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Best gay tours in Tokyo for LGBTQ travelers

Stefan Arestis
Best gay tours in Tokyo for LGBTQ travelers

Here are the top gay tours in Tokyo for LGBTQ travelers to get to know the city.

An urban jungle of intense energy, electric colors, and lights. Yet it all flows together in an impressive orderly manner, with absolutely nothing out of place.

This is Tokyo. It's mad, like nothing you'll ever experience! A frenetic city of almost 15 million people, yet somehow doesn't ever feel crowded – unless you take the metro at rush hour…try this just once to experience it, but otherwise, to be avoided!

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Every time we visit Tokyo it always feels like a culture shock and we love it! It gives us everything we want no matter how many times we visit. As a bonus, it has a terrific gay scene with over 300 gay bars crammed in the tiny Shinjuku Ni-Chome district. We recommend checking out our detailed gay guide to Tokyo for more about this.

Whether you've been to Tokyo before or this is your first time, there are a variety of excellent gay tours you can join to explore the best the city has to offer from experiencing the Shinjkuku gay scene with a local LGBTQ guide or learning about the city's history with an LGBTQ focus. We've put together some of the best gay tours in Tokyo for LGBTQ travelers to check out right here:

Heads up: We just wanted to let you know that this post contains affiliate links. That means if you book something through one of those links, we'll get a small commission, at no extra cost to you. It helps us keep our blog going – so thank you in advance for your support! ♥

Explore Japan with a gay group by joining a gay tour by Out Adventures

Experience Japan on a gay tour

Psst! Want in on a secret? Our friends at Out Adventures recently launched a super kawaii tour of Japan. On this all-gay foray, travelers will ride the Shinkansen bullet train between Osaka, Kyoto, and Tokyo. Highlights include a street food tour, samurai experience, a night in an authentic onsen, and an evening in Tokyo's gay district, Shinjuku Ni-chōme.

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Then and Now: Tokyo LGBTQ cultural tour

Learn about Tokyo's gay history and explore both the old and new gay neighbourhoods on this fun informative tour

See Tokyo's juxtaposition of old and new with an emphasis on the gay scene's history.

If you'd like to explore gay Tokyo without quite so much focus on bars and drinking (although still with a little bit included!) then you'll love this historic tour. What we like about it is that as well as exploring the Ni-Chome gay area, you also get to discover a completely different neighborhood – Asakusa.

Sometimes it's quite nice to venture beyond the gay scene eh?

But in all seriousness, Asakusa is one of Tokyo's cultural hubs, with some pretty impressive temples to check out, especially the Sensō-ji Buddhist temple (dedicated to the bodhisattva Kannon in case you were wondering!) Dinner at a local restaurant is also included as part of this tour – eat the way they do: lots of tasty yakitori washed down with a few highballs and some Asahi cold beers!

Once culture and dinner is over, the gay tour concludes with an exploration of the gay area including a few local bars. At this point of the tour, we suggest gay nerds (like our Seby) tell their guide they want to explore one of the many gay books and game stores. Our guide was so knowledgeable about gay history in Japan and explained everything in a very entertaining way – full of animation, camp as tits! Towards the end of the evening, he concluded the tour by giving us pointers on the hottest bars and clubs to check out that evening.

STAY WITH A GAY LOCAL

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Private LGBTQ Tokyo tour

You can even organise a private gay tour of Tokyo (and other Japanese cities) based on your personal interests

What can we say, we love some personalised attention!

For those of you who don't quite fancy any of the previous gay group tours, there's always the option to get a personalized itinerary made just for you! They're more pricey, but it's the best way to explore the city with a friendly LGBTQ guide who'll take you to places you'll love based on your interests.

Whether you want to visit the gay bars and clubs of Shinjuku or just be shown around the best shops in the Harajuku district, you'll be able to feel completely comfortable in the company of your own personal gay guide who'll quickly feel like your new sister.

Some suggestions of how to tailor such a tour…if you want to explore Japan's culture and history, ask them to take you to a real-life sumo wrestling match, or visit comic-book stores in the geeky Akihabara district. And our favorite: experience the feel of being in a traditional Japanese onsen. This is super relaxing as well as the perfect cure for jet lag!

This company also organizes private gay tours in cities other than Tokyo like Osaka, Kyoto, Nara, and Kobe.

This is your personalised itinerary for your next holiday to Japan

Your personalised gay friendly itinerary to Japan

We've teamed up with the excellent gay travel agency OUT Asia to offer our readers an exclusive 5% discount off the total cost of any trip to Japan you book with them. They specialise in crafting tailored trips and itineraries for LGBTQ travelers to Japan.

Fill out this form to get a personalized itinerary for your upcoming trip to Japan with OUT Asia and get an exclusive 5% discount off the total cost.

You can also contact OUT Asia directly, but don't forget to mention the promo code NOMADIC5 to get a 5% discount.

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Gay tour of Japan that includes Tokyo

Gay tour of Japan with Out Adventures

Finally, Tokyo is only one (albeit very big) part of why we love Japan so much. Other cities and destinations in The Land of the Rising Sun that are worth a visit include Osaka, Kyoto, Nara, and Hakone. If you're looking to get a taste of the megalopolis before ticking off a few of these other well-known destinations, Out Adventures offers an excellent all-gay tour.

On their overview tour, you'll ride the Shinkansen bullet train between three major bases: Kyoto, Osaka, and Tokyo. From these three cities, you'll discover the country's big city vibe and zen countryside.

Some of the tour's most exciting activities include boarding a pirate boat on Lake Ashi to view Mt. Fugi, a street food tour in Osaka’s Dotonburi District, and (our favorite) a samurai experience where you'll dress up as and learn about Japanese samurais. Of course, the tour wraps in Tokyo and includes many highlights mentioned in the previous tours.


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Stefan Arestis

Hey everyone, I'm Stefan, the curly-haired Greek flavor behind the gay travel blog Nomadic Boys. Together with my other half, I have explored more than 100 countries and visited all 7 continents. What I love most about traveling is discovering the local gay scene, making new friends, learning new cultures. I've written about LGBTQ travel in numerous online publications such as Gaycation Magazine, Gaycities, Gay Times and Pink News as well as for other non-gay-specific publications including Lonely Planet, The New York Times, The Guardian, and The Huffington Post. Check my full bio here.

Liam Grieg

Sunday 28th of January 2024

Great article, perfect for us gays top notch.

Stefan Arestis

Wednesday 31st of January 2024

Thank you :)