 9-Teen. The guys are super friendly, most of them are gay, and all very sweet. They are also super professional but amenable to a glorious ending(!)…

• Address: The 9-Teen Silom 8 Massage is located at 134 3 SiLom, a short walk from Sala Daeng station on the Silom MRT line and close to the gay scene of Silom Soi 4.
• Opening hours 2023: The 9-Teen Massage is open from 10 am to midnight every day.
• Minimum tip: No Minimum tip required, but please be generous, especially when other services are offered!
• Reservation enquiries: Call +66 62 895 6696.

Where to get an STI and HIV test & treatment in Bangkok?

PULSE Clinic! That's where you need to head. This is a fantastic clinic owned and run by the LGBTQ community of Bangkok who do a fantastic job. They offer a thorough ‘PCR28' where they test for 28 STIs…yes 28! We love their tongue-in-cheek decor, from the ‘Check All Holes In One Go' to the impressive phallic artwork that adorns the walls!

Prices for the thorough PCR28 at PULSE is 6,700 Bahts ($190). We highly recommend it simply because back home our local clinic just covers the standard 4; with their PCR28 you'll certainly learn a thing or two!

PULSE also offers PrEP, PEP, and advice about DoxyPEP: a single 200mg dose of doxycycline taken within 72 hours after barebacking reduces the chance of getting chlamydia and syphilis infections, and to a lesser extent, gonorrhea.

PULSE is located right in front of GOD Club in Silom, right by the Sala Daeng BTS station. They also have centers in other areas of the city including Nana, Asoke, and Phromphong.

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