Explore the best of Brussels with our ultimate gay guide! From epic parties like La Demence to the vibrant queer scene and top gay bars in Brussels, discover where to drink, dance, and indulge in this fabulous European capital.
Did someone say beer, chocolate, and boys?
Welcome to Brussels, where the waffles are sweet, the parties are wild, and the vibes are as gay as a rainbow-tinted Smurf parade.
After ringing in the New Year at the legendary La Demence party (still sweating, thanks for asking), we decided to explore this quirky European capital and were not disappointed.
From the jaw-dropping Grand Place to the city’s booming queer scene, Brussels is packed with surprises – and plenty of reasons to keep coming back.
Whether you’re here for the nightlife, the art, or just an excuse to stuff your face with fries (we won’t judge), there’s something here for every fabulous traveler.
Ready to join the fun? Let’s dive in!
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1. Gay hotels in Brussels
When it comes to finding gay-friendly hotels in Brussels, you’re spoilt for choice. This city knows how to roll out the rainbow carpet with accommodations that are as welcoming as they are fabulous. Whether you’re looking for luxury, charm, or just a comfy bed to crash in after La Demence, Brussels has you covered.
A big shoutout to Booking.com’s #TravelProud campaign, which highlights properties that go the extra mile to welcome LGBTQ+ travelers. These hotels aren’t just queer-friendly, they’re queer-celebratory, with staff trained to ensure every guest feels like the Beyoncé of their own vacation. It's the kind of energy we live for: inclusive, thoughtful, and utterly fabulous.
For our trip, we stayed at the Brussels Marriott Hotel Grand Place, a certified #TravelProud gem. Not only is it ridiculously central, but it also nails that sweet spot between sleek and cozy. The staff? Absolute angels. And the beds? So comfy we almost skipped breakfast. Almost.
Other stellar #TravelProud hotels include Hotel Fleur de Ville, a boutique haven with elegant vibes and a location that’s dangerously close to all the good shopping (our wallets are still recovering). Then there’s the Pillows City Hotel, perfect for travelers who like their digs modern, chic, and conveniently near the train station.
2. Consider staying with a gay host
Why stay with a gay host? Because no one is better equipped to unlock the true spirit of a city than someone who actually lives, and thrives, there.
Staying with a gay host is like getting a VIP pass to the queer underground: they’ll know which bars are worth your euros, where to find the best post-club fries, and exactly what time to show up for drag bingo without looking like a total tourist.
There’s also something refreshingly personal about staying in a space where you can swap stories about disastrous dates and compare skincare routines over breakfast.
Plus, gay hosts have a knack for creating homes with immaculate vibes—think killer playlists, an encyclopaedic knowledge of pop culture, and just the right amount of sass to keep you on your toes.
It’s not just a place to crash—it’s an experience. One that comes with fewer judgmental looks and more tips on surviving Brussels nightlife.
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3. Is Brussels safe for gay travelers?
Brussels is one of Europe’s most LGBTQ+-friendly capitals, where love is love, and everyone’s too busy eating waffles or debating the best beer to care about who you’re holding hands with. Belgium has progressive LGBTQ laws and we certainly rank it as one of the most gay friendly countries in the world.
Fun fact: Belgium was the second country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage back in 2003.
Walking through the Grand Place or exploring the artsy Marolles district, we felt totally at ease being our fabulous, hand-holding selves. The locals are friendly and chill (though maybe slightly less chill when you skip your turn in line at the fry shop).
Of course, no city is completely immune to the occasional grump or odd look, so the usual traveler common sense applies: stay aware of your surroundings, especially late at night. But honestly? Brussels feels like a warm hug wrapped in a rainbow flag. So, pack your sassiest outfits and get ready to explore—this city’s got your back!
4. Where is the gay area of Brussels?
Brussels’ queer scene is centered in the Saint-Jacques district, just a stiletto throw from the iconic Grand Place.
