Gay Tokyo: travel guide to Tokyo’s best gay bars, clubs and hotels

Tokyo ranks as one of our legit favorite destinations ever! It's clean, extremely safe, the people just impeccable, foodgasms galore, and a fantastic gay scene with over 300 gay bars in Shinjuku's Ni-Chōme district!

Put it this way, Tokyo is so fabulous, even the gorgeous Queer Eye Fab Five team made it over here and filmed a few episodes exploring the queer culture of Japan.

We've visited Tokyo several times over the past few years and experienced the best Tokyo's gay scene has to offer. We've put together our LGBTQ travel guide to Tokyo based on our first-hand experience to help you have a fabulous holiday there.

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How safe is Tokyo for gay travelers?

Short answer, extremely safe! Whether you're straight or gay, Japan is one of the safest places on the planet: crime is low, and people are extremely respectful, particularly towards foreigners visiting. At no stage did we ever feel unsafe in Tokyo.

As a gay couple traveling in Tokyo, we repeat, we felt just as safe. Whilst Japanese society is very conservative towards LGBTQ rights, they are extremely respectful towards foreigners and Japanese people will do their absolute best to make you feel welcome. Getting a double bed was never an issue in any of the places we stayed in Tokyo, whether a local guesthouse or a hotel.

In our humble opinion, we rate Japan as one of the most gay friendly countries in Asia. Japan is one of the few countries in Asia that has truly started to accept and protect its LGBTQ community to the point where it's opened the door to gay civil unions, particularly in some of the District Courts of Tokyo. More recently, in October 2024, a second high court ruled that Japan's ban on gay marriage is unconstitutional – a crucial stepping stone to achieving marriage equality…watch this space!

One thing we guarantee, Tokyo is one fascinating destination you will fall in love with and will want to return to again and again. We certainly did!

What's the best gay app to use in Japan?

Grindr is the #1 app to use to meet both fellow LGBTQ+ travelers and locals. But if you just want to connect with gay locals then we recommend checking out 9monsters.

Our local gay friends in Tokyo told us that if they want to meet with foreign gay guys, they'll go on Grindr but if they want to meet with Japanese men, then 9monsters is their go-to.

The gay neighborhood of Tokyo

The gay area of Tokyo is mainly congregated in Shinjuku's Ni-chōme (Area 2) where all the action happens. Shinjuku is a major transport, located in Central Tokyo, towards the west of the famous Imperial Palace. The station itself is like a mini-city, with over 200 exits, serving over 3 million people daily, making it the world's busiest station.

Shinjuku is so big that it's directly connected to 5 other nearby stations, so we recommend planning where you're heading beforehand, otherwise you'll get completely lost! We advise downloading the Tokyo subway map on your smartphone or viewing it here.

Ni-Chōme is a small area in Shinjuku, forming the hub of the gay scene. Our local Japanese friends nickname it “Nicho”. The 2 closest metro stations to the Nicho Tokyo gay scene are:

• Shinjuku-Sanchome: served by 3 lines: the Marunouchi, Fukutoshin and Toei Shinjuku lines
• Shinjuku-Gyoenmae: served by the Marunouchi Line only.

Fun gay tour of Tokyo

Tokyo's gay scene can be quite overwhelming, so it pays to have a private gay guide to show you around.

On this tour, you'll be picked up by your gay guide who will show you the best of Tokyo's gay nightlife through the eyes of a local. You'll experience Tokyo’s LGBT-friendly neighborhoods, bars, restaurants, and even bookshops. Best of all, this tour is capped at just six people, so it's very intimate!

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Gay hotels in Tokyo

Over the years, we've visited Tokyo several times and stayed in many places with varying budgets. Below are our favorite gay-friendly options in Shinjuku and around. For a more in-depth guide, check out our best gay hotels in Tokyo.

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Imperial Hotel Tokyo

The location is fantastic, too—it’s in Hibiya, so it’s easy to get anywhere, including a quick trip to Shinjuku’s Ni-chome for the gay nightlife. After a night out, coming back to the calm and luxury here was such a treat. The staff is professional and warm, and we felt totally welcomed as a couple. Yes, it’s a splurge, but if you’re looking to experience the best of Tokyo in style, the Imperial is worth every yen.

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HOTEL & SPA J-MEX Shinjuku Kabukicho

The bed is huge with mirrors strategically installed to create (ahem!) content(!) and a control system to operate the intricate light and sound system! The reason? This is a Love Hotel, for young couples who want a private space to hangout away from their families. It can be rented by the hour or for the night.

