Gay Langkawi: a pink travel guide to the Jewel of Kedah

Gay Langkawi: a pink travel guide to the Jewel of Kedah

For most gay travellers, Muslim countries like Malaysia are not necessarily high up there of places to visit. Technically, under Malaysian law, we’re seen as criminals and this ungodly practice (!) of ours becomes very hush hush and hidden away.

But get to Langkawi and a whole new way of thinking kicks in.

Enjoying the beautiful outdoor pool at Temple Tree

Enjoying the beautiful outdoor pool at Temple Tree

There was us thinking we would not be welcomed if we rocked up as gay travel bloggers promoting pink tourism in Langkawi. But to our surprise, every single place we visited in Langkawi was very enthusiastic and excited to welcome us as a gay couple visiting their shores.

In any case, Langkawi has always had a reputation as being more liberal and relaxed than mainland Malaysia. For example, its politicians have always fought to maintain its duty free status (a savvy move, which has helped boost tourism a great deal over the years).

Following our 2 weeks on Langkawi, here’s what we thought of her, in our gay friendly travel guide of Langkawi.

SO WHERE EXACTLY IS LANGKAWI?

Langkawi is an archipelago of 104 islands in the Andaman Sea, located in the state of Kedah, 30km off the mainland coast of Northwestern Malaysia near the Thai border.

Map of Langkawi Southeast Asia

Map of Langkawi in Southeast Asia

It was officially renamed Langkawi Permata Kedah, meaning Langkawi the Jewel of Kedah, as part of the golden jubilee of the Sultan of the Kedah State in 2008. But on 14th June 2015, this nickname was temporarily hijacked and stolen by Sebastien when he arrived on the island…

Sebastien Jewel of Kadah, in Gay Langkawi

Sebastien: the new Jewel of Kedah

We stayed on the largest island in the Langkawi archipelago called Pulau Langkawi (Pulau means island in Malay), which has some great beaches with some very dramatic waves.

Sebastien Poseidon waves of gay Langkawi

Sebastien Poseidon – King of the Waves on Langkawi island

FABULOUS PLACES TO STAY IN GAY LANGKAWI

We stayed at a variety of beautiful and very gay friendly places during our stay on Langkawi island:

FRANGIPANI LANGKAWI   Book online

  • Excellent eco friendly resort, located right by the beach.
  • Offering both mid range options and luxury suites with a private Jacuzzi:
Private Jacuzzi in the Thai Suite

Your own private Jacuzzi in the Thai Suite

  • The Frangipani also has a gym for fitness enthusiasts as well as a chlorine and salt-water swimming pool, great for pre buffet breakfast laps.
  • Prices start from $120 / £80 for a double bed.
Stefan at the Frangipani Langkawi salt water pool

Stefan taking a break after a morning swim at the Frangipani Langkawi salt water pool

AMBONG AMBONG   Book online

  • The most romantic and gay friendly place to stay in Langkawi.
  • Located in the middle of the jungle on a hill, the private luxury apartments offer stunning views across the island and the Andaman Sea from their private open-air balconies:
Our wooden bath in our outdoor room at gay friendly Ambong Ambong

The wooden bath in our open plan room was great for an evening pot of tea with your loved one at Ambong Ambong

  • Prices start from $180 / £120 for a private studio.
  • Waking up to this view in the morning from your window makes it even more special:
Morning view from bedroom at gay friendly Ambong Ambong

Our view from our bed every morning at Ambong Ambong

BON TON RESORT   Book online

  • Chic and gay friendly boutique hotel split into two parts and made from antique restored villas.
  • One of the best outdoor swimming pools we’ve encountered in our travels. It is made from concrete, giving it an earthy and very natural feel.
  • Prices start from $110 / £70 for a double bed.
Outdoor pool Temple Tree Sebastien on gay langkawi

Sebastien enjoying the outdoor pool of gay friendly boutique hotel Temple Tree

BARS AND CLUBS IN GAY LANGKAWI

There is no official gay scene as we know it, but we encountered a number of local gays, who are out of the closet, living happily and very openly within this island society.