The heart of it all? Rue du Marché au Charbon, where bars, cafés, and drag-friendly venues keep the vibes buzzing every night of the week. Whether you’re into karaoke, drag shows, or just sipping cocktails while people-watching, this street has it all.
For first-timers, we’d recommend starting at Stacion BXL or Le Dolores to soak up the atmosphere and find out what's happening later. If there are no parties happening, most head to the cruising Stammbar which is open till late. Or if you’re in the mood for something more steamy, the Macho Sauna down the road's got your back!
Basically, if you don’t end up tipsy, sweaty, or lost in a conversation about Belgian beer with a stranger in leather, you’re doing it wrong.
5. What are the best gay bars in Brussels?
Brussels’ gay bars are where the city truly comes alive. Think big vibes, strong drinks, and enough glitter to outshine the Grand Place. Most of the action happens along Rue du Marché au Charbon in the central Saint-Jacques district. The majority of the gay bars can be found here or a short walk away.
We kicked off at Le Dolores, a cozy little gem that’s perfect for warming up with drinks and some good gossip. Across the road is Stacion BXL, which quickly became one of our favorites for its fun, friendly vibe and a crowd that knows how to party.
Karaoke queens? You’ve got to hit up The Agenda or Amalgame, where you can belt out a tune and no one will judge.
If you’re into bears, Le Baroque is the go-to, while Le Belgica is a classic for cheap drinks and a buzzing atmosphere. Of course, we couldn’t skip La Réserve, Brussels’ oldest gay bar, with its delightfully nostalgic charm and those iconic blacked-out windows. Also look out for L’Homo Erectus Bar, which is run by the gay shop next door aptly called, Spit It Out.
6. Where can I watch a drag show in Brussels?
If there’s one thing Brussels knows how to serve (aside from fries and beer), it’s drag realness. We had an absolute blast at three of the city’s best spots for a night of glitter, wigs, and fierce lip syncs.
Chez Maman is the undisputed queen of Brussels’ drag scene. And trust us, she’s got the crown to prove it. This is the iconic home of the House of Maman, an intimate little bar dripping with old-school glamour and packed with big personalities. The queens here don’t just perform, they own the stage, leaving you cheering. The queens that get the loudest cheers are asked to repeat their number. And that staircase? It’s not just a staircase – it’s a catwalk of epic entrances. Every single one is pure drama in the best possible way!
The Potiche Cabaret Bar completely stole our hearts. The local queens here are pure magic, serving charm, wit, and just the right amount of shade to keep us laughing. The performances were so good we couldn’t look away…seriously, one lip-sync had us on our feet, screaming like it was a Eurovision final.
Cabaret Mademoiselle serves up drag, burlesque, and comedy so sharp it could cut glass. And don’t even get us started on the costumes (seriously, we’re still gagging!). It’s like stepping into a queer fever dream where the sequins never end, and the sass is off the charts.
7. What are the best gay clubs and parties in Brussels?
Brussels knows how to throw a party, and we’re not just talking about Eurovision watch nights. The city’s gay club scene is legendary thanks to La Demence, the mother of all gay parties. Held monthly, this multi-level extravaganza is a rite of passage for any queer traveler. And if you’re lucky enough to hit their gigantic Halloween edition? Bring your A-game, because it’s a full-on spectacle with around 10,000 gays attending!
The other big annual party to check out is Darklands in Antwerp (around 40 minutes away by train) every February/March. Darklands is like Comic-Con, but for leather, f3tish, and freedom to be your boldest self. Let’s just say… you’ll see things here…amazing things!
Another big monthly gay party to look out for in Brussels is Bad Habits. Check their Instagram for details of the next event – the most famous to look out for is their H.I.M. nights.
If you’re into electronic music, CAVE is an underground dream that’ll leave you sweaty and satisfied(!) It’s a mixed club but attracts a large queer contingent cause we love a rave, don’t we?