It’s also a short skip and a hop to the gay bars of Shinjuku – when I did it, it took me around 15 minutes. The bonus, it’s super gay friendly, carrying the BookingCom #TravelProud certification so you know you’ll be in fabulous hands here.

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The Hyatt Regency

The pool, Jacuzzi, and gym are located high up so you can work out with a beautiful view. We particularly loved the penthouse wellness sanctuary where you can swim under a skylight roof.

There are no fewer than seven restaurants in the hotel, including authentic French cuisine at Cuisine Michel Troisgros, sushi at Miyako, and traditional Chinese dishes at Jade Garden.

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Imano Hostel

There are mixed and single-gender dorms available, as well as family rooms or traditional Japanese-style rooms. The communal relaxation areas are great here, indeed the whole place has a very fun vibe, and regular social activities are organized by the friendly staff. The on-site cafe and bar are also a great place to chill out, socialize, or have a snack.

Gay bars in Tokyo

Shinjuku's Ni-Chōme is famous for having the world's highest concentration of gay bars with over 300 crammed together into unremarkable blocks. If this is your first time in Tokyo, we highly recommend you join this tour with a local gay guide, who will show you the best gay hangouts in one evening. We've listed below our favorite gay bars in Tokyo.

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Arty Farty

One of the most popular gay bars of Tokyo, attracting an after-work crowd and people coming for pre-drinks before heading to sister club Annex next door (if you get your hand stamped here then you can also go to Annex for no extra cost). It attracts a fun crowd which is an even mix of foreigners and locals. There's a dance floor and the place gets packed on the weekends. With all the smoke and sweaty bodies, this is also a good spot to hook up! Arty Farty is open every day till 1 am and is located at 2-chōme-11 Shinjuku.

Campy! Bar

An uber-cool, colorful, and welcoming bar, run by celebrity cross-dresser called “Bourbonne”. The staff is all dolled up in drag, which adds to the fun atmosphere. It also has really funny shows taking place throughout the evening. Campy! is welcoming to all people, no matter their gender or who they're attracted to, so you can bring your straight friends along as well. It's the ideal spot to start your night, have a few drinks and laughs then continue to explore Tokyo's gay scene. Campy! is open every day till midnight and is located at 2-13-10 Shinjuku, Shinjuku-ku.

AiiRO Cafe Bar

AiiRO is a popular gay bar for drinks any day of the week that's open till late. It is easily identifiable by the large “Torri” (Japanese Shrine) outside and the patrons that spill out onto the street because it gets so full! Look out for their 1,000 yen ($9) Beer Blast all-you-can-drink happy ‘hour', daily between 6-9 pm. They have drag queens and GoGo boy performers on the weekends, plus everyone you meet is just so friendly, whether it's the staff or other visitors. AiiRO is open every day until 2 am and on weekends until 5 am. It's located at 2-18-1 Shinjuku 7th Tenka Building 1F, Shinjuku.

Eagle Tokyo

The Eagle gay bar group has become an institution in Japan. This was their flagship bar, in early 2024 they opened a new one in the Doyamo-cho gay scene of Osaka. Eagle organizes Japan's largest drag show called, Opulence, as well as Japan's largest gay party – Agartha. Eagle Tokyo gay bar is open every evening until around 1 am (4 am on weekends). It is located at Shinjuku 2-12-3, Shinjuku-ku, Tokyo, 1600022 – basically in a small alley in Shinjuku Ni-Chome featuring the ‘Jiraiya” mural inside.

Alamas Cafe

The same guys from AiiRO Cafe are also behind this spot, which is more of a gay restaurant/cafe/bar mix but still totally fun! There's a DJ booth so you can listen to some tunes, perhaps while fortifying yourself for a big night of partying with some delicious green curry, tom yung goong, fried chicken, or waffles. There are also plenty of yummy alcoholic drinks available, so this is a wonderful way to begin your evening in a truly inclusive open-air cafe. Alamas is open every day from 6 pm until 2 am (or 5 am on weekends) and is located at 2-12-1 Shinjuku Garnet Building 1F.

FTM Bois Bar

A free atmosphere, cute trans guys, free karaoke, free popcorn…what's not to love? FTM Bois is an excellent event for the transexual community run by FTM cutie – Mizuki. The small cover charge also covers the cost of your first two drinks, at this fun event which takes place in the LGBTQ bar Gold Finger. Gold Finger also hosts women-only nights (Saturdays) and is open for all LGBTQ+ community members the rest of the time. FTM Bois is held on Mondays and every third Sunday of the month, from 6 pm until 2 am at 2-12-11 Shinjuku Hayashi Building 1F, Shinjuku.