  • Sunba was the main gay hangout, located on the Southwestern part of the island. It attracts a variety of expats as well as locals. It’s not officially a gay bar, but seems to attract the majority of local gays.
Sebastien discovering the gay scene of Langkawi

Sebastien with cocktail and frangipani flower

  • One Love is a bar almost opposite Sunba with very friendly staff and great cocktails. Like Sunba, it’s not officially a gay bar, but we noticed many local gays gathering on the dance floor later in the evening.
Cocktails at gay friendly One Love bar

Enjoying the awesome cocktails at One Love bar and loving this sign

WHERE TO EAT IN GAY LANGKAWI?

  • Sun Café: the staff here are really friendly and make you feel like family from the moment you set foot in the door. We recommend their Supreme Pizza, Barracuda fillet and delicious chocolate lava cake.
Sun Cafe gay friendly staff

Hanging out with the very gay friendly staff of Sun Cafe in Langkawi

  • Red Sky: is headed up by the very friendly Chef Ben who specialises in fusion Malay and Western food like durian crème brûlée. The lamb shank is popular and for good reason.
Chef Ben with Stef and Seb

Posing with the awesome Chef Ben of Red Sky

Stefan with sushi meal at Unkaizan

Stefan with his sushi meal at the Unkaizan Japanese restaurant

GAY FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES ON LANGKAWI ISLAND

There’s so much to do on Langkawi to keep everyone of all budgets and ages entertained.

1. ROMANTIC SUNSET CRUISE

Boat cruises around the island are very popular and there are a number of companies to choose from. The following are the ones we encountered who were willing and open to receive us on board as a gay couple.

  • Damai Indah sunset cruise: an excellent option for couples looking for a luxury and romantic sunset boat experience. The Damai Indah only takes a handful of people on board and being a small boat, can access more secluded beaches, which the larger tour company boats cannot.
Sunset cruise with gay friendly Damai Indah

Enjoying a romantic sunset in Langkawi with Damai Indah

We cannot recommend Damai Indah highly enough: the crew on board are so friendly and welcoming, particular the very charismatic German owner Eva. The food on board was also delicious.

Eva of Damai Indah serving food on board

The amazing owner of Damai Indah, Eva, with her proud, er, boat and really tasty food onboard

  • Tropical Charters: offer good budget tours for up to 60 people as well as boarder ferry crossings to our favourite Thai island, Koh Lipe.
Stefan happy in Koh Lipe

Stefan Happy in Lipe’s walking street

2. LEARN TO COOK WITH THE BEST

Malaysia is all about food. Malaysians of all races will proudly tell you all about the different foods you can go face down in. Naturally, we were only to happy to listen.

A cooking course in Malaysia is a must and while staying at the awesome Ambong Ambong, we did a cooking course with celebrity Chef Anuar Hassan, learning to cook fish cakes wrapped in banana leaves, chicken rendang and pandan pancakes. The ingredients were picked fresh from the herb garden of Ambong Ambong.

This is a must for any foodies travelling to Langkawi.

Stefan with pandan pancakes

Stefan showing off freshly made pandan pancakes with Chef Anuar

3. CYCLING THROUGH LANGKAWI’S COUNTRYSIDE

Langkawi has a large patch of rainforest and paddy fields. As a tourist it’s easy to miss this, staying in your resort or beach and a cycling tour is one of the best ways to see more of the island.

We found Dev’s Adventure Tours on Tripadvisor who have mainly excellent reviews and for good reason! Our guide, Khirien is a local, who took us out as a group of 5 people on sturdy mountain bikes.

We cycled through the jungle countryside and paddy fields of Langkawi. It’s got some stunning scenery, just begging to be photographed:

Cycling tour through Langkawi paddy fields

Worker in the paddy fields of Langkawi

We also stopped at several local markets along the way to try a variety of yummy Malaysian prizes like nasi lemak (rice cooked in coconut milk and topped with shrimp paste), rambutan fruit and other lovely delights:

Cycling tour local market visit in Langkawi

Visiting the local market during our cycling tour with Dev’s Adventures on Langkawi

4. PANORAMIC VIEW OF LANGKAWI

The Langkawi cable car and Sky Bridge is a fun day out with some great views across the island and surrounding archipelago from 700 metres high on Mount Machinchang. It is reached by car rental (if using) or taxi.

Admission is 35 ringgits per person (around £6 / $9) and a further 5 ringgits (£1 / $1.5) to cross the sky bridge at the top. It gets quite busy, but the views from the top make it worthwhile.