Sunday isn’t for resting…it’s for the FLASH Club party, a perfect end to the weekend. Every week they have a different theme ranging from Unicorn to Kinky.
Gay Haze is another one to look out for, popping up at various locations every other month or so.
8. What are the best gay saunas and cruising spaces in Brussels?
Brussels knows how to keep things steamy…and we’re not just talking about the sauna temperatures. After a night of bar-hopping, Seby and I decided to dive into the city’s cruising scene (all in the name of research, of course).
Top of the list is Macho Sauna, conveniently located near Rue du Marché au Charbon. It’s the largest gay sauna in Belgium and feels like a labyrinth of steam rooms, friendly faces, and endless possibilities.
For a more relaxed (or daddy-centric) vibe, Oasis Sauna offers a quieter option for those who like their adventures a bit more seasoned.
Stammbar is the main gay cruising bar/club in Brussels. It’s infamous for its slings, cages, and darkroom. But also, a popular hangout when the other gay bars close thanks to its late opening hours.
9. Are there any gay shops in Brussels?
No trip is complete without a little retail therapy, and Brussels has a fabulous selection of gay-friendly shops to explore. Seby and I did the rounds (purely for research, of course) and found something for everyone – from leather lovers to pop culture queens.
First up, BorisBoy, the f3tish store where you’ll find enough leather and latex to outfit a Eurovision halftime show. Then there’s Spit It Out, another f3tish favorite with gear that could make even Fifty Shades of Grey blush. Meanwhile, Be Color is all about rainbow vibes and fabulous accessories.
Extra-ordinaire and Lady Paname are quirky little spots brimming with charm. And don’t miss 2BE Brussels, because honestly, who doesn’t need a cheeky souvenir or a bold statement piece?
10. What are the best gay hairdressers in Brussels?
Because, darling, you can’t sashay around Brussels with a tragic haircut. Seby and I scoped out the city’s top gay hairdressers to ensure your locks are as sharp as your comebacks.
First up, BXL Hair—the place to go when your hair needs a glow-up faster than you can say “bad root day.” Then there’s Eaucontreair, where the stylists are so talented you’ll want to invite them to brunch just to keep the magic going.
For those craving a chic, modern look, Vega is your go-to—it’s where sleek meets sassy, and the results scream, ‘I woke up like this’. And if you’re rocking facial hair or just want a killer fade, Les Hommes Barber Shop will have you looking like the cover model for Beard Goals Monthly.
11. When is gay Pride in Brussels?
Brussels celebrates Pride on 17 May – the day of IDAHOBIT (International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia).
It’s truly an iconic event because in October 2024, the Brussels-Capital Region added Brussels Pride to its intangible cultural heritage list (along with the Ommegang Brewery, chips and comic strips). As a result, Brussels Pride became only the second Pride in the world (after Amsterdam) to benefit from such institutional recognition.
Brussels Pride is a wild celebration of love, diversity, and glitter. The parade winds through the heart of Brussels, with floats, drag queens, and enough feather boas to make a Vegas showgirl jealous. The afterparties? Absolutely bonkers. Every bar, club, and street corner becomes a stage. Be sure to follow the Brussels Pride Instagram for the latest info as well as the excellent LGBTQIA association, Rainbow House Brussels.
12. Any queer cafes and restaurants in Brussels?
If there’s one thing Seby and I take seriously (besides our cocktail game), it’s food. Brussels’ gay-friendly cafés and restaurants serve fabulous bites, and we’ve sampled enough to call ourselves experts.
Drache is a cozy café famous for its matcha and perfect for people-watching. We popped in for a quick latte and stayed for the vibe…it’s impossible to leave without snapping an Instagram story.
Café Charbon stole our hearts with its chill lounge setup and sunny terrace where you can sip coffee while judging people’s outfits (don’t pretend you don’t do it too).