Usagi Bar

Usagi is an example of one of the many tiny gay bars of Tokyo. From the outside, it looks like you're visiting your friend's apartment. You open the door and enter into a warm, friendly atmosphere, which is a gay bar, complete with karaoke! It is centered around the super charismatic barman, Mr. Take-san, who is also the owner. His hilarious nickname in Japanese gay slang is mama-san! It's a very local crowd here, where everyone knows everyone. They sometimes bring home-cooked food to share around! Usagi Bar is open daily until around midnight and is located on the 4th floor at Shinjuku 2-10-2, Ebana Bldg 4F.

Gay clubs in Tokyo

We've set out below the main gay clubs in Tokyo we enjoyed the most, located in Shinjuku. For more up to date information about the latest gay parties taking place in Tokyo including Circuit-like events, we recommend checking the listings on DailyXtraTravel. You can also join this tour with a local gay guide, who will show you the best gay hangouts in Ni Chome.

New Sazae

This club is an institution on the Tokyo gay scene and one of the best for drag shows. It's one of the oldest, standing proud since 1966 when it was a “gay disco” bar. True to its roots, it's retained this feel and is one of the best clubs for a gay night out. It was Freddy Mercury's favorite gay club in Tokyo – each time he'd come here, he would famously proclaim (in Japanese): “I'm home!” This is also where the Queer Eye boys filmed one of their Japan episodes so you know it's where all the Antoni Porowski fans (ahem!) are gonna want to top up their Insta Stories! New Sazae is only open on Friday and Saturday evenings from around 10 pm until 7 am the next morning, and is located at 2F, 2-18-5 Shinjuku.

The Annex

One of the most popular gay clubs in Tokyo, owned by the same guys behind Arty Farty. It attracts a young crowd in their 20s and 30s. If you get stamped in Arty Farty, you can get in here free without paying entry twice. Look out for their Circuit after-parties on weekends which go till 11 am the next day. The Annex is open Monday to Saturday until around 4/5 am and is located at 1F Futami Bldg, 2-14-11 Shinjuku-ku.

Dragon Men

Dragon Men is one of the most famous gay clubs in Tokyo. It draws a mixed crowd of ex-pats, foreigners, and locals, basically anyone who is looking to have a few cocktails and get down on the dance floor. The very scantily clad (and cute) staff add to the popularity of this place! There's a happy ‘hour' of 200 yen off all drinks from Monday to Thursday 6-8 pm. Dragon Men is open every day until 3 am (on weekends until 5 am) and is located at 1/F Stork Nagasaki 2-11-4 Shinjuku Ni-Chome.

AiSOTOPE Lounge

It might be called a lounge but in actuality, this is the biggest gay club in Nichome, spread out over two floors with two different dance areas and even a dark room. It's run by the same people behind AiRRO Cafe Bar, and they host lots of dance parties including events that are men-only or women-only. The staff is super friendly, the cocktails are amazing and if you're looking to cruise or just get down on the dance floor to some house music, this is the spot for you! AiSOTOPE is open every day, there's always some type of event happening so check the schedule for more info. It's located at 2-12-6 Shinjuku-ku.

Gay events in Tokyo

The two main annual gay events in Tokyo are the city's Rainbow Pride in April and the Rainbow Reel Film Festival in July. We've also included other annual events and festivals that we think LGBTQ travelers would be interested in set out chronologically:

Tokyo Rainbow Pride (April)

Tokyo's Pride event takes place in late April with a week-long event called Rainbow Week. The climax is the large parade on the weekend, which culminates at Yoyogi Park with lots of booths and performances. There are also plenty of parties and events taking place throughout the week, so you'll have lots of ways to celebrate.

Rainbow Reel Tokyo (July)

The Rainbow Reel is the city's official LGBTQ film festival, which started in 1992. It's one of the oldest and largest film festivals of its kind held in Asia. Rainbow Reel Tokyo doesn't just show films about lesbian and gay people, but also films about people with different LGBTQ minorities such as transgender, intersexual, and bisexual people. It takes place every July, with a week-long program featuring LGBTQ films from around the world.