Sky Bridge view of Langkawi

The view of lovely Langkawi from the Sky Bridge

5. A DAY OF ROMANCE AND LUXURY AT THE BEST SPA ON LANGKAWI

The Four Seasons Langkawi Hotel has an excellent Geo Spa offering treatments, inspired by the ancient healing energies of the nearby Geopark.

We tried the signature massage, Urut Melayu. This is an ancient Urut-inspired techinque used by Malays for generations to relieve tension and unify the mind with the body.

Sebastien and massage girls at The Four Seasons Langkawi

Sebastien with our massage girls at the Four Seasons spa

After 60 minutes of pure bliss, the massage was followed by the ‘Raja Ratu’ (meaning King and Queen) ritual.

The Raja Ratu is a bonding ceremony, where two spirits are unified by the sound of chants, with flower petals decorating the lovers, symbolising their love for each other.

A truly special and unforgettable moment and proof that Langkawi is surprisingly very gay friendly!

Lover ritual Four Seasons massage

Uniting spirits during the lovers ritual after our massage

For more about our adventures through Malaysia, please check out our Malaysia travel video:

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28 Comments

  1. Langkawi is just gorgeous! I love your photos, especially the one in the waves. 🙂

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    • Thanks Katie xx

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  2. Great blog, with super photos and interesting information. One thing that you might think of adding is the price of hotels/spas/meals – even roughly – as it would be good to know how much you paid for the luxury appartment and the pricey Japanese dinner!

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    • Actually that’s a really good point, thanks Wilfrid, will do! xxxx

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      • Fabulous and detailed review guys! Most of your tropical tastings are high end budget-wise for those wanting costings. Most are what I also recommend to guests as they are very very good value for money as the quality and quantity of experience is superb. The Ringgit is generally much weaker comparing Forex rates so travelers get so much more bang for their buck. If you’re ever back in our area though , please contact me and I’ll put you in touch with a great local guy who will take you to places not on the typical tourist guide and are unbelievably budget orientated. This is not a self-serving plug as he’s just a great friend who under values himself. (yes yes, I nag him)

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        • Thanks Liz xx

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  3. This is awesome! Hope to see you guys soon back here in PH. I love you both. Kiss

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    • Thanks Nants xxxx

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      • Keep it up boys! iloveyou 😉

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  4. Durian creme brulee, oh my, that would Sebi’s favourite wouldn’t it?!! Hahah!

    Missing you both, xx

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    • Ha ha ha – yes of course, he couldn’t enough of it Hani 🙂 We missing you lots too xxxxx

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  5. What a fantastic blog guys. You are clearly having the time not just of your lives but of several other people thrown in for good measure! Your last post on this part of the trip was really quite moving as well as very romantic. Take care and continue to have exciting and adventurous travels. (like you need me to tell you that!) 🙂 x

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    • Awwww thanks Nick xx

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  6. I love, love, love the photos you guys take. You make everything and everywhere look like so much fun!

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    • Awww thanks Chris – can’t wait to meet you in person in BKK in October xx

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  7. Hi guys ..I simply love your pics…Lived in Langkawi from 2004-2008 as I used to work at Four Seasons Resort Langkawi as its PR Manager…and back again Langkawi 2011-2013 at Seri Chenang Resort & Spa Langkawi…..also as its PR Manager…are you guys still in Malaysia? Let me know as am based now in Kuala Lumpur….

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    • Thanks Warren. We are now eating our way around Sabah. Where do you work now?

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  8. Great write up on Langkawi! Glad you went the personal FAM trip route, because it’s so much more diverse and you made some great ala carte selections. Looking forward to seeing you both in Bangkok!

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  9. Beautiful! The island looks nice too ,,,

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    • Ha ha – thanks Nick 🙂

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  10. You guys are the coolest guys in the world, keep it up. You know how to have fun. Glad i met you in Silom on New Years Eve.

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    • Awwwww thanks Edsel – we too xxxxx

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  11. QUE HERMOSOS LUGARES SALUDOS DE MEXICO

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    • Gracias Maertin. De donde a Mexico eres? xx

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  12. Fantastic post guys, have really encouraged to choose Langkawi next year. May I ask what time of year you went and what the weather was like? Thanks!

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    • Thanks buddy. We went in July/August time and it was perfect 🙂

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  13. This is exactly what we needed to see ?????????? We’re in KL now and flying to langkawi tomorrow morning and weren’t very sure about the gay life over there or the people in general , but this post gave us an insight of the place ???thank you.

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    • So pleased to help!

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