For a taste of classic Belgian cuisine, Le Petit Palais is the spot. Think hearty dishes served with a side of charm. Meanwhile, Le Kaffabar is where we discovered that coffee can be art. And the pastries? Don’t get us started!
Finally, Winehouse Osteria is a little slice of Italian heaven, perfect for wine lovers (and yes, we stayed longer than we planned).
13. What are the main tourist highlights of Brussels?
Brussels is a city that effortlessly blends history, culture, and a touch of whimsy. Here are some must-see spots that Seby and I absolutely adored. To make the most of your visit, we recommend this Brussels guided walking tour. It’s inexpensive and we found it to be a fantastic way to learn more about these sites and uncover hidden gems in the city.
- Grand Place (Grote Markt): The crown jewel of Brussels, this UNESCO World Heritage site is surrounded by opulent guildhalls and the majestic Town Hall. We felt like royalty just standing there…though our tiaras were sadly left at home.
- Manneken Pis: The cheeky little statue of a boy… relieving himself. Seby and I couldn't resist snapping a selfie with this iconic symbol of Brussels' irreverent spirit. It's quirky, it's fun, and a must-see.
- Atomium: This futuristic structure, resembling an iron crystal magnified 165 billion times, offers panoramic views of the city. We felt like we were in a sci-fi movie…minus the alien invasions. It's a bit out of the city center, but worth the trip for the views.
- Royal Palace of Brussels: While the King doesn't actually live here, the palace is used for official functions and is open to the public during the summer.
- Mont des Arts: This cultural hub offers stunning gardens and a concentration of museums. It felt romantic strolling here together soaking in the art and the views.
14. What are the best foods to try in Brussels?
Brussels is a culinary playground. Seby and I indulged in every bite. Here are our top must-try dishes:
- Fries (Frites): Forget “French” fries, these Belgian beauties are double-fried in animal fat for that perfect crispy exterior and fluffy interior. We devoured them with a dollop of mayo…because counting calories in Brussels is like counting glitter at Pride: completely pointless!
- Waffles: Brussels offers two main types – the light, crispy Brussels waffle and the denser, caramelized Liège waffle. We tried both (for science) and topped them with everything from whipped cream to chocolate. Our verdict? Waffle calories don't count…
- Moules-Frites: The national dish—steamed mussels served with a side of crispy fries. We enjoyed moules-frites at a local brasserie, savoring every briny bite and soaking up the broth with bread. It's seafood bliss.
- Belgian Chocolate: Brussels is the chocolate capital of the world, and we made it our mission to sample pralines from every chocolatier we passed. The rich, velvety textures and inventive flavors were pure decadence.
- Speculoos: These spiced shortcrust biscuits are a Belgian staple. We enjoyed them with coffee, and Seby may have smuggled a jar of speculoos spread in his suitcase. No regrets.
- Stoofvlees (Carbonnade Flamande): A hearty beef stew simmered in Belgian beer, offering a rich, sweet-sour flavor. We found it to be the ultimate comfort food, especially when paired with, you guessed it, more fries.
15. What are the best day trips to do from Brussels?
If you’re in Brussels and have a day to spare, do yourself a favor and visit Ghent and Bruges—two picture-perfect cities that feel like stepping into a fairy tale (but with better beer).
Ghent is a quirky mix of medieval charm and modern flair. Seby and I wandered along its dreamy canals, marveled at the stunning Gravensteen Castle, and devoured some of the best waffles of our lives. It’s vibrant, artsy, and just the right amount of weird—much like us, really.
Bruges is basically a postcard come to life. Cobblestone streets, chocolate shops on every corner, and canals so pretty they’ll make Venice jealous. We even climbed the Belfry Tower, though Seby complained about the stairs the entire time.
To hit both cities in one go, this Ghent and Bruges day tour is a no-brainer—someone else does the planning, you do the exploring (and the snacking). Honestly, the hardest part is deciding how much chocolate to bring home…
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