VITA Tokyo (December)

VITA is a dance club/nightclub that organizes fun gay dance parties throughout the year, although the most famous and popular is their “Year-End Party” in December. The parties are epic, with international DJs, dancers, and shows. During the year they also occasionally have pool parties! If you like circuit/house-style music you will want to experience a VITA event.

Gay Onsen and Gath Saunas in Tokyo

Onsens are the traditional Japanese bathhouses, where men and women are separated and nudity is kind of obligatory. There are several different baths to bathe in, of varying temperatures. Aside from the traditional onsen, there are also a few gay onsens to check out, mainly owned by the 24 Kaikan brand:

24 Kaikan Shinjuku

This is part of the gay onsen chain called 24 Kaikan, targeted more to cruising than traditional onsen. Spread out over 8 different floors there's a dry sauna, steam room, jacuzzi, solarium, video room, private cabins, snack room, and lockers. It's also one of the most popular cruising spots for gay men in Tokyo, so if you're looking for a hook-up, this is the right place! This branch of 24 Kaikan usually attracts a mixed crowd of internationals and Japanese, in the young to middle-age range. Located at 2-13-1 Shinjuku Ni-chome, 24 Kaikan Shinjuku is open 24/7.

24 Kaikan Ueno

Another Kaikan gay onsen located in the Ueno neighborhood, this one is slightly smaller than the Shinjuku location, but just as fun! There's a dry sauna, mist room, steam room, communal baths, solarium, video room, private cabins, and a common play area. This branch tends to attract more middle-aged men/bears and those who love them! It's located at 1 Chome 8-7, Kita, Ueno, and is also open 24/7.

JIN-YA

While the 24 Kaikan kind of dominates the gay onsen scene in Tokyo, there's also JIN-YA, a compact gay sauna that's arguably the most foreigner-friendly in the city. Facilities include a dry sauna, communal baths, play areas, a video room, and even a rooftop nude sunbathing terrace. It's open 24/7 and can be found at 2 Chome-30-19 Ikebukuro.

What to do in Tokyo?

We'll be honest, for us it's all about the food. We could just spend a lifetime eating our way around the streets of Tokyo! Beyond the food, Tokyo has so many different things to see and experiences to try out. But for us, dressing up as a geisha will forever be our #1 favorite memory from our trip to Tokyo. This is our list of some of the best things to do in Tokyo to inspire your travel planning:

Transform into a geisha

What better way to discover more about the elusive geisha than to transform into one at the Studio Geisha Cafe?

This is an experience of a lifetime and certainly one of our favorite unique things you can do in Tokyo. Read more about our own transformations here.

Discover Tokyo's gay nightlife

If you don't feel like going out to the gay bars by yourself then you could also join a Tokyo gay night tour which will introduce you to the best local gay bars.

Your guide takes you away from the main touristy bars so you can hang out with gay locals in the Shinjuku Nichome area.

One of the highlights includes a quirky basement bear bar run by a Japanese ex-pro-rugby player. You'll get a free drink in each of the three bars you visit, as well as being able to partake in some karaoke with your new friends.

Just remember, you need to be at least 20 years old to buy alcohol in Japan!

Sample some delicious Japanese food!

An excellent way to discover downtown Tokyo and dive straight into some of the best izakayas (gastropubs) is to join a food tour.

It can be hard figuring out the best places to eat, especially if you don't read kanji, so by joining a tour with a local guide you'll get to know the most delicious spots to enjoy delicious ramen, sushi, and more in the lively Shinbashi district.

This is where local workers wind down for an evening and during your tour, you'll sample dishes from four different food shops including a pancake place that only locals know about!

Visit an Onsen

A very traditional Japanese experience not to miss! An onsen is a public bath where you bathe in various pools of water sourced from hot springs.

They're the perfect way to conquer jet lag. Our favorite (non-gay) onsen is the Maenohara Onsen (1180 yen/$11 per person), the closest metro is Shimura-Sakaue Station.

We loved relaxing in the many different types of baths and saunas here.

Learn to cook Japanese Food

Japanese cuisine has become very popular around the world in recent decades and it's no surprise since it's divine!

While visiting Tokyo you need to learn to make sushi, bento boxes, and other traditional dishes in a cooking class so that you can show off your skills to friends back home.

We had so much fun at our Japanese cooking class, and we still like making different sushi dishes at home. Learning local cooking styles is also a great way to remember the places you've visited.

See the Shibuya Crossing

This famous pedestrian intersection outside Shibuya Station is the place to get a real feel of the immense world of Tokyo.

When the road signs turn red, an invasion of bodies takes over the entire area which is incredible to see.

If you want to get the quintessential shot of the crossing from above, head to Mag's Park; a viewing spot on top of the MAGNET by SHIBUYA 109 shopping complex.

It costs 300 yen to access the viewing spot which is open from 11 am until 11 pm daily.

Takeshita Street in Harajuku

This is the place to spot grown-up women dressed up as manga characters or schoolgirls, made famous worldwide by Gwen Stefani in the song “Harajuku Girls”.

Takeshita Street is also lined with shops if you want to pick up your adorable fashion pieces or just gape at the variety of Gothic Lolita dresses available.

Learn about Tokyo's history and culture

Make sure you don't miss Tokyo's many beautiful shrines, temples, and historic sites during your visit.

The Meiji Jingu Shinto Shrine and the Imperial Palace are two beautiful spots to experience Tokyo's past. Whilst we joined a sightseeing tour, next time we want to explore the historic area of Asakusa in a traditional rickshaw ride – how iconic would that be, right?!

It's not only a fun way to discover Asakusa's sights (like the famous Kaminari-mon Gate and Senso-ji Temple), but IMAGINE the awesome content you could create on a rickshaw…!

Tokyo's Coolest Museum

As culture vultures, we love a good museum or three! And Tokyo has some fantastic ones worth checking out.

One of the coolest and most famous modern art museums in Tokyo is the teamLab Planets Digital Art Museum. This museum uses digital projectors to create animated artworks which move on the walls, floors, and ceiling. We loved walking among the interactive art projections, which move in response to your arm movements.

This is a wondrous place to visit as well as the perfect spot to get some eclectic snaps for the ‘Gram.

Where to eat in Tokyo?

Tokyo is a paradise for foodies with lots to keep your tummy inspired and content. Below are our favorite eating experiences we recommend to gay travelers:

Sushi mania at Toyosu fish market

Tokyo is THE place to come for the best sushi, specifically at the restaurants around Toyosu – the world's largest fish market. The market caters to the nearby restaurants, so they inevitably serve up the most delicious, fresh sushi you'll ever try.

Izakayas

THey're gastropubs, after-work bars, popular with salary men, where you come to drink sake or highball (a Japanese drink of whisky and soda water) and order small inexpensive plates of food.

Point and hope! 

This became our favorite method of dining in Tokyo. In one unassuming bar we impulsively went to, Sebastien pointed to this item at random, which turned out to be a delicious plate of tempura:

Ramen bars

Ramen is a seriously delicious and highly contagious meat or vegetable-based broth with noodles and a variety of toppings. You can get a bowl from one of the many inexpensive ramen bars across the city, for as little as 800 yen ($8). For the best ramen bar, ask a local to point you in the direction of their favorite.

Kaiseki Japanese fine dining

Kaiseiki involves many small plates of delicious Japanese prizes presented like works of art. We tried the Kaiseki at the Shangri-La's Nadaman restaurant, an incredibly romantic setting, with dim lights, with jaw-dropping views of the city. One of the dishes at the Nadaman includes the very famous and incredibly scrumptious wagyu beef.

Gay Travel Agents in Japan

If you're looking for a gay-friendly travel company to organize your trip to Tokyo and the rest of Japan, we've partnered with Out Asia Travels, an excellent gay-owned travel agency, that offers tailored tours and itineraries.

These guys are locals, passionate travelers, and have a real insight into Japanese culture and the gay scene across the country. They are offering our readers an exclusive 5% discount for bookings of 7 days or more when you quote NOMADIC5 in your inquiry.

Before you go

We've put together some handy hints and tips to help you plan your trip to Tokyo. Read on to find out everything the gay traveler should know before they go.

Tokyo gay map

This is a detailed map of Gay Tokyo which includes our favorite gay friendly hotels, gay bars, and clubs as well as the best things to do in Tokyo:

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For more inspiration:

• First time to Japan? Plan your trip with our 10-day itinerary to Japan post
• Find out how to spend 2 days in Hiroshima
• As well as what to do in Kyoto 
• Salivate over our 10 favorite traditional Japanese foods
• Then try our recipe for Japanese green tea cake
• Or perhaps you'd like to try your hand at making yummy yaki udon?
• We even have a recipe for delicious chicken ramen!
• Don't miss out on visiting the Yaeyama Islands while you're in Japan
• Find out the best scuba diving spots in Asia
• As well as what it's like to travel through Asia as a gay couple
• Traveling further in Asia? Check out our gay country guide to Sri Lanka

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